My husband slept with someone else during our separation, Is it considered cheating?
What he did is without any doubt adultery, that is the term for have sexual relations with someone other than your spouse and is a legal term it would not matter how long the separation was if your married it's adultery. Cheating is behaving in a deceitful manner and normally I'd say if you were separated that the answer would be no but in this case he was being deceitful before you separated and that is what led to the break up. Only you truly know if his behaviour has changed sufficiently for you to feel that it is worth while but it is possible that he feels that much guilt over his behaviour that he did realize what is important, men are not always good at dealing with guilt though and will sometimes try to justify why someone else drove them to it. You do need to do a lot of talking and the feelings of betrayal will take a long time to pass but if he and you both really want to make this work you can get there.
What happens if you sleep with someone of a different ethnicity while pregnant? Can the baby have the other man’s features?
Okay, here’s how it works, when you conceive, which means when the egg and sperm unite, that sperm carries the traits of the person you had sex with. Once that process begins, everything is in place to determine what the baby will be, that’s simply put, genetics.Keeping it simple, genetics are the physical traits parents pass on to their children - their hair color, skin color, eye color, whether you are tall or short, and many other traits. Both you and the man you had sex with, the father of your baby, you both pass on certain characteristics in the genes that make up the baby.So, once you become pregnant, nothing can change that baby, their skin color won’t change, their hair color won’t change, they will be the baby that you made with the person who you got pregnant with. The baby will have the genetic characteristics that you and the father passed on to them. Nothing else happens.If you sleep with someone else, that doesn’t change anything, the baby will not be changed by any new partners you may have. That baby won’t develop differently - once that started, the baby became who it will be and what it will look like.edit: Now, in reading your comment on another answer, if the baby does not look like who you believe is the father, then what I would question is whether you were in fact pregnant when you slept with the second man. It may be worth the time and expense to do a paternity test to be sure.
Do men carry trichomonas or woman? ( a std)?
WHEN ME AND MY FIANCE BROKE UP, I HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY WITHOUT A CONDOM AT FIRST BUT THEN I MADE HIM PUT ONE ON . ME AND MY FIANCE GOT BACK TOGETHER A WEEK AFTER AND I TOLD HIM I SLEPT WITH SOMEBODY ELSE -WITH A CONDOM. I HAVE BEEN ITCHING LIKE CRAZY SINCE I SLEPT WITH THE OTHER GUY AND NOW I AM DIAGNOSED WITH TRICHOMONAS. DID THAT GUY GIVE IT TO ME OR DID I ALREADY HAVE IT?
Asking how many people your partner has slept with?
I don't want to sound "mom-ish" here- but if you didn't discuss his sexual past with him before the first time you were intimate, did you at least ask him to get tested? Use a condom? Even people we love, awesome, amazing, funny, wonderful people can carry an STD for over 10 years and never realize that they have it. That said- is this someone you plan to marry/ be with for ever? If so, then you definitely have a right to ask. If this is just casual sex, or if you don't think you want the relationship to last forever, then it's not really any of your business, unless he brings it up first. If this is a forever thing, try asking him the same way you typed your question above. Tell him that you're just curious and that you love him, so you want to know more about him. Most guys will appreciate the combination of truth and flattery.
Help. Involved with engaged woman, what to do?
I've fallen for a woman I work closely with and we've told each other we feel like we're in love. It has been going on for 5 months and we started sleeping together in the last month. She's engaged and has been involved for 4+ years, has a mortgage with him etc. etc. I've never asked her to leave him but I think she knows it's what I want. Problem is she doesn't want to hurt him and told me she plans to marry him as planned next summer. I feel completely depressed when she goes home to him every day, and I'm finding it hard to hide the fact I'm hurting, which is causing more problems for us at work. I really don't know what to do. I'm so desperate to get out of this situation somehow. Today I even considered texting his cellphone and telling him she's been having an affair. Would that just make things worse and not improve my chances with her? I've been cheated on before and know how painful it is, but feel at the same time he has the right to know before the wedding. What a mess.