Do you lose contact with your friends after high school?
You only lose contact if you let it happen. I just graduated high school not to long ago, and I only remain in contact with 2 people, and thats only on occasion. You may think that these friends are the coolest now, but after highschool, its a whole new ball game. No more seeing eachother every single day. You have way more priorities in the adult world, so you really dont pay your high school friends as much attention. Your thinking will change when as you grow more mature.
What does it mean when your High School Sweatheart contacts you after 20yrs?
This is the girl I should have married. We dated off and on then I broke it off completly our senior year so I could test the water w/other girls. Ended up getting married 3yrs later to someone else and 2 weeks after I was married, she called to say that she was getting married. That was the last time we talked until she e-mailed last weekend. I've been divorced for 6 yrs she's been divorced for 3. All I've thought about for 20 yrs(even when I was married)has been her and now those feelings have really surfaced....WHAT THE HELL DOES IT MEAN?
How many of your highschool classmates do you have contact with?
That depends what you define as contact:Still being Facebook friends?That’s most of them, I’d say, but I haven’t checked.Liking each other’s posts on social media, and being on happy birthday terms?About 25 people probably.Seeing each other at least once a year and catching up every few months?About 15 people. Those were my close group of friends in high school. We still see each other at birthday parties, New Years, or weddings, and occasionally meet up in smaller numbers during the rest of the year when we’re around our home town.Other than that, we catch up on Facebook or Wharsapp occasionally, either one on one, or in group chats.Talk to nearly every day?None. It’s alright.We’re all over the world now, and it’s difficult to keep up with every one. It doesn’t mean we’re not good friends anymore.I’ve learned to value the way my high school friendships have evolved. It’s amazing how you can go months without talking to someone, but once you meet up again, it’s as if nothing has ever changed. No awkwardness, no resentment, just old friends, chatting like they were never apart.
Staying friends from middle school to high school?
hey, im going into highschool this coming year, and i have a bit of a problem, i have become great friends with a girl this year, like super close, and im really hoping to stay friends in highschool, but we hangout with different cliques so i will almost never see or talk to her? is it possible for us to remain as close as we are now?
How does life change after high school?
For the better. My college didn't have any real cliques. Everyone talked to everyone (there are a few jerks that never grow up though). I think it got 2000x's easier. You're just not as awkward and everything seems to fall into place. You DO have more responsibities though! Bills!
Did you stay best friends after high school?
No you're not. I have one best friend from high school who I am still very close with and I have other friends who I wasn't to close with in high school but am best friends with them to. And I go to school in TX and they go to school in VA. You may not talk as much but whenever we get back together it's like nothing has changed. But it's not the same for everyone, because college does change you. But if it's meant to be than you two will remain friends. And with things like facebook and AIM it's a lot easier to keep in touch with your friends.
Life after High School ? People change after High School ?
It's funny how important everything seems in high school because, once it's over and a few years go by, you realize that it was only 4 years out of a life that will probably go on for 70 or 80 more years. I've only been out of high school for 9 years now but already I don't even remember anyone from my school, I never see anyone from my high school, and I myself can't even comprehend that I used to be the person I was back then. When I look back at my high school days, it's like my memories aren't really of me, they're of some little kid that was all weird and stupid. With this in mind, all those kids that kill themselves (and/or others) because they're picked on in high school are morons because they fail to realize that high school is a tiny little fraction of life that won't matter the second after graduation.
Do high school friendships last?
It depends on you. If you keep in touch with your best friend from high school,then you could be friends forever. On the other hand if you go to college or move away from hometown your friends will likely be based in your new situation. People all change and sometimes the things that made us friends don't last. There is nothing wrong with that. Some friends we only have stay friends for a few years. Some stay friends longer. Usually the friends you make at work last the longest. I'm not in touch with anyone I went to HS or college with. We all took different directions and now have nothing in common.