My cousin has a crush on me. What should I do?
Wow. I've been their. Disgusting feeling.Funny thing is, the reason I also said wow is because a Co worker of mine today kept talking about his cousins he has had sex with.Yes you read that right. He enjoys having sec with cousins. To him despite being related by blood on some levels he sees them as woman and he as a man has needs.4 tips I used to assist me to getting rid of her feelings for me:laugh it off.Tell her she's so cute. These 2 are a good way to let her know you aren't interested, you're not taking her advanceHug her tight and then let her go. Do this from to tone to show her you care but Only as a cousin. Sometimes in this situation you can lose a good relative off of stupid stuff like this.Have you just spoKen to her 1 on 1. This is the perfect time to voice your opinion and what is right from wrong. Sit her down since she will listen to you. Be gentle with your responses but let her know you're serious. I know you don't want this spreading to other relatives.So far, have you found any other actionable tips you may be able to use now to get this situation under control : )?
Is it weird to have a crush on your cousin?
I don't think it's weird. I had the hots for a sweet cousin of mine from the time I was 14, and I still do. We got drunk one time and did the deed. It didn't ruin our relationship, in fact we keep in touch more now than we ever used to. Just don't go getting pregnant by a close relative. I does something bad to the gene pool. It might come out with three eyes, or a arm out of it's back. But as long is it's just kept physical, and your folks don't find out, it sounds like fun to me. I wish me and my cousin could of done more when we were younger. Darn!
I have a crush on my cousin! What should I do? Should I tell her? Or should I keep it to myself?
I'm a 14 year old boy, my cousin is 13. I've been thinking about her all day long lately and I think I'm in love with her! We grew up together since young and we always played and laughed and cried together. I see her more as a sister than a cousin. Now I miss those feelings with her together. I don't know if the reason why I'm always thinking of her is because I have a crush on her or I love her as my sister. Whenever I'm with her, I will always not want to leave her side. Her birthday is coming, I don't know if I should tell her my feelings, if I do, what should I say without hurting her and getting her the wrong idea. Or should I text her instead? Please help me! Any help and advice is appreciated
Im 13 & Im a Girl Have A Crush On My Cousin Help?
Well I'm 13 & I Have a crush on my cousin, well he's not my first cousin he's my second cousin so we're not blood-related. We see each other a lot and the first time we saw each other was on my uncles wedding which was 2 weeks ago, He came up to me randomly and said hi my name is Connor So i said hi my name is Kim We started to talk to each other a lot and bout loads of random things. Since then we started seeing each other a lot because me & my mom & sister & dad are helping my cousin,my uncle & auntie decorate their house. (You see my cousin lives with my auntie & uncle.) I decided that i will help Connor paint his room, so it was just me & him. We started messing around like flicking paint at each other and putting hand prints all over the wall and stuff it was funny. But one day he started talking about like how many boyfriends have you had/been out with and have you kissed a boy before, it was hard for me to answer these questions because I've never been out with a boy or kissed one (don't ask why lol). So he was like 'oh' and went red. Then whenever its time to go he's like 'Give me a hug before you go please' Do you think he likes me? Im to scared to ask him out because if he says no im going to be embarressed. Do you think i should ask him out? Would it seem wrong going out with my second cousin? Anyway, i don't know if he likes me but i think he does, what are your opinions? Sorry if its long and so many questions:) And Connor(my cousin) is 13 aswell
Is it okay to have a crush on your not-blood related cousin?
you definitely have beauty on your side and you sound like a nice person. Just let her know.
I find my cousin attractive. Is this normal or am I just extremely messed up?
Age 5; me with my first male cousin @ my house. Mom: What game are you two playing? Cousin: Happy family. Mom: So, you two play siblings?Cousin: No way, she will be my wife. Age 9; at the restaurant. Me: This dish is yummy. Cousin: Yeah. I could eat it all day. Me: But its costly. We can't buy it here all the time.Cousin: Yeah, you should cook it for me then someday. Me: But I can't cook. Cousin: Learn it for me, then.Me: Okay. Only if you marry me!Cousin: Of course. Who else would be my wife? Age 13, at my grandpa's residence. Me: I have a crush on *****. Cousin: *sad face* Oh, great! Me: Would he ask me out? Cousin: Will you say yes if he asks you out? Me: No idea. Why? Cousin: You won't marry me then?Age 16, at my cousin's place. Aunt: Can you go to the grocery store and get me something?Cousin: No way. I'm busy working. Aunt: You're not. Playing video games is not an activity that should be considered as a work even. Cousin: Okay. *points at me* Tell her to go! Aunt: Why her? Cousin: Because I'm busy.Aunt: *hmmph* Who will shop for the groceries when you get married then? Cousin: My wife, of course. Aunt: What if she refuses to?Cousin: I'll marry my cousin then. *looks at me*Aunt: What???Cousin: Nothing. I'll go. Age 20, at a family reunion. Me: You okay? Cousin: Yeah, good. You? Me: Mm. Fine too. Cousin: I am in love. Me: With?Cousin: A girl. Yet to tell her, she might yell at me. Me: Hey, congrats. Who? Cousin: Well,... I. She is...*sighs* If I tell you, will you marry me? Me: Haha. I will. And we laughed for two whole minutes. That's my cousin, my best friend, my first love and my best enemy who loves me with all his heart and soul. We never went out or professed our mutual attraction towards each other; but if there is one soul who will give his heart and soul wholly to love me, it'll be him. The kind of love which will hold my hand to a visit down our favourite candy store. Or the one who will playfully tickle me and make me laugh at some silly jokes. The kind of love that would not hurt me in any way even if I throw hurtful words at him. The love that would bring a spark (and chocolates) everytime he visits. And the one who could lie down beside me all night with no bad intentions and talk to me. He loves me, and I love him too. But we could never be together. Not in this birth, even if we'll continue to love each other endlessly. :') ~Just that.