If you were this girls parent how would you handle the situation?
It's not a simple answer. Kids with behavior issues need to be a part of team sports just as much as "normal" kids, if not more so. But the parent's need to have a firm hand, and keep their kids under control. It sounds to me like the problem lies with the parents reaction to the behavior. My son is high functioning autistic and ADHD, and has behavior issues related to both. He is on medications for hyperactivity and anxiety, and while he gets along well with his peers, he needs constant reminders to maintain appropriate behavior. You can't just say "oh, she needs more meds" and brush off inappropriate actions, otherwise the child doesn't learn anything. The point of involving special needs children in group activities/sports is to teach them to work with others, to follow group rules, and to look to peers to follow appropriate social behaviors. To not enforce boundaries and rules is harmful to her social development. My suggestion is the coaches should do research into how to work with kids with ADHD, set up a system of rewards for following the rules and implement a "zero tolerance" policy on fighting/roughhousing.
This is for the guys...what is your ideal girl? and do you think its ok if the gir asks the guy to marry her?
My ideal woman? She'd have to be shorter than I am...probably between 5'3 and 5'6 ...I need someone with beautiful eyes that open up real wide, and she needs to have a great smile too...and white teeth. She'd also have to smile often...I don't want to date a depressed chick. She should take care of her body...she can't be huge or anything, but she shouldn't obsess over her weight - because frankly, I don't care that much and listening to people complain about how much they weigh is annoying as all hell. She needs to enjoy good food, good music, and traveling. She should dress for success, too...no weird clothing or anything. A fun sense of humor is good too. I love someone who can make me laugh. Finally...and probably most importantly, she has to be into me. I don't want to date some chick who is only half-interested in being with me. Hope that helps!
What's your ideal girl? All guys opinion matter!?
i dont discriminate but i do really like blondes. my ideal girl would be someone who has a sense of humor. jokes around with me, we tease each other etc. wants to hangout with me as much as i want to hangout with her. but at the same time not get mad at me for doin my own things with the boys. I dont like it when girls act slutty and flirt with every guy (my ex). i want a girl to be smart enough to realize what is being friendly and what is being slutty. i like girls who take care of themselves and dress well. i also want my ideal girl to have goals in life. she should be caring and kind and not a gold digger. like for example when we are out together and when its time to pay, offer to pay or split the bill. I just want to know that your not using me......in reality i wanna pay the bill. and dont bit(h about me opening the door for you or being a gentleman cause ur a psycho feminist......im not trying to insult you, im just trying to show you i care by doing the little things.
GUYS: what would your ideal girl look like?
before i answer.. theres no specific girl that i would be looking for. Theres been girls ive liked who all look COMPLETELY different from each other. Also, every guy has their different opinions on girls and theres alot of other factors that are involved. anywayy haha here we go: Hair Color/style: i typically like long hair, wavy, fairly volumized ( not actually sure what that word means haha but i mean like thicker i guess ) Eye Color: any, i fall for green though more often, but thats just me Race/ethnicity: um similiar to mine i guess, not a huge deal though Height: shorter than me. im 6'2 Body/Size: not a big deal, but obviously a hot body is more attractive Personality: Funnyy, down to earth, HAPPY, confident (but not overly), nice, polite, can take a joke, easy-going hope i helped!!
[GUYS] What is your ideal weight for a girl?
I know I'm a girl but if I were a guy, I wouldn't really judge based on weight, because I'm a dancer and even though I don't look heavy, I'm 120 lbs because of the muscle you get from it :D I;m also 5'7 so height also matters. I have a weird figure too.. I'm like 32-20-35.. so I have the illusion of my waist being really small, but my hips are just big :| I used to hate my big hips, but I think now I like them because I see that a lot of girls are like pencils.. So curves are fun :) also, I wouldn't really want anyone too fat or too skinny, but I'd definitely go for fat than anorexic :)
I don’t really mind it if I’m always being viewed as “the bad guy,” actually.It makes me work that much HARDER and become more DEDICATED given that people are always trying to count me out and exclude me on what seems like a constant basis.I don’t think it produces that much misconception for it to be a cause for concern, seeing as how people readily underestimate me at all times without any sort of pre-analysis of any kind beforehand.So, my answer, to this question, is YES.I think that being the so-called “bad guy” and wearing the black hat at LEAST as much as possible- XD! ;) - and in everything that you do is ultimately something that I would recommend without hesitation. :D
Guys, what would you ideal GIRLFRIEND look like?
This one's easy - I had it written down already. My Perfect Girl Paler skin - I hate it when people intentionally suntan themselves. Widow’s peak - I don’t know why I like this. (Very hard to find) Brown hair - I could also go with dark blonde or red-brown. I don’t like over-shiny or dull. Brown eyes - If brown hair, better with gray eyes. Hair wavy w/ big curls - No board-straight, can’t stand small curls. Very light freckles - I don’t know why I like this. The thing is, I really don’t like skin all one color. But I hate so-called “beauty-marks”, if they’re intentionally put on. I also don’t like it when it’s overly obvious that someone’s wearing makeup to try to change the color of her skin. Eyebrows “thinner” - Not thick widthwise, but not too thin. No “line” eyebrows. Longer eyelashes - Most guys like this for some reason. I am no exception. NOT muscular - Staying fit shouldn’t mean track running, weightlifting or kickboxing. My height or shorter - Picky, I know, but I don’t like much of a height difference, and I don’t want my girl to be heavier than me (145 lbs); I want to be able to pick her up. I also don’t want her to be taller than I am (5’10”). Cruel to some people, I understand, but it’s just the way I am. Not fat - Not pencil-skinny, but not fat, either. No one who weighs more than I do. Higher than low voice - What I mean is, I find women with unusually low voices to be a bit annoying. No offense intended, it’s just that certain voices get on my nerves. There it is! Oh, and lol about the prostitute. - MrProgramX
Yes, they do.Anyday I would want to be with a guy who is ambitious and sincere regarding his career and work. Why would someone want to date a person who isn't serious about important things such as career in their life? I mean if a guy isn't serious about something as critical as his career what are the chances he would be serious with me in our relationship? If a relationship is solely based on physical attraction and not feelings or compatibility then a girl might date a guy as mentioned in the question.I feel if the girl is just looking for a casual relationship and nothing serious she might go out with a guy who isn't very ambitious.I would only date a ambitious guy not because I want a safe future as the general perception would be, I am educated enough to earn enough for my needs and wants and to take care of my financial needs but I would like to be in a relationship that has some deeper meaning and not just to have fun when I am with him. I feel after the initial days when you have spend some time with each other just the fun factor can't guarantee a fruitful relationship.Yeah like it or not after the initial honeymoon phase is over, its the sentiments and understanding which would be essential for a smooth relationship.When the other person is there for you when you need them the most and not just to hang around for movies or shoppings. When you can share your problems with them and listen to the solutions they have for your problems. When venting out your feelings relaxes you even if they just listen hold your hand and say "Yeah, I understand."That is a relationship one would want in the long run.P.S. I love someone who is almost 90% as the ideal guy described in the question if not 100% and when I asked him how come you were single he said "Girls generally overlook the good guys, they prefer the bad guys and I have no idea why?" So maybe its true because many boys have the similar opinion in this regard.
Original Question: Guys: What do you think when you stare at a girl? OK, so to get it out of the way first, it's rare that I would actually stare at a girl. It's damn rude and usually very obvious, and usually very off-putting for the girl in question! But there are two things which will catch my eye before anything else - no, not those - and that's whether she's got a pretty face and a nice figure. If a girl has both of those I might look a bit closer, subtly of course, but having had a good number of years' peripheral experience in the modelling world - both an ex-step-daughter and an ex-partner were fashion models - I know I've become overly critical and tend to not really notice many girls that a lot of other men would go "phwoar" over... Basically it comes down to a pretty face, a good figure and definitely a certain indefinable class - the way a girl dresses - even if very casually - walks, and holds herself, with a noticeable air of confidence about her. Beyond that, and I did say I'm perhaps overly critical, it matters how she speaks, how intelligent she is, whether she uses too much make up or not, whether she smokes or not... As a single male, it's a good job there are still plenty around who do meet all those criteria though :)
Ladies, how to you handle creepy guys, and guys who cat call you when.....?
Wear something baggy and put your hair up. EDIT: I *am* serious. Sounds to me like you're more afraid of not looking a certain way than you are of being harassed. Well, that's your choice. But realize that dressing down really is the easiest way to avoid having to deal with it altogether. EDIT: I'm your age, I live in a neighborhood with pimps and drugdealers. They're much more pleasant when I dress down. I never said you deserved to be harassed, all I said is that it is in your power to prevent (a large part of) it. Dressing down works for me - so I gave you the tip. Your choice is to dress the way you do. You have seen how that is working out for you. So try something else, or accept the consequences. For the rest - I make conversation with elderly people sometimes, I find that being in their company also puts off men. And I find that telling them to please go away doesn't really work, and being rude about it is only perceived as a challenge. Plus you're never gonna win if you try to take them on, anyway. Seriously, gypsy skirts are your friend. Saves so much headaches. With anything in life, these are your options: - whine about it and be miserable - change it - accept it You cannot change what the men choose to do, but you can take away their incentive to do it. This is the power you have, so you can either choose to use it, or not.