How do I get my money back from an old friend?
He's not a friend anymore. Hire some thugs to persuade him or else he knows what's coming to him. Money coming into play usually turns brings out the worst in people when trying to get it back.
How do you get back with an old friend that you hurt once?
tell them you are sorry for “telling you off/sleeping with your ex/stealing your savings”, and tell them that it's your fault, and you regret saying/doing it, and you want to make up. If they respond, Ask if there is anything you can do to make it right again.after doing this, you will both regard you and the other and your relationship more highly, and youll find saying sorry is the best thing you ever did, and it wasnt difficult at all.
Should I get back with my ex boyfriend?
My boyfriend of a year and 1/2 and I broke up about 2 weeks ago. I broke up with him because we had been fighting a lot. He would get angry over small things mainly and it made me feel really bad about myself, like i was under a microscope. One thing he always got made at me for is if we weren't having sex enough. His only reasoning for doing it was "Because I really want you". So, I ended it. It has been really hard. I've re-connected with some old friends since which has made it better. My ex and I have decided to be friends and have hung out a few times. I miss him. But I can't tell if I miss just doing things with him or if I actually miss him. I'm sure if I got back together with him I'd be happy for a while, but idk about the long run. Honestly I didn't feel super attracted to him towards the end of the relationship, which is one reason I wasn't up for sex. I didn't enjoy the sex. Not cause he was bad though. But every time we've hung out I can't stop thinking about kissing him and how cute he is and how much I miss him and our memories. I just don't know what to do :( I'm enjoying being free and single considering we spent ALL of our time together, but I'm still not sure. We're both still very young though (both 19). It's just really weird being without him. I remember how unhappy I was towards the end of our relationship.....but I'm unhappy now and miss spending time with him. What do I do? :(
How do I overcome the fear of getting back in touch with old friends?
I’ve been there… and am actually in that place now, as well.It’s an unreasonable fear. But it’s a real fear.What I’ve noticed, though, when I do reach out, that people are very understanding and usually tell me to stop being so apologetic, it’s okay. They are just happy when you DO reach out. I always feel really good afterwards.To get past it, I usually write out what I would like to say to them - with no intention of calling/emailing/texting yet. Once I get all of my thoughts out on paper, it’s a lot easier to do the next step of making contact.
What are good ways to get back in touch with old / lost friends?
if i do not complicate the situation like in what way have you lost your friend?is that you have lost contact with him/her?or you have lost him/her to someone else?in the first situation:try to visit that friend. if you dont have the address or the contact number then approach the mutual friends. ask if they know about him/her. if it doesnt work then forget the mutuality and ask non mutuals like even those of his/her friends and not yours or relatives. you can contact and request school/college/institute where he/she studies or the his/her workplace to get the contact.in the second situation:you need to talk. talk to your friend. discuss the problem. express yourself. give time and set them free. if he/she values you then he will come back. and if not then my friend there are more than seven billion people in this world. “if you know what i mean”.
Have you ever gotten back with an ex after you stayed friends for some time?
Yes.The most recent thing happened in October this year, to rewind a little, last year in August I started seeing this guy - incredibly hot, amazing sex, insanely good at certain things but he was emotionally unavailable. He could not make time for me come what may, intially I was all fine with it, but being the person I am, my insecruities came gushing all over me. This went on for a few months, after each attempt to make things better, I got to hear things like “Grow up.”, “I am busy.”, “Can’t talk now.”.I would have easily understood things only if he was not so into the rest of the world except me. He went on with his life easily, met his friends, partied his life away, only when it came to me, he was ALWAYS busy.So, one day, drunk on anger, I called him, not once not twice 117 times. Left a dozen messages. He didn’t talk to me for a week. After a week, I was just getting my head around the fact that this is over, he comes in crushes me with the words and leaves.Cut to 2016.I sent this guy a message, drunk and lonely reminiscing about the good ol’ days, we started talking again. In a few hours, we were on a phone call, talking like nothing ever happened. In a day, we met again. I spend the night with him and things went back to being the same, only this time it was the SAME!After the night, we talked for a bit, met a few times but he started disappering on me. For days I would not hear from him and he would just ignore me.He started with his same drama again, I’m busy, I can’t make time blah, blah, blah.One day, a day before demonetization, he asked me for some cash, and I gave it to him (this was not your average pocket money, it was huge for me as I was unemployed at the moment).After giving the money, this guy disappears! AGAIN!I was concerned at first, but thanks to social media, I knew he was alive and partying his liver away. I was furious! FURIOUS LIKE THE HULK.Yet, I kept my calm, tried to talk to him, remind him that I have bills to pay. This guy gave me no response, except “GROW UP, WILL YOU?”.After a month of begging, I lost my shit. I said ‘to hell’ with the money and send him a long, strong worded message.This time, I knew it was the end.The point is, no matter how good the relationship, the sex, the person is, once you break up with them, the story always has the same ending.It’s like watching Titanic all over again, knowing Jack would die. Why bother?
Im scared, i go back to school tomorrow, i have no friends and everyone hates me?
I used to have lots of friends in year 7 and 8, i hated my school so i moved to a different one, i hated that as well. So i moved back to my old one. All my old best friends have moved on and made different friends. Im going into year 10 tomorrow and idon'tt know what to do. I had my 4 best friends and they got my into loads of things like smoking drinking and drugs etc, i loved it but it kind of over powered us and we never had fun unless we where smoking weed or going toparty'ss taking drugs. Now ive fallen out with them and they all hate me, idon'tt know what to do since i amliterallyy the shyest person you will ever meet, i cant make friends at all. I cant go back to school and sometimes i get bullied because im very tall for my age and most people think im about 18. I was meant to be going to a festival with my old friends but thingshappenedd and ididn'tt go, i was so depressed, id spent everyday in my room doing nothing except crying, my mum was so worried, she took me on holiday to turkey where i met some amazing people, but when i had to leave i cried because it was like going back to reality. Im so scared and idon'tt expect people to understand this at all... I want to go to someone for help, like a doctor, i feel so depressed and horrible.. im 15 in under a month. Everything is so much more complicated than this and it would take a book to explain it all... I need help...
Have you ever reunited with an old friend and been disappointed?
because you both have changed so much? My friend is coming tomorrow and I haven't seen her in two years. Just from telephone conversations I can tell that we have both grown apart. This is both disappointing and sad. Have you ever experienced this yourself? Is there anything I can do to help alleviate the uncomfortable feeling I will have at first?