Is it just me, or has anyone else experienced this? Does it seem like narcissists don't like to talk about anything that happened the day before?
Yes, they don’t like to talk about anything in regard to what they’ve been up to. When I was dating a diagnosed NPD (he kept that from me for years) I couldn’t understand why he didn’t want to talk about what he did that day or night. Even when the question of “How was your day?” was innocent and meant to show interest in his life.Often, when we were visiting his family (flying monkeys) they would know bits and pieces of information that seemed strange and I could never piece together. I couldn’t understand what they were talking about or why they knew things I didn’t. He’d deny those items and the family member would quickly change the subject or he would invent a lie that he was unable to maintain later due to forgetting or just not caring.In the span of the relationship he had kept several relationships from me, a warrant, the truth about his educational background and his plan for going active duty or alcohol and drug use. Eventually, he tried to hide a baby! Yikes for me.This is indicative of the disorder. He creates his reality in order manipulate those around him and ultimately get what he wants. It’s second nature. I’m almost positive the thought of just telling the truth the first time round never entered his mind. The lies he got away with must have been quite the rush.Information is power and if you can be kept in the dark the easier it is to control you.
Have you ever experienced something paranormal and no one ever believed you?
I've had many paranormal experiences that I kept to myself, but one incident happened in my old apartment that I told to a few close friends and they thought I was kidding. I was in my apartment, a place that I live in for 6 or 7 years and I knew the place pretty well. I was given a dining room table and chairs from the apartment of the old man who lived next door to me. He had passed away and his family asked me if I wanted the dining room set and since money was tight, I said ok.A couple of days after taking in the dining room table and chairs, my 2 cats were acting a little strange. They were always meowing at things that I couldn't see and I didn't know what to think. Then one night, I came home after work (I lived alone) and I was just sitting there, watching TV and having something to eat. All of a sudden the chair at the head of the table moved back, about a foot and half by itself. I was not near it in any way and my 2 cats were nowhere to be seen, but the chair moved BY ITSELF!I was pretty freaked out. There I was alone in my apartment and it was late and the chair is moving by itself. I got up and tried to do different things with the chair. I tried to see if the floor was at an angle. I knew it wasn't, I mean I lived in this place for years, I knew it pretty well. There was no angle to the floor and I kept putting the chair in different position, nothing. I actually started laughing because I thought about how I would sound when I tell someone about this. They'd think I was a flake.I couldn't really sleep that night and I was pretty tired the next day at work. I told a few of my friends about what happened, no one really believed me. Other things happened in that apartment, but I kept those to myself.
Has anyone else ever experienced this?
Yesterday night I saw a pack of condoms on my baby fathers TV Stand he tells me mixed stories about how they got there for example he said the kittens knocked them down and put them there or he'll say that their old condoms but they look brand new according to the expiration date. I told him to put them up and he did that but he didn't throw them out which is what I expected him to do. He put them back in his dresser. Instead of him getting rid of them he wants me to get rid of them but then itll make me feel like I'm being controlling. Me and him don't wear condoms together so I know he uses them with other women. What should I do?
Something weird happened today has this happened to anyone else ?
this morning I was thinking in my head it would be nice to be contacted by an old friend no one specific just someone from the past and than I let the thought go, this evening I get an email off a old friend I haven't spoke to in 3 years , would you say its a coincidence has anyone experienced something similar
Does anyone else experience hives in the cold?
HI! I think this is the first time I have ever seen someone with this problem besides me! I am much older than you (40's) but this happened to me when I was a child and continued into my 20's. I live in Wisconsin so I went through this a lot. I would get big raised pink "welts" on my face, legs, stomach mostly and I would also get some swelling in my hands just like you. This does not happen to me anymore so it seems like either my body fights it off now or I literally outgrew it! I wish I help you with a way to prevent it but even when I kept everything covered it still happened. By the way, it is super cold here right now too! Temps in the teens with dangerous winds! Good luck and I hope others can help you with some advice! Jenny :o)
Have you ever experienced something you can't explain?
From time to time I get the feeling of impending doom. I have learned to trust this feeling and to search for what is about to happen over the years. One night in high school my best friend and I decided to sleep over at our friend’s house so that we could stay out later than our parents would allow.That night I started to have the feeling of impending doom. If you have never had that feeling before, the best way I can describe it is having anxiety about something bad that might happen for no reason at all. While we were picking up food through a drive-thru I told my friend how I was feeling. She told me she was feeling the same way so we decided that it would be best to return to our friend’s house before something really bad happened.At around 4:30AM, I woke up to my friend telling me to wake up and felt the floor under me shaking and the house rattling. It was 1994, we were just a few miles from Northridge, CA. A 6.7 M earthquake happened that night. Thankfully we were okay and no one got hurt.Another time for weeks I felt impending doom. It was not until I saw a photo of a family member flash up on my computer’s screen saver that the feeling went away. A week later I found out that family member tried to commit suicide. I think it was my family on the otherside reaching out to me to warn me to help him.So now whenever I have that feeling it really scares me because more often than not something bad IS going to happen. I have to be cautious and seek out signs about what might happen.Recently I had the feeling of impending doom again for a few month and it was the worst case I ever felt. It went away as soon as I found out my cousin was just released after being hospitalized in the ICU for pneumonia.I over heard another friend tell my mom she has learned to listen to me when I warn her about things, because they most often come true. I guess I am a bit psychic.
The guy I lost my virginity to died... Has anyone else experienced this or something similar?
I never realized that I actually gave part of my heart to him. I never thought I would ever hurt this much. No one seems to understand. Is this stupid, normal, or what? We also were pretty close friends in high school and fooled around etc. We hung out some, but it's just crazy he's gone. He collapsed playing basketball and died right then and there. He was 21. I did alot of foolish things when I was younger and I haven't even had sex in 2 years (I figured out what made babies after I got pregnant with my son). Has anyone experienced this... I feel alone.