Have you ever been given a "sign" from a deceased loved one?
Absolutely. I had a near death experience a couple of years ago. Not only do I know that we are loved and watched over, I also know that when people tell you that they've seen a deceased love one, they should be listened to. I have stories about myself and my family that would probably give you chills down your spine. Good for you for not making fun of your wife. What she experienced was real. Don't doubt her. Support her. He father came to tell her he loved her and she probably needed his reassurance for one reason or another. I'm guessing that she felt pretty good (though a little unnerved) after seeing him? Since being married to me, my husband has seen and heard things that he cannot possibly explain. Now when something strange happens in our house he looks at me as if to say, "What did you do now?" These things happen all the time. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
I just lost one of my best friends. She thinks I am in love with her but that’s not the case. She is intentionally rude to me and trying to get rid of me. I miss her. What should I do?
So, your friend is rude and trying to get rid of you, but thinks you are in love with her. Ok. So, how long has she been bi-polar or psychotic? The fact you miss her makes you masochistic. You should forget about her, block her number and find new friends and possibly see professional mental health counselling as to why you think it is Ok for yourself to be abused by people like that.
I lost my diary and it feels like I lost a great friend. I poured my soul into it, it contains my suicide notes and the comfort I need whenever I'm having a meltdown. How can I deal with this?
Obviously there is no way to replace something that important, but you essentially have two options:You can try to recreate what was lost, which would be really difficult given you cannot remember what exactly happenened each individual day, but you can write a summary of the major milestones.OrYou can take the tragedy as an opportunity in disguise and start anew. While it sometimes feels good to look back at old things, sometimes we end up using those things as crutches. Honestly, looking back at old suicide notes is not healthy. That sounds like a pretty toxic behavior to me. Instead, focus on your growth. Focus on new coping mechanisms and emphasize how you have changed for the positive and write those kinds of things in a new diary. Obviously express yourself and if you are going through pain now, use writing as a cathartic exercise, but re-reading old sentiments about pain and death is just reliving old trauma. I think it’s better to proactively write out how you feel now.
Have you ever lost your swimsuit?
lol nice ! haha that must have suckedd well yea a few times me and my friend when tubing and we got thrown off, and my bikini bottom flew to my ankles and then when i got my on land, my top was like all the way off so i only had my life jacket on ! and my friends have ran up behind me and pulled all the ties on my bikini and made them drop to the ground right in front of this guy who was staring at me !
What is the origin of "pouring one out for my homies?"
In contemporary society, pouring a drink on the ground is a method used by thugs or gangsters to have their friend ("homie") who is now deceased join in their intoxication event. The deceased friend used to be part of the click and "ride together" with the click of friends. He was once part of many during drinking occasions like this, so the lucky thugs who's are still alive make sure to appreciate life and not leave out their long missed beloved friend. The act presents making a toast to the good life and appreciation of still breathing in the hood life. Furthermore pouring a drink to have their friend drunk along with them for the night, just like the good old times.
So I had this one friend and they would always try to argue with me over small things until one day I just decided enough was enough but should I give them a second chance?
As Emily said, it sounds like it would be much more than a second chance.But it genuinely always comes down to whether you want to be friends with them. We all need people to share feelings and be free to be ourselves with. If that’s who this person is, you probably wouldn’t be asking the question because you could bring up their annoying qualities without worrying about losing the friendship.But if this is just a person to hang out and have a couple of laughs with, and you’re finding it’s actually not fun, maybe you don’t owe them anything.That said, most people who treat people badly have their own background reasons for it, something that’s happened that’s damaged their social development. As they say, hurt people hurt people. So if you’re prepared to invest in pouring a lot of love and attention into this person, and really trying to create a space where they can be open and vulnerable and safe, they may work through some stuff and be a changed person (and a much closer friend to you, that’s for sure).But it’s not your job. You don’t have to take that on. Everyone is on their own journey and you can’t control what turns they’ll take and what choices they’ll make.But we are all here to look after each other. There’s no reason humanity should be able to live together and not just kill each other in one big brawl. It’s only because people behave with love towards people who really don’t deserve it that we have any kind of society at all.If you can make it through all that contradictory advice and come out with a decision, I’ll be very proud of you.