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Having Trouble With Friends

Can you get in trouble by boxing friends?

If one were to box his friends, and everyone was cool with it, could you get in trouble for boxing outside? We dont want any confrontation with the law, and none of us are mad at eachother. we just want to box for fun. where could we go?

I have trouble making friends...?

I am the same way. I have yet to find an answer. I usually meet new friends because I have two very good - old friends that meet new people and I meet then I meet new friends through my two very old friends. I use my best friends as an avenue to meet new people. It is very difficult but you just have to put yourself out there, be yourself and take some risks.

Troubles with me and my friends?

Ok well i kinda have this feeling that one of my friends could be mad at me because at school on friday i walked down the halls and she usually comes up to me saying my name but all she did was a little wave and said nothing to me and then her and my other frineds skipped school as 1st bell rang..and i don't know anymore..i haven't talked to my friend since wednsday and she also moved me way down on here top friends on myspace anf used to be like 2...i really want to know if she couldd be mad at me or something and she has been skipping alot of school...i also want to know if there something wrong with her and if i should help her...just please give me some tips on how to handle this..ThanX..

Why do I have so much trouble making friends?

That's really nothing to worry about Dear Anonymous! Since you're new in the college, these things are pretty normal to happen. "These things" are just because of your insecurities, there is no one who hates you or who doesn't like to talk to you. You feel this way because you don't have your old friends there. You mentioned your first month in the college being good, you found new friends, but later they ditched you. No! I want you to imagine if you were already in the college for long time and you have all your good friends with you and then comes a new student. Of course you or this student will talk to you and for you still your old friends matter more, so you "ditch" this student. But that isn't really ditching it means giving more importance to old friends than new ones. If you want to have normal social life in the college, just stay confident and happy all the time and don't think negative and try to talk to more and more students. Also, get to know the friends of friends because you are new here it will be good if many people know you. You should start by chatting with those friends who "ditched" you and the guy who sits next to you and from them get to know more people, believe me you'll notice the difference.It's your responsibility to talk to your new mates because you are new here and not they.Again, just stay happy, smile and stay confident and think positive. Everyone faces some kind of difficulties in their lives and guys like me are there to help :)

I'm having trouble making friends in college?

This is my second week of college, and I'm having trouble making friends. I talk to people, but I can't see myself hanging out with them outside school. Honestly, you can tell if you'd fit in with their group or not, and, although we are friendly at school, we really wouldn't be friends. I don't live on campus, so I'm hardly ever there. And it's really hard to meet people, even though I've joined clubs. What should I do?

I have trouble making friends, should I give up?

I've always had trouble making friends. In high school, I spent the first half of freshman year with no friends. I made few friends slowly, but I have trouble keeping them. But these friends were more like acquaintances. I never go to parties, I don't do any school activities or events, it seems like I'm unwelcomed. By my junior year, I had found a stable group of friends, but they were all younger than me. I'm a senior now, and I still have few friends.

And people always tell me to be more confident, do they expect confidence to appear from thin air? I have a hard time building any confidence, and it gets ruined easily.I don't really have any interests, and I'm a boring, quiet person. There is like nothing fun about me either. And I can't make friends easily as most people could, I just feel that people don't like me. Should I just give up on making more friends?

Does he really want to be friends with me? why am I having trouble with this?

There is an attractive man that I never yet met in person from online that seems like he is genuinely interested in being friends with me. I am a female. He never flirts with me but calls me just to talk and wants to hang out with me. He even did this when he had a girlfriend..but like I said, he does not flirt but just likes to talk to me. Why does this feel so unusual to me? does it sound like he really truly likes me as a friend? I dont think i ever experienced a man wanting to be my friend like this. why is this strange to me? can anybody relate?

I have trouble keeping up with friends. Is there a problem with me?

No one can provide a definitive answer to you, because it could be both ways. Either it was your bad luck all of those times, or it might have something to do with you.If I have to pick one, I would say it is more plausible the reason is you.Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying there's a problem with you, I'm just saying that it is most probably because of you that this situation has arisen. Maybe you are expecting a lot from your friendships - is that so? Do you expect your friends to behave in a certain way around you? If so, you might just be overthinking things a bit. In such a case, my advice to you is to stop finding reasons in everything. For some time, just hang out with them when you feel like it; don't look for the negatives in whatever they do.There is generally a barrier when you're entering into friendship with people. Once you cross this barrier, it becomes easier for the friendship to go ahead. Everyone has their own barrier. It's like a wall that guards them from the outside world. Some people have a short wall, some have high, well-guarded walls. Maybe you've not yet crossed the barrier yet. In such a case, you have to be patient. Let things take course.There might be several other reasons why people keep avoiding you. You need to introspect from their point of view and check what it is with you that's keeping them at bay. Maybe you have too much of an ego, maybe you don't listen to other people, maybe you keep on showing off, maybe you keep on complaining all the time -- there are several possible reasons, and I would just be speculating if I picked one of them at random. Only you can find the answer by looking into yourself. Try to adjust with them and try to be a part of the group rather than being yourself when you're with them. This is if you really want to be a part of the group. If you don't like their company, then don't even bother. But again, it might be you who is creating problems for yourself. It would be helpful to introspect, for the sake of future friendships if not for this group of friends.

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