Have You Ever Beat Up A Boyfriend

Have you ever been beat up by a girl, while your girlfriend was present?

Unfortunately, I have been subject to immense humiliation under the hands of a girl.My girlfriend was not “present” persay, but she was in a Facetime call with me.I was minding my own business when this girl walked up to me and asked me if I wanted to buy some candy. I refused and told her to go away in an annoyed tone. Then the abuse started. It felt like I was being hit by small pillows. The worst part was while I was physically assaulted by the hands of this girl, my girlfriend just kept laughing.I will not refuse to “buy” candy from my 3 year old sister ever again.

Do girls ever overpower and beat up boyfriends?

May b. Is it really necessary my dear? I mean have things come to such a pass for u 2? That's not healthy-neither the boy beating the girl or the girl beating the boy. U need to realize what's going wrong. U need not beat each other up. Meditate a little daily. U will b calmer then.

As a girl, have you ever caught your boyfriend cheating and beat up the girl he was cheating with, why?

First of all, I would never advocate beating anyone up, for cheating or any other reason.That said, you’re blaming the wrong person here. If your boyfriend or partner is cheating, HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE. Don’t try to blame the other person as a “homewrecker”. It takes two to tango and your partner is the one who really needs to be saying “no.”I’ll admit to having watched an episode of Jerry Springer or two in the day and there so many cases of a girlfriend/wife finding out on the show her boyfriend/husband was cheating and she’d attack the other woman.I recall ONE episode where the two women looked at each other, realize they had both been wronged… and laid into the man. That to me seemed the right reaction.

Is it ok for a woman to tell her boyfriend that he deserved to get beaten up (after he got beaten up) if he actually deserved it?

Hello, again, Khalil, it seems like you're having all kinds of interpersonal problems lately. Last I remember, it was all of your friends?Since you're not offering much context, it's really difficult to say one way or the other. The circumstances can drastically alter what is deemed appropriate or not. I'll give a few example scenarios that may or may not apply to your situation.If, for example. you initiated or instigated a physical fight, and then got beaten up, it's quite possible that you deserved it. If you deserved it, perhaps your girlfriend thought you needed to know that for your own good?If, for example,  you were defending yourself against an unprovoked attack, and you got beaten up, it would be quite cruel and insensitive for someone to say you deserved it. If that applies to your situation, I'd wonder why she's still your girlfriend.   If, for example, you were drunk and beligerent and being a complete verbally abusive ass, and some other guy (I assume it was a male?) beat the crap out of you to shut you up, you probably deserved it, but it's not very kind for someone to rub it in your face like that, especially someone who is supposed to care about you. I don't condone violence, but I have to admit, I've seen a couple of super obnoxious strangers get punched because they were so verbally offensive, and I didn't feel sorry for them, even though it wasn't something I would personally do. My personality testing shows that I possess a strong ability to empathize with others, and I score exceptionally high on conscientiousness and demonstrate thinking and behavior indicating a high degree of integrity. Whatever that means. I still didn't fell sorry for asshole. I remember thinking he kinda brought it on himself.With the lack of context, that's about all I can offer. Obviously, there are many, many different things that could have happened, and there's no way of give a valid opinion one way or the other. I hope things improve in your personal life. It sure seems like your friends and girlfriend don't think very highly of you. I don't know if it's you, or if it's all of those individuals, but it seems like you need to spend some time reflecting on your behavior or your choices in the types of friends and lovers with whom you keep company.Best wishes~

Have you ever been beaten up?

Yup and not only was I beaten up nearly spitting blood but the follow up to the beating almost made me cry!This is back when I was in 6th grade and I was taking Karate classes at school. We usually had sparring sessions which were quite controlled and at probably 1/3 the speed and force of a real fight, that too supervised diligently by our teacher/master.I was taller and heavier than the guys in my grade so my teacher started getting me to spar with students 1 and on this particular case 2 grades higher! Now I was already intimidated not just by the size and experience of an elder opponent but also knowing that he being my senior would bully the crap out of me if I won or landed a blow.Naturally I went defensive but this guy totally went to town on me, kicking and punching me on my ribs, sternum and in his finishing move a face kick which was thrown after a conceded my defeat.This was all done with my master “supervising” the whole thing. He got a small warning and walked off with a smug smile. I had bruises on my chest and face and ambled off from the class.The next class was when the real pain came. I requested my teacher to pair me up with someone at my own level and not someone who would love to play Mortal Combat with my face. To this day I repent asking him that. His response was asking the whole class to halt and calling me centre stage on the fighting mat and then calling this plump 3 years junior kid to fight me. He said to me “This is your level. Fight him.” This kid was puppy eyed and looking at me with a - please dont hurt me look.I felt so disgusted, I simply walked out despite warnings from my teacher. I realised later or that tears were dripping down my cheeks.This was one of those times that the words ripped me apart harder than the blows.

Have you ever been beaten up by a girl?

No, and Lord knows I’ve asked a few to do that. LOL. They say: “I’ll kick you.” I reply: “Will ya with spiked heels and a Xena outfit.” By then they are laughing too hard to do anything. They go to walk away and I call out to them: “Beat Me, Mistreat Me, Use Me, Abuse Me…I’ll be your’s.” Ah yes my younger days back when a sense of humor was a winning edge. Back when you could say things and they were funny, and nobody tried to file sexual harassment charges. Them saying they would kick me was a joke it was meant to be funny. So I replied something funny back. To reply funny back after my wisecrack they’d say: “Okay, maybe later if you’re a good boy.” “Be still my heart, foreplay tonight.” Then of course the laughing would start all over again. But no they never beat me up, never kicked me. (Sigh) Never did anything but make wisecracks.

As a man, have you ever caught your girlfriend cheating and beat the guy up, if so, why?

Some don’t really understand why the cheated party would be angry with the third party and not the cheating party, so I would like to explain.If a guy comes home and sees that his girlfriend/wife is in bed with another man he doesn’t know, he will try to get rid of the third party first, as he may see him as a threat. There is also a chance the third party knew all too well from the cheating party that they were already in a relationship with another man, but he still commits to the infidelity.After the third party is disposed of, he will direct his anger to the cheating party and several things may happen…he will:Verbally attack her about the infidelity.Declare termination of their relationship.In some extreme cases, it may result in physical assault on the cheating party.Why there are men that would rather beat up the third party instead of directing his anger at the cheating party is most likely because we continue to live in a society where a man beating a woman, for whatever reason, even infidelity, is still looked down on by society. Beating up the man would most likely not get him in as much trouble as beating him his girlfriend/wife, despite the fact she is the one at fault, since infidelity is absolutely voluntary.This is how I view the situation.