Do you tell your friends EVERYTHING?
you shouldn't tell her/him everything cause what if you had this really big secret that only you and your mom knew about and you told her and then like a week later you guys get in a fight and she like posts it on the internet or something!! so keep somethings to yourself and tell her to stop judging you so much!!! shes supposed to be your friend not your personality coach
What do you call a person who becomes outraged and angry when they are called out for being wrong about something and cannot control themselves?
People who may feel threatened posture and threaten in order to protect themselves. Realizing that other people think ill of them makes them feel like they are being threatened. So they posture, losing their temper, rage, shout, name-call, throw things and sometimes threaten harm.For the most part it is a big bluff. It’s the human equivalent of animal behavior. The point is to take your mind off of the fact that they were wrong (and thus inferior in their mind) and put it onto their current display of wrath.Seeing someone act like an out-of-control 2-year-old is impressive, it’s scary. It gets people around them to walk on eggshells and often let them “win” just to not have to deal with their attitude.Why do they keep doing it? Because they think it works. They want respect. They want the authority they think they deserve. But their tactics backfire. Not knowing what might set them off, kids, partners, coworkers and friends distance and leave them alone.They need to learn how to express their angry feelings appropriately. When someone tells them they are wrong or that they made a mistake, they simply can't tolerate it. To them, it’s better to blow a gasket than to be left with those feelings.For mature people self-esteem is grounded in being able to put ego aside in order to find the truth. Immature people often have the idea that their status is at stake when there is conflict. When called-out, they take it overly personally. If they are losing an argument, they experience a loss of self-esteem. At that moment, they need to assert their authority, even if they are wrong. When it is certain that they are wrong, they will find a way to prove that the other person is more wrong because they can't take the loss to their self esteem.To them, disrespect is intolerable. Making a lot of noise and threatening is their way of reasserting their right to respect by others. They haven't a clue how to negotiate differences or manage conflict except by escalating.Angry people feel that anger entitles them to let loose. They feel that it is up to other people not to take seriously hurtful things they say or do. They don't get it that other people are legitimately hurt, embarrassed, humiliated, or afraid of them.There isn't a 'name' for people who can't handle being challenged. They just have individual issues that add up. If it's really bad, anger management training can help. But only if they are willing to admit that they have a problem and want help.
Craziest driving stories? Road rage? Has anyone ever followed you for yelling at them?
My friend and I left a club one night and noticed a car following us. As we stopped at a well lit intersection we could see that it was two men from the club. They kept honking and yelling for us to stop, which was NOT going to happen. They got a little more obnoxious at every intersection and when we came to a bridge that was one lane due to construction and had a very long red light, they actually got out of the truck. I didn't wait to see what they were going to do. I yelled for my friend to run the light and she drove about 90 mph for the next ten miles until we came to the next town and luckily there was a cop sitting at a gas station. We quickly explained the situation and when the guys drove by the cop went after them and found a gun, knives and rope in their vehicle! It still gives me the creeps every time I think of it. Even scarier... they got probation for carrying a concealed weapon and menacing. No jail time at all.
Why do people get angry at friends for no reason?
Yes, Ive expirienced this. And its not "no reason" its simply that we don't want to share the reason or we are too afraid too. I ignored my best friend for about a month. Didn't take her calls, didn't reply to her texts, nothing. And when we started talking again, she kept asking why I was mad at her and in truth it was because she was so conceited that she never listened to me while I always listened to her, but I couldn't tell her that, so I just said "IDK"
Why do I have the urge to kill someone when I'm really angry about something or when I'm depressed? How do I stop it?
It's a more normal thought than you think it is. Lots of people fantasize about murder, and most of them would never stoop to it. So first, acknowledge that this isn't you or any compulsion you have to ask on, just a fantasy. And I'm guessing an involuntary one. Blaming and pressuring yourself will never make you more in control.You can start carrying around something to distract yourself. Maybe a book, small craft project, some charm you can do a hand ritual with...anything physical that can get you out of your head for a bit. If this is inconvenient, you can also try repeating a comforting or affirming phrase. It's a superficial fix, so the fantasies might persist for a while. You'll have to trick yourself into believing in it.In the long run, doing something like community service might help you think of yourself as a good person, and this should slow down the thoughts.If this happens frequently and intrudes into the rest of your life, consider the possibility that you have Primarily Obsessional OCD ("Pure O"). Intrusive horrific/violent ruminations (also Google "ruminations") are one of the primary symptoms. You can read some about it, and see a psychologist if you think it describes you. I was diagnosed a few years back, and I remember planning out terrible things in my head as well.If you do have Pure O or ruminations, I would schedule some time every week to ruminate. Lock youself in a room for half an hour with a timer, and just think about how you could kill people for half an hour. Since these thoughts are involuntary by nature, forcing yourself to have these thoughts at specific times can actually diffuse their effectiveness.When you're doing this, take every thought to its logical extreme. Think in black and white, and follow every if/then chain that comes to you. This is terrifying, but the idea is to give yourself the sense that you are owning and controlling your darkest thoughts.When it's not your scheduled ruminating time, don't follow these thoughts deeply, just let them stay in your head. The problem with ruminating is that it convinces you that the more you think about and fight it, the closer you are to solving your problem.Now, this treatment can be really traumatic, so don't undertake it unless you have to, and not without a trusted person who can pull you back if need be. A good psychologist who you can talk to openly can also help a lot.In any case, I wish you luck and am sorry you have to deal with this!
My parents get angry at me for something they did?
My mum got angry at my dad because he forgot to buy milk and now they blame it on me. My dad said he won't be talking to me for the rest of the night. Stupid things like this happen all the time. There punishment will be harsh I have will take the gas from there cars and give it to friend and use a bit of it to burn some of there savings. If they keep being like this I know a way to get my dad fired from his job if I tell them I can screw up there life's. I think it's funny that all this bad stuff is happening to them and they don't even know it.
Why do women get angry so fast?
WTF are you talking about, you idiot? I don't get angry really fast, I'm just always angry! Grrrr.... LOL
If a guy told you he could never be angry at you..would you believe him?
He says this because... He knows that you are important to him. He knows he is lucky to have you in his life. He feels a strong sense of what is useless distraction about "things" and "events." relative to the "specialness of you." This means he has deep feelings, and those deep feelings are for YOU. If you WANT TO HURT HIM, keep questioning his HONOR. Nag at him about "not being realistic" or "not being in touch with his true feelings." If you find it withing yourself to VALUE a romantic heart such as his, then the next time it comes up... Put your arms around him. Kiss him deeply, with longing. Tell him that you want to be worthy of his love. Tell him that you value honesty with him more than anything, since you know you can trust his heart. (and you can....) You've got a great chance for the best kind of intimacy... real friends who can make love to each other... may we all have that in our lives, one day. DONT F * I * U !!!!!