What does it feel like to have a guy eat you out?
LoL as a guy, i can't exactly tell you how it will feel...but i will say that we very much appreciate it when you shave. a little hair on top is ok i suppose, but trust me we DON'T like working through a jungle. when a guy goes down on a girl, we're trying to taste YOU, not the metalic twang of your pubes. what you wear is irrelevant. if he does it RIGHT, it should feel anywhere from "good" to "amazing". best thing to do is walk in expecting nothing, and don't think about it too much. it'll take as long as it has to if he is motivated (some guys give up if the girl doesn't respond). it'll help if you tell him what you like while he's down there, NOT on what you don't like. hearing too many negatives will throw him off his game (if he has any). aside from that, don't worry about it. and certainly don't force it. when you're ready, and only when you're ready, have him do it. if you're all nervous and weird it'll make him weird, which will make the whole experience weird. take your time, and don't rush anything. alright, thats all i got.
Am i wrong for feeling this way ... (Remarriage after spouses death?)?
You are neither wrong nor right for feeling this way - it is just how you feel. Your strong connection to your father, your religion and your culture all play a role in your feelings. However (you're a smart young woman and knew that was coming, didn't you), today a woman's lifespan (depending on many contributing factors of course) can be 80-90 years. Hopefully your Mother has 30+ years to live. LoveIt, do you really think she has lived her life and should now just quietly wait for death? I'm sorry, but your Mother is a long way from dead and has every right to enjoy what years she has left to her. And to do so with her family's support and love. She has trusted you with her new relationship and happiness - it remains to be seen what you do with this knowledge. After the sadness of your Dad's illness and untimely death, I believe he would want your Mother to have another chance at happiness and companionship. Catholic or not.
My girlfriend wants to travel with another guy. How should I react to this?
I’m going to say this very plainly, my friend.You can’t do anything about it. You really have two choices.One: Send her off with your blessing, and trust her to either continue to be faithful to you, or to be honest if she cheats.Two: Break up with her. Heal. Realize that she wasn’t the one for you.Anything outside of those choices is just going to result in pointless arguments and pain.You cannot LET or NOT LET her go. You do not own her. You are not her master (or even her husband, which would be at the very least a legally binding relationship status, though a husband still cannot and should not attempt to control his wife).I’ll tell you this: I’m married. My wife is my very best friend. If she wanted to go on a backpacking trip with a guy friend, I would tell her to have a blast. But she would never do so.Like I said, she’s my very best friend. She would NEVER want to be away from me while experiencing something as life-altering as a backpacking trip across South America. She would only want to experience something like that WITH me.In addition to that, even though my wife has guy friends, and even a couple with whom she holds daily conversation (and we’re both aware that one of them harbors tender feelings for her), she knows how inappropriate a long-term trip with a solo male companion would be, both perceptively and practically.But (and here��s the most important point of all), IF she asked how I felt about her going on a backpacking trip with another guy, I would indeed tell her to go, and have a blast.I trust her. Implicitly. And more, I know that if she wants to cheat, or be with another man, nothing I could ever do would prevent that. I could tell her I don’t want her talking to any guys, or have any male Facebook friends, or even monitor her communications (all of which would be seriously abusive), and she would STILL find a way to cheat on me if she really wanted to (and probably more so, because of my abusive nature in this hypothetical scenario).So if I were you, I would seriously consider your two choices. Think hard about what you really want. Think hard about how important the relationship really is to you; if you want to fight to keep it.And then make one of those two decisions, and stick by it.Best of luck to you, my friend.
How do parents feel??? If daughter brings home older man?
as a mother, i'd be all over your man. bring him home honey!
Gemini, how would you feel about being ignored?
i found out that my boyfriend, a gemini has been bitching about me behind my back to his friends, i tried to talk to him about it and he replied with "**** off, why dont you go have sex with ben" (the guy that told me).. im really upset by this reply and i think its really immature, but infact everytime i have an issue he takes it really personal (because he is sensitive) and gets angry and wont discuss it with me. i dont ever go about it aggressively, i just try to talk. So i have decided to turn my phone off for a while, because i am really hurt and do not feel like talking to him. i know we love each other but something isn't right. I feel a little break of me not speaking to him might calm the nerves and then i can tell him why. oh btw im a cancer :)
Girls how would you react if a guy you knew sent you a love poem?
My husband has experience with that, he would see/meet a gal, give the friendship a little while, then write her a letter ( a very gentlemanly one) expressing his interest in going forward with the relationship... ....they would make fun of him behind his back. Their loss. When we first started dating he sent me beautiful letters.....after we married he still gives me cards with sweet sentiments written inside. Even tho we are married, I'm courted every day. It a lost art form in realm of dating, but then old fashioned courtship has been thrown out the window and young couples seem to rush to do 'It' long before they test the waters in romantic compatibility....they concern themselves too much with sexually 'clicking'...if you're 'good in bed' together that's nice, but if you can't get along out of the bedroom the relationship is doomed....I rather be a terrific couple outside the bedroom and work with sensitivity on bedroom skills.....one needs a strong foundation in any successful relationship and sex is not a foundation.... So I say to you, it depends on the gal..if she's old fashioned by heart and enjoys the idea of being courted and wooed instead of jumping between the sheets at first glance then yes....go easy on the 'passion' in your poem, tho Hon...make it too sexy and you'll scare her off...good luck.