Should I date my cousins ex boyfriend( I am 17)?
so a few years ago my older cousin jeanie( 19 now) started dating this guy James( 18 now) they had been together for about 6 months but they broke up( I don't know the details) my cousin eventually got pregnant by another guy and had a son. her babies dad hits her so they broke up, she does a lot of drugs and one day I found out that she had slept with my boyfriend. I wasn't even mad at her just because we were really close and I knew what she was going through well she got back with her ex boyfriend James, and I started hanging out with them a lot, me and James started talking on facebook and stuff. well they broke up again and she got back with her babies dad(chris),, her and James had a horrible break up, now chris is in jail . well today we were at the river and James was flirting with me, we both know we like each other, he has offered to do my first tattoo for me and just stupid flirtatious things like that. He looks at me constantly and touches me all the time. I just want to know if it is ok to date him??
Is it OK to date your cousin's ex?
I'd ask your cousin about it, she might be sensitive about it, its not worth upsetting a family member over a guy. Speak to her, she'll probably be fine seeing as hes her ex, but its always important to regard peoples feelings. x
Is it wrong to date my cousins ex wife?
My cousin and I grew up as close friends. I had a crush on his girlfriend and then his wife but we are not related as its my cousins wife. Well, he always tried to fix me up with her when he was married but I never took him up on it but I did hear that other men have. But if they are separated is it ok to date her? Sue is a very sweet girl and she is a blond and very pretty but very naive and trustin. I know she loved my cousin as she was extremely jealous but he found another women as she can't have any children..well, i need some objective thought on this as i am leaning towards going out with her..
I'm dating my cousin's ex?
I started talking to this guy five years ago, he lives in another state than me, the same state as my cousin. now after two years of me and him talking randomly they started hanging out. my cousin asked my permission to date him because she knew I had feelings for him. the only reason I gave permission is because me and him had talked millions of times about how we both didn't want a long distance relationship so it would never work with me and him. so they began dating and I knew my cousin didn't really have strong feelings for him because she told me and made it very obvious. I had visited alot so us three would hang out together. he met my whole family while dating her. long story short she treated him like Crap, broke his heart and then started seeing another guy. this was months ago. recently I have decided to move to their state for work purposes, and now me and him are in a relationship. I had talked to her about it before and she said it didn't bug her if I dated him. but now she's just distant and acts like a totally different person. if the situation had been that he treated her like Crap and broke her heart then I wouldn't even give him a chance, but this guy makes me so happy. I've been talking to him for almost 5 years at this point and there's something so real between us.... does it make me a horrible person for pursuing my happiness....
Im dating my cousins ex, and now she hates me... ?
I think you and your cousin are both in the wrong. You should have talked to her since she is your cousin. She dumped him for a reason, she didn't want to be with him again. She is outraged you didn't talk to her about it first to see how she would feel; she is your cousin after all. She also shouldn't be as mad. If you really like him, go ahead, date him. You still seem as though you don't really have respect for your cousin to see how she'd feel about this. Honestly, I'd side with her before I'd side with you. Cause putting myself in both your shoes with both attitudes, hers is more reasonable. If things don't work out, you shouldn't go to her for advice, and if she says something like, "I told you so!" you cannot be mad at her. -- This will probably take awhile before she gets over you betraying her. Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. —Hebrews 13:4
How do you deal with your cousin dating your ex?
Hoesntly I'd tell him how can he do this to me and forget he’s my cousin and call him out to fight to show my ex who's the real man is. If ur a guy do this. If you don’t know how to fight then take mma classes and call him out after 8 months of training. Something similiar happened to me 2 years ago, my ex started dating the guy who bullied me back in my Sophomore year of high school so i took mma classes and after 8 months, I fought him and knocked him out.
Would it be wrong to date my ex's cousin when my ex and I have a child together?
WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU? Your relationship with your ex didn't work-I get it. Dating a family member of ex is a blow to the “balls”-VERY PAINFUL! That's something the ex would do when they really hate that person. You're a wrecking ball on your own. You'll destroy whatever's in your way-and don't give a damn one way or the other. To become involved with your ex cousin makes one thing clear to me-YOU'LL SLEEP WITH ANYBODY! Have some discretion about yourself-CLASS. That's disgusting and trifling. You and the cousin are made for each other. How long have you two been eyeballing each other. Let me guess-when you were first in a relationship with the ex? DISTASTEFUL.
Is it wrong to date and love your cousin’s ex?
Nope…but it’s usually better if people who are related square things like that with the other if they don’t want to potentially undermine family relationships; eg. if one cousin isn’t talking to the other because they feel (rightly or wrongly) that there is disloyalty in you dating their Ex. or, because they don’t want them around, potentially being brought into the family by marriage, or even because they’re suffering jealousy and/or haven’t recovered from feelings of resentment if they were dumped by the person you’re now going out with - it might be wise to handle the issue carefully and with respect for them. It doesn’t have to stop you seeing whoever you want if they also want to go out with you. It’s very common for a person to date one family member then another as they’re often alike and present similar personality traits or a liked appearance.You’re not related to your cousin’s Ex.You can date whoever you like.
Is it bad to date your cousins ex-girlfriend?
So my cousin dated this girl for a good 6 months and they had broke up cause it got to a point where we was a complete douche towards her & he didn't know how to treat her! He would always talk to her in ways that no man should talk to a women and he laid hands on her before. After they had broken up I started to develop feeling for her and she did as well. She always tells me that she loves the way I am the complete opposite as my cousin and how I treat her so nice and how I have a genuine personality. We have both talked about how we really like each other and want to be with each other but we just wonder how my cousin would feel if we were to date. Any advice?
Is it okay to date your cousin’s ex-husband?
It probably depends on how their relationship ended. If it was amicable, it “may” be acceptable but if it was highly contentious, you are probably opening a pandora's box that could negatively affect you and your entire family. Here’s the thing about situations like this, you cannot change or escape your family for the most part, so if you go and get into a relationship with someone that was previously with another family member, there better be some extraordinary circumstances if you want it to work, otherwise you’re going to be in some Jerry Springer’esk territory.