I have an Evil Mother in Law?
So you plan on marrying this man? It's good you stood up for yourself, that's always a tough thing to do and at 19 you seem pretty well put together. OK I suggest a heart to heart with the fiance'. Sit and talk about your future plans and goals.Just between you guys. For you guys to have a successful marriage YOU both need to be on the same page. From that fight he knows how you feel now regarding his parents. My suggestion in this case is to pull back,for her to call you worthless was a low blow and she is supposed to be an adult( you're 19 and mature but she should set a better example). Don't focus on her, she will probably love that. Instead focus on getting a good job, doing something positive with your life and fixing up your new home. Put her on the back burner for now. Let her see what a great job you do with your life. remember" living well is the best revenge. You're future hubby is going to be in a tough place regarding his parents, but stand firm and be strong. If you were always respectful of her its the least she could have given back. There is no rule saying we have to love the in-laws.
How should I deal with a future evil sister in law?
I found out that my boyfriend's brother's wife has said a lot of nasty things about me, about my family, and even about her husband's mom. I told my boyfriend about this and he brushed it off. After I told him I don't want to talk to him or his family, he finally realized it's not my fault. He made a meeting so that we can talk to her, but she backed out of it. I told my boyfriend that I don't want a meeting, just forget about it. I guess I could just ignore it but it pains me to see her every time. Do you think I can live with this without comfronting her? Is that possible in the future. My boyfriend acknowledges what she has done, but sometimes I feel like he wants to just keep the peace and I'm the one who has to shut up about it. I don't know what to make of the situation. Can you guys help?
Why is my mother in law so evil & rude towards me?
my mother-in law is very rude towards me even when I respect her. Everything I say she has some smart remark to make. I told her when I first saw her house it was the nicest place I've ever seen. And she replies " I'm sure that's true....you never had much did you?" She even told my husband in front of me that he could do better. I could see why she would say that if I was just some mean person and didn't love her son,but I love him to death and she knows it. The rest of his family likes me except her. My father in law and all my husbands siblings love me. If my husband gives me a quick kiss or hug in front of her she gets mad.and says I'm easy. Or " How do you get intimate with that thing" I avoid her as much as I can,but when we have family get togethers and she's around she's still rude.she'll say something like " oh hi kevin (my husband's name)....oh you brought her" My husband and I are talking about having kids and she says we shouldn't because I'll be a bad mom and the baby bump and extra weight will make me more unattractive. I'm really sick of her and her looking down on me and my family, thank god she wasn't at the wedding. The only reason I can think of why she dislikes me, is because my family isn't as wealthy as they are. However we aren't trash. We were at one point homeless and had to live with church members (and she knows this) but my family over came that and we're all nice people doing things with our lives now. She acts superior to me and disrespects me all the time. Shouldn't she be happy for her son?? my husband loves his mom despite how she can be and he doesn't really do anything when she says this sh*t for the sake of avoiding problems with her..it's rather irritating
Can evil defeat evil?
Two guys fighting is just that, two guys fighting. In that moment, maybe each thinks they are the "good guy" and the other is the "bad guy". No one fights thinking they are worse than their opponent. To do so is suicide.Who decides from there? You? You and your friends? You and your society?And the guy with the family... most of the guys in history thought to be bad had families.Don't oversimplify. Good and evil are fluid terms. They depend on timing, context and perspective. They are not absolutes.Now don't get me wrong; if you break a law, you should be punished. As long as it's a just law... oh, damn, there's that ambiguity again...Sorry, I'm kind of messing with you. But just a bit. Good and bad/evil really are elusive. The extremes of each are pretty easy to spot, but the rest are not. Each person develops their own sense of good and evil over time. If that sense aligns with most of the people they spend time with, then life is usually good. If that sense is very misaligned with their culture, then life may become dangerous for them, or those around them.
Who is a better person: the man who kills evil people or the man who protects evil people?
Hi!None.The one who kills evil people which by default means more devilish then the evil one’s and this is very fact because good can only be protect by evil good can never protect goodness not possible ONLY evil can protect good.Now the evil definition changes I am very sensitive and emotional person even little hurt to me means the person is evil now with this set of mind I start killing evil then I doubt how many people will exist in these world? because I get offend and dishearten on small things so according to me more then half of the population of this world under target? is it sensible? No that is why we say be reasonable.The one who protects Evil means benefits I will only protect evil which might benefit me in some or the other way which means personal interest in here that I can sense.In both case I would say be reasonable if I have no choice but to kill evil I have to and if I see possibilities to save an evil person keep my selfish desire away but it can be saved for good purpose then I might even save the evil doer.All depends on one mindset and what they address or consider as evil doers or doings.According the situation demands act if one has to kill evil to save good then kill evil, if one has to save evil because these evil can help to save good/ good purpose then save this evil doer.On Final statement we are nobody to decide anyone fate and probably these is one of the very good reason that court/ laws avoid death penalties only because by mistake the innocent soul is penalised the regret is greater then death. Neither one could justice its own duties neither an innocent soul and that loss is heavy and cannot be pay or waved off!As an human beings certain things are not that difficult to understand but sometime circumstances leads… sometime we can control and sometime we have no control… so act wise!
Dealing with a backstabbing evil mother in law?
"ve been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years and he is the sweetest guy in the world. His mother appears to be extemely nice and friendly, she talks very sweet in front of me, however today i was in the kitchen and overheard her talking bad about me to her husbands, saying that i am a *****, I could be cheating on my boyfriend, I am an incompetent person etc, i was in total shock as she appears to be so nice to me. I am sure she also talks bad about me to all my boyfriend's siblings. She often belittle other people behind their back to me, like yesterday she told me that her first daugher is a loser... My boyfriend told me that she was nasty to all his ex because she is jealous. Now should i continue pretending to be nice to her or should i confront her??
Which is better, a good man who doesn't believe in God, or an evil man who believes in God?
My father would describe himself as a "devout Catholic." He goes to church each Sunday and repeats all the b.s. they tell him to. He buys into all the Catholic/conservative b.s. also; he thinks abortion should be illegal, that all other religions are wrong, evolution is wrong and scientists can't be trusted. I, personally, am an atheist and I can deal with all those differences in ideologies, his extreme narrow-mindedness, and general ignorance (and I don't say that simply because he's religious and I'm not), but what I find repulsive, disgusting, and wrong is how he treats others and how he acts. He's a bigot and a chauvinist, he'll flirt with women half his age, and he constantly verbally and physically abuses my mother. I personally have had to call the police on him, several times, since he was beating my mother; he then tried to convince me that I was wrong and he tried to blame me for the entire situation getting out of hand (by his definition, the point when the police are called is when something gets "out of hand"). Additionally, he expresses racism towards Hispanics and Indians (and Desi people, in general), insults other people to their face, and he's controlling, manipulative, and narcissistic. He's even insulted my mother's father. In general he's a pretty bad husband and father (although, not the worst by any means), and he prefers to spend time either at work or with his sister (generally, any where that he doesn't have to deal with his family).Needless to say, my answer to the question is that a good man who's an atheist is a much better person than someone who claims to believe in god yet doesn't conduct himself accordingly. Religion or belief in god is irrelevant and will never determine whether someone is a good person or not.
Is the concept of good and evil man-made?
I believe that these concepts are subjectively defined, though there is a large deal of agreement on what is seen as right and wrong among humans. It appears to me as though these values tend to correlate with increased chances of survival and decreased chances of inflicting physical and/or psychological harm. That makes sense both in the light of evolution and (to an extent) for the human oriented toward living a satisfying life without the need for constant paranoia or brutalizing others to stay afloat.
Has Denzel Washington ever played a "bad guy"?
I can't seem to remember a truly bad or evil character played by this man. He always plays the hero. His characters may not always be liked or even law abiding, but they always end up being the "good" guy. Why is this? Is he afraid that the racists out there will continue to view black folks as criminals if they keep being portrayed as such? Personally I think that he is the single most overrated actor in Hollywood... and that is saying something with the horrible actors these days. Maybe I'm wrong and he has played a truly evil character. If you can think of one... please answer! Don't include movies like "John Q" where he was breaking the law... but to simply save his family. Thanks!