Do you hate or resent attractive people?
There won’t be many that will answer this question honestly because it’s a valid question. Everyone knows that looks and beauty opens doors literally and not, or get’s people to be nicer to you. If you are talented you will be more valuable, but if you are attractive and have no talent, you will still have an advantage. However what attractive people know is that the most common prejudice comes their way just because of their looks. For example the low IQ question comes into the equation. You are really forced in one direction that uses your looks mostly or your appearance and it becomes difficult if you are more intelligent then those around you. People are quick to judge you, use you or discourage you from working some place. People that have not developed themselves in many other ways other than the ones they can’t control genetically, will envy you. When they are with others they will call you stupid or you will catch them talking and then stop as you walk into the room. No one is ever directly resentful, but then you have people who are like I like attractive people as long as they are not arrogant. Some will interpret confidence from someone who is attractive as arrogance because it has a stronger appearance then normal. Often times attractive people just say F it, you are gonna get hated for your looks and judged for your exterior anyway, so just forget this. They often end up doing this in peoples faces or from the experience of resentment. The entitlement can come from people just being overly nice, and giving, but they are not doing it from a place of care, but more so as another form of use. Being attractive has it’s pitfalls and downfalls. It’s more complicating as you move to different areas that are looks centric like Hollywood. Do not forget looks are still the highest form of prejudice. everyone does it to a certain extent, sometimes it’s valid, most of the times it’s excessive.
Do older people sometimes hate or resent young people and for what reason?
Young people are aggressive, which can suggest they will be violent and uncaring towards old people.Old people are frail and fragile. They are vulnerable against attacks, so depend on society treating them with care and not taking advantage of them.It must be scary growing old and losing your strength. It is important to know society is kind, gentle and caring, to ensure you will be ok.Stories of old people being abused in nursing homes, robbed on the street or their houses broken into are terrifying to old people.
Do unattractive people resent attractive people?
How can we not? We all have a sort of gut feeling of justice, that when someone gets something ahead of us without working for it, it feels unfair. Attractive people regularly do this. They get the job, they skip the lineup. They can fib or say stupid things and are believed.In college, I was average in appearance. Hot looking guys entered the room or bar, and women paid attention, or talked about them, or walked up to them. Women did not do this with me—they chatted within my earshot, complaining that “it’s so hard to meet a decent guy.” When I went to interview for a job as a bartender, having experience as one, the interviewers’ faces fell when I walked in the meeting room and didn’t look like Tom Cruise. They instantly lost interest.I get annoyed when people say “it’s all confidence” when meeting girls; in a way this transfers blame on to mediocre-looking men, who can always accuse themselves of just needing that bit more. Confidence helps, big time. But it’s a lie to say it’s the major factor. I had a hot dorm mate with the personality and assertiveness of a limp rag, who had girls banging on the door; and I had a classmate who was four feet tall but had a sparkling, laughing charisma to him—no dice. You need some raw looks to catalyze confidence.I made out fine as I aged. And I realize that attractive people have problems and anxieties we don’t have—they attract jerks, and they worry about losing their attractiveness, or the genuineness of their friends. I also realize that whatever I write here, triple it in either direction for what women put up with.
What is the difference between hate based on resentment and hate based on racism?
I read that there are some programs to help poor children go to college, but these programs are mainly marketed to minorites such as blacks or other minorities. In the mean while, white improverished children are being left in the dust. That can be hate because of resentment.
I'm so very resentful and angry with people who have easy lives, how can I get rid of this? I hate this about myself.
I can understand this I really can. It is so easy to feel like this when you've had to work for everything you have. And others - well it just seems like everything falls into their lap.But the truth of the matter is - resentment and anger that lie within us - do so much more damage to us than it does to them. In fact our feelings never impact them at all. They're blissfully unaware of how we feel.Meanwhile anger and resentment burn away in your gut and in your mind causing all kinds of health problems for you. You bear the consequences of these feelings, not them. So in fact you punish yourself. And that doesn't seem right. So in the end, it's much better and healthier for you to let these feelings go.Try writing them out on paper, or if you can draw/paint then do that. Keep on doing this until you finally feel free of the negative feelings. You will feel wonderful afterwards.Using any creative means at your disposal works wonders doing this work of getting rid of negative feelings, I urge you to try it for yourself.Don't burden yourself with all this excess baggage to carry around with you. Get rid of it!
Why do most people resent being told what to do?
From a very young age, you’re told what to do. You learn to read and write and use fundamental tools for creative expression, and then you’re told how to use those tools, stifling your own ideas of what you want to do and seemingly undermining the point of being able to express yourself.Then you grow up a little, and understand that you were being told what to do because you had more to learn. Fair enough - better to take the time to gain a complex knowledge of how to express yourself than just make do with a superficial understanding thereof. But you’re still being told what to do, with the promise that when you’re even older, you’ll have complete control over your life.Then you become an adult. Freedom at last, right? Unfortunately, not yet. You need to contribute to society, which normally entails going to work and being told what to do by your boss. It’s now been 30 years and you’re still constantly instructed on what you should do, and you still feel like you have no control over your lifelong pursuits.So when someone has the gall to come up to you and try to tell you how you should do something, years of latent contempt rise to the surface, and you want nothing more than to rip off their bollocks, flay their skin and use their spine as a tasteful, if macabre, belt.
Why do I hate people?
lol Laura. I wish it was that easy. I have actually kicked her out several times. Unfortunately she doesn't have anywhere to go. Short of having the police come and remove her there isn't much I can do. She literally wont leave. I have packed her stuff up and put it in garbage bag on the lawn. She gets home and puts it all back in. Honestly I think I am going to have to go to court to get legal custody of the kids and then I can have her removed. I really just needed to vent. I am having a very angry day. I did like the song Sam Hall.. lol I may change my name.
Why do I hate most people my age?
This makes me feel like a cynical jerk myself, but your rant was a breath of fresh air. People in your age group are intolerably annoying--and have been since my generation and well before, I'm sure. It is is getting progressively worse, though. Social media such as Facebook and text messaging have made people socially retarded, unable to carry on a normal conversation or convey their feelings as grown adults. Instead, they all fall into the same amorphous subcultures, and are breaking their necks to do exactly what their friends are doing, who are doing the same thing in return. To add to the situation, nobody under the age of 25 has can say or do anything of substance these days. If it doesn't involve "doing a shot of Jager" or some form of wildly promiscuous sex act, nobody can be bothered with it. I've met numerous people with college degrees that cannot form a complete sentence to save their lives. I have teenage kids, and between them and their friends, the future doesn't look any brighter. Fortunately, after college, there is the real world to contend with. A few years of trial by fire in the workplace should help iron out most people. For the rest, a life of fast food supervisory positions and trailer parks awaits. It sounds like you do have a major advantage, since you're seeing your age group for what it is. Don't be tempted into letting this corner you into countercultural antisocialism, though. It's tempting to rebel against every social norm out of frustration. Instead of falling into a devoutly nonconformist subculture, try to keep yourself in the middle of the spectrum--moderate, but not overly conformist or exceptionally weird. I know it sounds like obvious advice, but it's something I had to learn the hard way. At any rate, things get much better as you get older. Be the kind of person you want everyone to be, whether that fits your age group or not.