I hate my step dad. What should I do?
Short answer: There's nothing you can do.Long answer: Dealing with parents can be extremely hard. Personally, I lost my father two years ago and my mom almost instantly (two months later) met another man online. My father died in April, my mother met my stepdad in late May, and he lived with us by September. My mother abandoned me for two months with my brother to go stay with my stepdad in Arizona, while I was still grieving. Basically, I have a lot of anger and resentment left over from this. Either way, my new soon-to-be stepdad isn't the best person, to say the least. He treats me much differently (worse) than he treats his own daughter, and says very cruel things to win an argument. He constantly blames me for things I haven't done and my mom believes him, and it's extremely frustrating. Because I broke my phone last month, and currently am unable to pay for my own (my mother is also unable to pay for a nice phone for me), my stepdad pays for it, which is kind, but he uses it as leverage against me. Anything I say wrong turns into me losing my phone for however long he’d like. Usually a few hours. He once gave me a list of things to do in order to get my phone back, so I completed the list and he still wouldn't give it back because he “"doesn't make deals with children.”Our relationship is awful, and he thinks that I like him more than I would admit. I don't, and likely never will.I’m explaining all of this to easily answer your question. No matter how much you hate someone, there is likely no quick, rational solution besides waiting it out. Unless your mother decides to leave him, you'll always be stuck with him. Just try to cope for now.
Horrible Stepdad! :( ?
My Mother died about 1 year ago and i now i live with my annoying stepdad during the week and bioligical dad on the weekends. I have a little brother named Christopherand my step dad treats him really good but my step dad is HORRIBLE to me. When my mom died he made us move and he made me leave my childhood home. We moved into a horrible apartment and across the street prostatutes are everywhere.My dad works at 10 am but he makes me and my little brother take a taxi in the morning to go to school because he doesnt want too"wake up early". The past couple months he is getting worse and extremely short tempered. Even with Christopher (his biological son and my half brother) A couple days ago Christopher didnt want too eat his peas so My stepdad threw his plate across the room and yelled "Eat the f*cking peas off of the d*mn floor" and he ran into his bedroom and stayed there the whole night. My brother Christopher was crying and just sat at the table so i went too take a shower and when i got out Christopher was still at the table and he had fallen asleep so i put Christopher to bed and then went too watch tv. My dad walked out and started screaming things at me"You f*cking woke me up!" (He was drunk by this time) and he grabbed me and threw me against the wall. I am really scared of him and i dont know how to make him stop drinking. When i go too my dads house next weekend i am going too tell my dad what happend. My dad loves me and would never hurt me and will make sure i never have too go back there again. But heres the problem : Christoper doesn't go to my dads because hes not my dads son, and My stepdad didnt hurt Christopher. I dont want too leave Christopher at my Stepdads..i love him to much but i dont know what too do :'(
HORRIBLE Stepdad ? how to break up with my mom?
My stepdad gets me in trouble with my mom and my mom lets him.He One time call Me the "Devil" and said i have "problems" because I instant chat with my friends. He is DIRTY!!! HE LEAVES HIS SOCKS EVERYWEAR AND MY MOM SAYS I HAVE TO CLEAN UP HIS MESS. His under wear under the bed his dirty sock i found one in the toilet. My family even despise him. My mom loves men she leaves me and my brother and definitley die for my stepdad and they only been going out for 2 years. When they fight and the fight is over my mom says baby i love you its a lie she always says that. Im tired of him. He says he works alout but hes freakin manager of a supermarket. I have to do laundry,clean his room make food take care of my baby brother tie his freakin shoe hes so rude and gets into my buisness when me and my mom are talking what can i do to break them up please i think im going to run away if i have to do his chores give me like pranks lots of them so he can get out of our lives and by the way im 11 so no huge pranked
How to deal with a horrible step father.?
My step father is always treating me differently than his son. Always looking for reasons to get me in trouble no matter how small or even if they dont make any sense. His son is already literaly a felon at age 12 from stealing and violence, and because I do nothing to get in trouble he resorts to nit picking. It does not matter how nice i am to him if im to nice he will take me getting closer to him as me hiding or covering up for something and look for reasons to get me in trouble and over think and stretch the truth or reword things i say to get im in trouble. If i ignore him he thinks i have an attitude and biches for that. here is an example if you have read this so far keep sticking through and try to give me some advice pls. 3 weeks after he got married to my mom he cheated on her and still is they got married last year and he dosent know we know. what do i do to deal with him and stop him from trying to get me in trouble or even stop him from hating me? I mean.. ive never met my real father and i sure in hell dont want him being my only father figure. He says hes the only who gives and we all take from him even tho all he does is work, while my mom also works for same amount of time, cooks, cleans, and is the only reason his son is passing school because she does all of his homework for him. he is never happy unless my mom is pissed off at him and i am in trouble. Ive spent the last hour and a half trying to cut this message down to size for people to read it but the smaller it gets the less and less my message gets accross but anyway, Ty for those who read this message and tried to help i appreciate your help.
I hate my stepdad SO much I wish he would die?
I can't describe my hatred for him, he is a horrible evil selfish disgusting human being. He ruins my family, I LOVE living here when he's out but when he's in I feel like running away. I wish he was dead. I wish I could kill him. Everyone's life would be better off without him, but my mum won't divorce him or move out, even though she says she hates him.. What should I do? I can not ever resolve this with him or talk to him by the way, it's not some silly little fall out or anything. Ive despised him for the 11 years I've known him. I'm 16 btw.
Why is my step dad such an asshole?
You have me stressed out from just reading this. I myself would talk to another relative on your Moms side. I think name calling your deceased Dad is despicable. Does he do it in front of your Mom? Try not to lose your mind and become rebellious, that would only prove to hurt your case. Get help right away. Step parents are supposed to help parent you, not abuse you. If Mom sides with him, ask to move to a relatives house. I am a Mom, and my 23 year old daughters step-dad is still her best friend.
In my dream I had sex with my step dad. Am I bad?
Not necessarily. Dreams are from your subconscious, therefore we cannot control them. In the dream it also depends if it was consensual or the circumstances. As long as they are not carried out in reality it is okay.
Is my step dad too strict or am a dramatic teenager? ?
From my point of view my step dad is horrible. From my step dad's point of view I'm horrible. Who's right? I'm 16 years old, sophomore in high school. I do fairly good in school. I slacked off freshman year and I'm having to take freshman science and math again. Other than that I've really improved my work etiquette since last year. But that's still not good enough for my step dad I know I struggled in couple classes but those had always been my weakest ones. I'm not the best student around but I don't have a discipline record, I'm respectful to my teachers, and I do my work. I don't have a phone, I barely have any computer access and when I do get to use it my step dad checks the reflection on my glasses to see what I'm doing. He also checks the history. Even if I say I'm working in something school related he will most likely not let me use the computer because he thinks it's an excuse to do whatever I want on it. Recently my literature grade dropped 12 points because I wasn't able to finish a project. I don't understand why he is so uptight. The worst part is that he's one of those people who are extremely full of themselves who think they're ALWAYS right and they never under any circumstances falter. What's even WORSE is that my mom doesn't do a thing to help. She tells me to just deal with it and soon I'll be out of this house. She herself isn't too fond of him either but she's very dependent on him because he never let her be her own woman. She doesn't work or drive and my step dad throws a massive fit if she leaves the house. And he thinks that all this crap he's doing is perfectly fine. That he's doing it for the best. Honestly, I'm mature enough to know when someone is doing something for the best interest of others or when they're just trying to always breath down someone's neck to be superior. I FAILED TO MENTION HE SOMETIMES GOES MOTHS WITHOUT SPEAKING TO ME. i'm sick of his crap.