Is my girlfriend into her dog?
Me and my girlfriend were having sex and her dog was running around in the room and she paused for a second and got the dog on the bed and he started licking her P U S S Y and I was grossed out and soon enough she was having a dp with me and the dog and I was going to leave but she forced me to stay. I think they do it when I am not there, is she cheating on me ?
My Girlfriends dog gets on my nerves so bad?
Do you guys exercise him at all? If he gets tired he would probably be prone to lay down more rather than bother you at meals. As the dog whisperer says It sounds like the dog is the pack leader not your girlfriend. I wonder why she doesn't respect the special time you spend together and put the dog out of the room?
How to ask my girlfriend to get rid of her dogs?
You are not a dog person, but your girlfriend is. That is a divisive issue that a relationship is unlikely to survive as no woman with a backbone & an ounce of self-respect would agree to re-home their dogs because you don't like them. If you are so severely allergic to dog hair & dander then that begs the question why begin a relationship with a dog person, who owns three dogs?
How do you deal with men trying to hit on your girlfriend?
The other day, my husband and I were in the park walking our dog. The dog ran ahead and I chased her down only to run into a handsome man who immediately started chatting with me. He had a dog, too, and he started asking me about my dog and flirting with me a little. He was handsome, and I smiled and appreciated the attention.My husband, catching up, realized what was happening, and decided not to walk up to us.Once I had the dog under control, I thanked the man for his time, and I went back to my husband. He was standing off to the side with a crooked grin on his face.Him: “That guy was pretty good looking, huh?’Me: “Yes, he was.”Him: “He was flirting with you, wasn’t he?”Me: “Yes, I think he was.”Him: “I bet that made you feel good.”Me; “Yeah, that’s sort of a boost to my confidence.”Him: “Good for you, I love it when pretty girls try to flirt with me. Sorry I didn’t intervene. I figured you were enjoying yourself.”Me: “It was kinda fun.”Here’s the thing. If guys try to flirt with your girlfriend, it isn’t her fault. If she’s encouraging men to flirt with her, that doesn't necessarily mean that she’s doing anything wrong. If she enjoys the attention and likes it when men flirt with her, that doesn’t mean that she’s going to leave you, or cheat on you, even if they are more muscled than you.If you have insecurities, then that is your problem. If you don’t enjoy it when women flirt with you, and you try to push them away, that doesn’t mean that your girlfriend has to react the same way.There’s actually no reason why you should be upset when a guy flirts with your girlfriend. It’s perfectly reasonable to sit back and let her enjoy the attention, knowing that you will be the one who goes home with her. She is not insulting you by letting other men show her attention. She is not emasculating you, or dishonoring you, or snubbing you, when she enjoys receiving positive attention. If you feel that way, then you need to get over that feeling.You cannot and should not control your girlfriend’s behavior. You cannot and should not control what she enjoys and does not enjoy. If she enjoys the attention of men, if she enjoys being flirted with, then there isn’t anything you can do about it. If that is not something you will be able to handle, or don’t want to deal with, then find a girl who doesn’t like positive attention from men, and doesn’t like it when people flirt with her. They are out there.
How can I stop being jealous of my girlfriend?
i feel your pain, man.What a struggle, because your passion, she wants.Your possessiveness, she definitely does not need.Your comforting presence is a treasure.Your investigating her business and making up rules for her to follow is poisonous and will infuse your relationship with resentment and anger. Eventually, things will get ugy.Jealousy is all about you. It’s not about her. It’s about the imbalance inside. I’m going to say something that’s going to sound like transcendental information from loo loo land, but just bring awareness to your jealousy to bring it into focus.You need to see your jealousy, the size and the shape and the color of it, in order to do anything about it.Right now, you can’t separate your jealousy from your better emotions, like your faith in another human being to remain faithful.When you pause before you call her, just to ‘say hi’, not a ‘check up’ call. Think about whether your intention is to share a moment with her, or are you really trying to see what’s going on when you’re not around? That PAUSE to check, it’s how you bring your jealousy under control. You are watching it like the rabid dog it is.You should name it. Jealousy, the rabid dog who thinks he owns the whole street, not just his backyard. Name it and call him out when he’s pooping in someone else’s yard, when he’s barking at the postman, or when he’s trying to hump the neighbors dog.Yep, that last part is the clincher. The real reason you feel so insecure is you know within your heart of hearts what you would do if a girl like your girlfriend came along, too much time on her hands, feeling a little insecure about her relationship… That’s the ugly truth of Jealousy. You don’t feel faithful, so how could she?
My girlfriend wants to keep the dog, I don't. What do I do?
Okay, my girlfriend and I decided to get a Siberian Husky puppy about three months ago. I agreed. I knew the responsibilities and what would come with owning a husky, especially in an apartment. All went well until about two weeks ago when she decided she wants ANOTHER one. I told her that she was being irresponsible and that we don't have the space for two huskies. She pretty much guilt tripped me into getting the other dog. Well, we've had both of them for two weeks now..and it's chaos. They knock things over, play fight a lot, the little one isn't house broken so she pretty much uses my place as a toilet, has ripped up my carpet, etc etc etc. And oh, did I forget to mention that BOTH of them spend 24/7 at MY place? She says they can't stay at her place because she's always here and because she has a cat. I don't know what to do. I would NEVER give up the first Husky we got, I'm way too attached to him and he's a good little guy. But I really don't think we can handle the other puppy, and whenever I try and bring it up to my gf she either changes the subject of pretends to cry and says she's too attached to her already. What do I do you guys?
Would you give up a beloved dog or cat if your boyfriend or girlfriend wanted you to? I’m not talking about a married couple.
Honestly, it would depend on the situation. I’m thinking of a couple of examples.One is that last summer, I became the owner of my ex’s cat after she moved out. I enjoyed having that animal around; we spent every evening together. As it happened, my ex then decided to reclaim the feline, by visiting the apartment in the middle of the day and stating that he ‘didn’t look well.’ I had no choice - she snatched him up, and by the time I got home, the animal was gone.It was disappointing but not crushing.As it happened, my next girlfriend, who I met shortly after the last one moved out, was severely allergic to cats and also didn’t care for them. I once asked her, “If I still had a cat would you still be able to come over to the apartment? Would we still be dating?” The answer to both questions: “No, probably not.”I’m now single again and am only speculating here… if I do get a cat down the road, and it comes down to cat versus established girlfriend at some point, and the girlfriend is allergic, the girlfriend will probably win. I know if the ex hadn’t retrieved the animal last year, I would have given him away. I wasn’t that over the moon about him, and the relationship was way more important.The other example that I’m thinking of, though, is my brother’s dog… he owned a dog, a Nova duck retriever, that was the kindest animal I ever met. Beautiful, big-hearted, sweet, sensitive dog. We didn’t just love her… We were crazy about her. She made all of our lives extra special and touched us in a unique way. She’s no longer around. But if she were, and I got into a situation where I had to give her up for a partner? Ooh. That would be a tough one. Really tough. Frankly, it isn’t a decision I want to make.
What's the best way to handle a girlfriend who's jealous of my dog? I like my dog. She reacts to him and me with disgust, says I pay more attention to him than her, and antagonizes him by squirting him with water, or putting the bark collar on him.
I was in your situation 10 years ago - dating a guy that did not like dogs. We are happily married still. When we started dating my husband did not like the dogs, he did not like me letting them on the couch, in the bed or licking my face. He did not like that I give them so much attention....etc. We had a talk - I am a direct communicator as you are. The things we agreed upon were a compromise:1.Draw a line - your girlfriend should not, under any circumstances be punishing your dog. She may tell you that she does not like certain thing he does, and you should take care of it - but for you dog she is not his owner, she is a stranger - and she is not part of the pack till she moves in. 2. Dogs were not allowed on the couch and bed anymore (sigh).3. I made it crystal clear that I do not love dogs more, but I am more committed to them than to him. Dogs are a responsibility, and without my taking care of them they will die. Without my taking care of him, he will not. I owe the dogs, something I do not owe any person, him included. Therefore they are part of me, take it or leave it - but if you mistreat my dog, I am the one who will hurt and remember. You do not have to like them, but you do have to get along - and they were there first, and not going anywhere.I always meant the take it or leave it part very seriously - and I would prefer anyone who can not gt along with my dogs to leave.:)Yu
My girlfriend started to gradually cut off communications with me after her dog died. Why is she doing this, and why will she not talk to me about it?
I am a dog lover, and female.I was in a LTR with a guy and my beloved Charlie dog died.Charlie went semi-senile, was unable to walk and then got an infection.After some days of agonizing indecision I made the very difficult decision to assist Charlie across the ‘rainbow bridge’. That was one of the most difficult decisions, and I was there with him speaking kindly, assuring him of my love to the end.Naturally I was devastated after Charlie was gone and spent some weeks in mourning.My LTR lost patience with my sadness and said’ “I don't see what the fuck you are crying for, you killed him.”Needless to say that dick head is long gone.So. Are you supportive of her relationship with the dog, or were you jealous? Are you the type of person who would understand her grief and be caring and giving, or are you the type to tell her to forget about it?Because she is suddenly distant with you I suspect you never ‘got’ the relationship with her dog. When women grieve we reach out to those who understand and will be supportive.I think you are right to expect a break up.
My girlfriend used to call me dog whenever we fought. Once I called her bitch and everything ended. Why?
Dude, that’s one word you can’t ever say to any Girl. Ever.It is the worst word a girl could hear from anybody. Saying this does not only mean that you have disrespected her but also disrespected the entire relationship. It shows how savage you are.Let her call you anything but being a guy it’s basic manners not to abuse a girl who is your at least a friend, if not girlfriend. Play with her all you want but use abusive words such that even she can understand that she herself is responsible. If you can make it funny then that’s even great. Learn to respect your girlfriend. Put your ego aside. Your own Self-Respect is one thing but know that she too has that. You infringed on it.I hope you have learnt your lesson. I don’t think she is ever coming back but if you really love her I suppose you need to be a little bit persistent now. Show her that you are sorry and mean it. Show her she means something to you to get her trust. Make her feel wanted and special.Good Luck!