Can you explain to me why some men are ladies men and some are not?
Been a ladies man is a skill you can develop. some men are called naturals. But is not that they were born that way. Its because of the ambient they were raised on. Want to be a ladies man? Here are 10 steps:1) Lift weights/Cardio/Proper nutrition Lower body fat to 10 % to have six pack abs. 2) Get a designer haircut, not your typical barber.3) Learn about men fashion, get fit clothes that fit your frame (Don’t even think about this till you have 10% to 15% bodyfat.4)Work on your voice, You don’t need the deepest manliest voice but you need to be heard clear. Speak slowly and make yourself be heard.5) Work on your body language. Way you walk, your posture, way you stare. You can learn a lot form portrait photography,movies, and acting/modeling classes.6)Increase your social caliber. You can only do this by practicing, you talk to so many people that it becomes second nature and you can talk to even stranger woman like it was normal. At first it will be nerve breaking but after a 100 time you approach a woman it will be easy.7) Money ( you need money for your own place in a central place in a city,transportation,clothes, and dates.) Invest it mostly on yourself not on woman.8) Learn to be good at listening. Woman don’t care about what you tell them. She don’t consider it a investment. What counts as investment to women is what they tell you about themselves. Most men try to hard to impress women and don’t even let them speak. Big mistake…9) Be very clear with woman with your intention. If you desire her sexually tell her. Don’t act like a friend. Tell her you want want her as woman not as friend. If she interested work on increasing her attraction if she not attracted move to the next woman. 8 out of 10 woman will reject you. Ladies men know this so they move fast from woman who are not interest in them. If a woman feels no attraction for you no matter what you do she will never be attracted to you. The more time you invest in a woman who is not attracted the more it will lower the attraction and the deeper you go in the friendzone.10) Be Passionate,dominant,persistent and calm.Bonus tip:Focus on woman who you are their type!For example some woman are into a certain race target those woman instead. You will be a 10 in their eyes even if you are below average to woman of your race.
Can someone explain to me why this guy looked at me like this?
Ok so something odd happened at the gym yesterday... So I walked into the gym and I saw this guy I knew. He saw me and he looked shocked to see me (like he had this "WTF is she doing here" face like I'm creepy or something). He left about 10 mins later.. Did he leave because of me?? I think this guy thinks I like him or something and that I was at the gym being creepy! While this guy is cute, the only way I know him is that I have a class with him. I don't know why he would think I like him because I've never looked at him or tried to talk to him before, during, or after class! Whenever I see him around campus or in class I see him noticing me (he turns his head as he walks by me) but I've never acknowledged him more than a mere passing glance. WTF is going on here?! Why does this guy think I like him? Why does he look at me like I'm creepy when I've never even given him any indication I'm interested?! Help please!
How to explain a guy why you like him?
Ask yourself this question. If you really like him it shouldnt be hard. I was once asked this question by a guy I really cared about, but I didnt know how to reply because I was still alittle shy with him, but now we dont talk and i really miss him. I regret never properly awnsering his question. Dont make the same mistake. If he makes you laugh, smile, happy when your sad. Cares for you, makes you feel confident, hes cute, and funny, one of the nicest guys you have ever met, and you cant image yourself without him, if he is sweet and everything he does is adorible, and if he is a good person and a good friend, then you should tell him!!
How can you explain this guy's behavior?
Easy. He thinks you are a worthless person and by continuing to tolerate his disrespect to you, you suggest that you may not value yourself much either.I understand you like him and hopes he likes you, but he does not. In the meantime do some reading about self respect. The first time someone stands me up without apologizing as though their life depends on it- they are dead to me. I wasn't like this when I was younger, I was caring, sensitive, forgiving, understanding. I was also an idiot.
Can you explain why many guys have lots of female friends but no girlfriend?
I can from my experience and point of view...If a man has a lot of female friends and no girlfriend it can be that he doesn't like men because of the way men act toward woman and each other. Most men are pigs. They will cheat on their girl,try to sleep with any of their guy friends girlfriends,and will have sex with any girl that is willing. Ladies let me remind you that some guys will have sex with a farm animal.......Now the reason this man might not have a girlfriend is because he loves women,he listens to women,he respects women. But these women usually use this guy as a "back up guy" which means he is the perfect man that most girls talk about wanting to be with but usually date the person that is opposite of this. They use this guy to vent their problems and to make the boyfriend or ex jealous.Another reason is that it is a huge cockblock. A girl will think that a man with a lot of girls hanging around is sleeping with a lot of them . So she will not pursue him for lack of trust. Or maybe like most men he is just gay.
What does it mean when a man always explains why he didn't call?
This is goodThe fact is that he is predicting a concern you are likely to have. He didn't call back when he said he would and he knows it. When he explains A , b, and c, he is very likely just being honest about his situation.He honestly sounds like a good guy. He seems conscientious! If he is like this in relationships then it is totally consistent with this behaviour and situation at work. Why? Because he will also be conscientious in his work place. This means he will pay full attention with whatever he is doing and will do it well. Time will slip away very quickly for him!So then suddenly he remembers…. 'oh nooo! I said I'd call her back!’ then he does, and explains!I think you need to realise he's very likely a good guy who will work hard to keep you happy!Don't condem him for being considerate & Don't be so suspicious, just give him a chance!Trust and enjoy your chats with him! Tell him not to worry because you can see how busy he gets.He will appreciate your apparent considerate and accommodating attitude!Good luck!Basil SimonMusical life coach
Ladies: Can you explain to me what attracts you to some guys that smell like they haven't bathed in a month
LOL too funny! dunno....Id give my man a bath myself!
How do you explain to "nice guys" that what they're doing isn't actually nice and that they need to check themselves?
By letting them know that what they're doing is actually just straight up manipulation.Nice guys = passive, manipulative liars who attempt to trade niceness for intimate relationships/sex. Most men are hopelessly transparent with their intentions with women, but nice guys really take it to the next level.Jerks = assertive/aggressive suitors that share more character traits with a strong-minded option than nice guys.Strong-Minded Man = an assertive, strong-willed person who is unapologetically forthcoming with his desire, and is ready and willing to take no for an answer without resorting to manipulation or douche-baggery.So reading through the three descriptions, doesn’t it become clear that the nice guy option is a dead last?Also, you can't really let them know that what they're doing is wrong no more than they can convince you to sleep with them by being "nice". At a certain point you just have to cut them from your life and let them figure out how to express their desires from a place of integrity on their own.(Parts of the above are excerpts from my article Why Nice Guys Should Finish Last , which you could also send them to since it's blown open many a-nice guys' semi-persona in the past)