This is a serious question, and I desperately need your advice. Power Sanding a tattoo off?
I assure you that this is a serious question, and I am contemplating carrying-out a tattoo removal via a power sander. I have longed for a tattoo on my upper-bicep/shoulder to be removed for a long time. Will a power sander effectively remove the ink pigment? How far down must I sand, and when should I stop? Furthermore, How should I go about caring for the open wound, should I choose to sand off my tattoo. What kind of scarring can I expect? I appreiate your time and insight. Thank You
Need Good advice for my career? Serious question Attn.?
Helo guys ..i m having a serious problem regarding my career . so here it goes. i am a 12 passed out student with science stream and scored 57% marks.. i want to do B.tech with a repuitated collg. so what i want to do is drop one year , give improvement exam next year and reappear for competitive exams. But the problem comes here .. my dad is an electrical contractor so he want me to take admssn in any engineering collg. So that afer B.tech I join my dads business..basically he want degree . it’s not that that I don’t want to join my dad’s business , I love to do that , but I want my degree from a good collg. My some friends says if ur dad has his own business so go get take admssn in any collg. But some says dnt depend on ur dad . prove ur self. So here Is a big delema for me plz give me any good advice . its matter for one year of my life
What should i do? need serious advice?
I have been with a man for 4 years. He has beaten me many times and he also has cheated, im not sure about sex but has been caught with his ex girlfriend SEVERAL times and one other girl that i know of. He is very controlling and has to always be right. He has put me thru hell and back yet ive always stayed. we have a 3 yr old son and in december he left for the marines, i hated him then and he knew it he begged me not cheat or find anyone else, but i couldnt wait for him to leave, i knew it would be my chance to leave him. one night about 2wks after he left, i found out somethings about him, got really mad and out of revenge kissed and started to have sex with another guy, i stopped as soon as i realized what i was doing and i have never and would never do it again. i dont kno if i should tell him or not, we just got married and he left again for training , i keep telling myself i was such a bad girlfriend and he was sooo nice. what the hell ??...i just wanna fresh start with him, and we are gonna be moving away in may, im just scared somehow the "rumors" of this guy and i will get back to him, even though no one knows the truth, i stopped it the guy got mad that i did and spred so many rumors, i mean what should i do. i feel so guilty. i really love my husband, ive put up with so much from him and ive only made that one mistake. should i tell him? or should i forget about it, and deny it if ever i have too?
Need some serious advice on headaches?
I think it is different for every one. I get headhaches alot and migraines occasionally. For me, a migraine makes me feel very sick and a feeling as if i'm going to die from this! It is hard to sleep it off etc, so I always end up in bed with a cold wet washer over my eyes and around my neck. As for headaches, I know that some people get headaches as a symptom for anixity and/or stress, so pehaps relfect what's happening in your life at the moment or perhaps an issue that you may be revisiting and do what you think is right in fixing that up. Also, another reason for headaches is because of your eyes, in this case you need to get them checked out and speak to the optronimest in regards to eye exercieses that you can use while reading/writting/computering for long periods of time. Lastly, this may sound weird, but when I get a headache, it is usually on the forehead and behind the eyes - I massage the area. I start on the outside of the eyes, go up and around over the eyes and bring my fingers down my nose area. As I go down the nose I breath out of my nose. I think it is more of a mental thing and I pretened that the tension is going out of my nose. It is reallly weird I know but somehow it works!! BUT, everything is individual and I'm sure others will have some tips. I think it is trail and error before you find something that works
I need some serious career advice, should I drop my JEE preparations for preparing for UCEED (I'm in class 12)?
You don’t need to drop your JEE preparations for UCEED. Uceed exam requires design aptitude, creativity, problem solving skills. It's not a formula based exam that you need to study it from some book. Keep preparing for JEE while also practicing the questions for uceed. I think uceed uploads the syllabus for exam. Just solve questions from that topic. Its not like you have to study 6 hours everyday for UCEED. You see creativity can't be learned just by reading books. You have to be observant, curious how things work, observe thing around you, see more detail of what others see around you, have a problem solving attitude. Infact preparing for JEE will increase your problem solving skills.
I really need some serious dating advice, can you give me some advice?
Be honest about each date. If you do not enjoy a particular activity, make sure your partner understands why. If it is one of his favorite pastimes, you will need to look for other activities to enjoy together without depriving him of the unique things he likes to do.Be honest about yourself. Always dress, speak, and behave like yourself. If you are interested in being more than just a friend, it is best that your partner understand who you are and not make mistaken assumptions about your character that will need to be corrected later.Express your intentions clearly. While you may be interested in a long-term relationship, it is possible your date only wants a casual friend. If you are clear about what you hope the relationship will become, both parties can adjust to the idea or seek company elsewhere if it will not work out.Enjoy some private dates. For a couple beginning a lengthy relationship, private dates away from public view are necessary to get a feel for one another's true behavior and preferences. A quiet evening watching movies at home, a long walk in a local park, or even shared chores such as grocery shopping, laundry, or home maintenance can give you a feel for how your private life might be together.Discuss problems immediately rather than avoiding them. Many people feel that problems may go away if they are ignored, and while that may be true for casual relationships, a serious couple needs to work out diverse issues before their relationship can advance. Financial planning, family expectations, and career paths are all potentially conflicting themes that should be addressed.Take the time to enjoy the dating. While the ultimate goal may be marriage, couples should enjoy the freedom to date and explore one another in that less stressful manner without rushing to the altar or speed dating. If the relationship is truly meant to be, the extra time spent getting to know one another will be well worth it.
I need some serious advice. I have forgotten when was the last time I was truly happy. What should I do?
Count your blessings and rise above the crutches of expectations. Being truly happy is relative. If you measure it by your achievements, very few will say that they are truly happy because they might be satisfied with their performance but happiness may still evade them. On the other hand if you thank for what you got, you will find yourself happier than many. If you pass by a hospital you should be happy that you are not in it. If you go out on the road you should be happy that your city is not under curfew. You should be happy that you are not in a country where children cannot attend school because they have fled to camps for no fault of theirs.
Where can I get serious career advice?
Are you in school? Most schools have a guidance counselor who can help with testing. I don’t believe anyone can give you credible advice without testing. The ideal career is one that matches your interests and abilities.I once took a test where I was given choices and I was to pick the choice that I found preferable. It was like “I would rather, a. have a neat and tidy desk b. go on a date c. read a book”. It then matched the way you answered the questions with those that excelled in a particular field to determine what career would be a good choice. It was pretty much a disaster. I became an engineer, but that test gave me two career fields, salesperson or music, that were a match for me. Couldn’t have been a more complete miss and a waste of time.I would recommend you go to your local school and ask the guidance counselor about what tests they might recommend, but make certain your abilities and interests are both going to be determined.If you already know what most interests you that would be great place to start. I know it is very difficult to discover what will really be the best fit out of all the careers available, but it is so worth your time to try and discover the best one for yourself. Life is very pleasant when you look forward to going to your job compared to doing something you see as drudgery.Best of luck,Jim
I need serious advice on my career. I am very confused and I am not able to make a decision. What are your thoughts?
It seems to me that you are doing some relevant and interesting work and contributing to your field. But this ennui needs to be addressed. Firstly, you need to ask yourself the following sequence of questions:1. Why are you feeling this lack of interest and the need to educate yourself more? Is it just the routine and mundane getting to you or do you feel lack of higher education is crippling your performance in your current role? If its the latter, you should consider higher education. Else, try to enrich your life outside work. After working for a few years, it is a cycle that wil hit you invariably. So, you need to keep yourself energised so that you can stay motivated to continue your work and you can buil up some skills as well. You could build up a hobby, a passion, sports? If you are academically inclined, you could enroll in some online courses, which not only enrich knowledge but may also build up a skill set.2. If the answer to your question is higher education, then you need to ask 'why MBA?' Do you want to do it cos everybody else seems to be doing it or are you looking for a full fledged Managerial/Admin/business centric role in the future? Cos if you want to stay true to the technical nature of your role than you would be better off doing a MTech or MS since that would be a better value add to your skill set than an MBA, which will be on a tangent. Pls be sure that you are not chosing to want to do an MBA since your friends seem to be doing it and have a better quality of life, unless thats your priority of course. Do not run after a fad. Try to align your career on a line that takes advantage of your strengths and on subjects you feel passionate about. If you took up a role in a smaller co. In lieu of more lucrative prospects, i guess tht feeling has roots somewhere in you and you should try to stay true to that. In the end, you wil feel best if you knew you are doing something thats contributing to making the world a better place.
I need a serious advice. What can I learnt and be good in it ASAP in the field of IT?
Just be more hands-on about it and that will be the easiest way to learn about IT. Explore the possibilities you can have with it. For a quick guide, find websites that gives a crash course on IT and what you should know about it. YouTube has plenty of tutorials for you to be engaged with, and Google is a perfect search engine for theoretical knowledge.Hope you have an enjoyable time learning, and have a nice day!