My friend lost a bet so he has to be my slave for 3 days?
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My friend is losing his mind help!!!?
ever since my friend's girlfriend dumped him he hasnt been the same since i think he's going insane he laughs at random moments now he speaks gibberish ,sometimes he shakes his head back and forth really fast for no reason, and he calls himself a neety beety the **** is a neety beety??? what should i do to help my friend oh and he repeats things over and over again that i allready know
How to get over your friends death?
My friend killed himself and I feel at fault now I wanna hurt myself as punishment. Idk where he's buried and I don't have the guts to confront his parents. How do I figure out where he's buried?
What can be some comforting words for a friend who has lost his father to death?
Just say that “ His ( your friend’s) success will make his father’s soul happy and contented ” .. state the same again and again to him..Few more …“ Achieve what ever you wanted to be… ( When he is alive ).. though he is no more…..”“You may loose his support.. but not his wishes and blessings… ”Though no one can replace a parents position ( How good they might be)…There is a life..… The life still goes on.. There are lot of things to do other than just crying..Comfort him to raise towards goals and career.. Comfort him by saying that you will be with him in his hardships. Staying & offering a shoulder to a friend in his hardships is the best another friend can do.. Let him cry .. let him take the burden out.. Feed him positive thoughts to grow…( Wrote assuming the friend is male - Referred as he / him)
How can I console my best friend who has lost his mother, father and only sibling brother in the last 12 months?
Words are a powerful thing, both written and spoken, across the miles, they may be all that you can offer.None of us, whatever loss we have endured, can truly know how your friend feels. His loss is profound, it is overwhelming and it is 'his'.Loss is a deeply personal thing. Your friend has lost elements of his past and present in the loss of his parents. He has lost both of those, and elements of his future in the loss of his brother. They would have been old men together. How can anyone find the words to sympathise with that?You can't. No-one can.But you offer your words. You let him know that you are thinking about him:'I can't begin to understand how you feel, there are no words which I can say that will soothe your pain. But I wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you, that I am here for you.'If you offer your hand of friendship, if you offer him your support, you need to be sure that you are able to do it.A friend, 'Lucy' lost her brother a few years ago. I pondered long and hard about whether or, in fact, what to write.I included the words of Henry Scott Holland:Death is nothing at allDeath is nothing at all,I have only slipped awayinto the next room.I am I, and you are you;whatever we were to each other, that, we still are.Call me by my old familiar name,speak to me in the easy waywhich you always used,put no difference in your tone,wear no forced airof solemnity or sorrow.Laugh as we always laughedat the little jokes we shared together.Let my name ever bethe household word that it always was.Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of a shadow on it.Life means allthat it ever meant.It is the same as it ever was.There is unbroken continuity.Why should I be out of mindbecause I am out of sight?I am waiting for you,for an interval, somewhere very near,just around the corner.All is well.Henry Scott Holland1847 -1918She told me a while later that she had carried my letter with her for a long time.Your words will be different, there is no template for grief or sympathy. Merely finding some words which show that you know how massive this is in his life is important.Be his friend, be a true friend, that is all that you can do. And that is huge.
I've hurt one of my best friends and lost his trust. What should I do?
I'm sure you've already tried apologizing, and your friend has indicated to you that he isn't ready to talk or accept your apology at the moment. That is normal. Do not pester him with any further apologies. Apologies are words and words are cheap. They will not be sufficient to mend the hurt your friend must be feeling right now. Instead, give your friend some time, and space.Do not grovel, but also do not become angry at your friend for his inability to accept your apology right now. Instead, maintain a healthy balance - respect yourself, but also always show that you are ready to talk to your friend when he is ready. This is no longer about you - it is about your friend and how he feels and gets over the hurt.If you feel that you've waited long enough, try to talk to your friend casually without broaching the hurtul topic. There is no need to raise it unless he does. And when he does, make sure you listen and do not, under any circumstances, become defensive. Just apologize and accept whatever your friend has to say. He is talking to you - that is something to be grateful for. Your explanations can come later, when your friend's hurt is less raw.If your friend does not broach the topic even after some time has passed, that is fine too. You can and should continue to show that you still value him as a friend, by for example asking if he'd like to go for lunch or if he'd like anything from a place you're going to (could be Paris, could be the canteen). Resist the urge to have a conversation about “us”. Navel gazing in relationships is largely self-defeating. Instead, listen to your friend and take his conversational cues. Over time, the relationship will normalize.All the best, and stay positive :)
My guy blames me for losing his "friends"?
Well D.... you know this has been an issue in the past with him, and his flirtatious nature being somewhat intolerable too. The fact these girls are all deleting him shows they probably weren't even real friends of his and just girls he randomly met and added..... seeing as the only time I delete someone off my facebook is if they are someone I don't know or someone I BARELY talk to. So seeing as it is all woman... looks like your bf was doing a little chit chatting with randoms and they aren't interested in sticking around with some guy with a girlfriend trying to get all gooshy and stuff. (catch my drift?) So my problem with this whole thing here is he "blames" YOU for this loss of friends on his list? Honestly... tell him to grow up or hit the road! That is just ridiculous?! He is obviously at fault for other woman deleting him, and why would he care ANYWAY if you are his girlfriend? None of those girls are important, nor are ANY of them his friends anyway?! They are all insignificant people in his life that he is making you feel guilty about not having contact with anymore. This needs to stop.... NOW!!! He can't keep doing this to you and making this cyber life of his such burdan on your relationship! He is straining you knowing what ticks you off... and this is his way of saying "See... look what I've done for you! I'm not talking to all these random girls anymore because you MADE me!" ugh! He makes me angry sometimes... Just put your foot down, tell him to get over it or get out of your life for good this time... you don't need this again... this is just plain childish and stupid! Good luck
My boyfriend got so drunk that he lost his phone now I can't reach him WTF SHOULD I DO?
new years eve was his 25th birthday and he told me he drank half of a bottle of tequila and roamed the streets of NYC ALONE he was so drunk he didnt remember where he went or where he put his phone i wasn't there because i was home sick with strep throat and he didnt wanna be around me cause he was scared he was gonna get sick too anyways i haven't heard from him since yesterday morning when he called me off his friends phone so i guess he hasn't found his phone and he already told me he's too broke to afford another one so should i just dump him? since i can't even get a hold to him anymore Its been a year and I'm tired of dating a drunk he got a DUI last year which made him lose his license and his car cause he crashed it and he gets drunk and Curses me out me to almost every week but I miss him & idk when I'm gonna hear from him again WHAT SHOULD I DO ?!? he doesnt have a computer or a tablet so i can't email him either
How do I talk to a friend who has just lost his father? What things should I talk to him?
We are all pathetic at these issues. Because there is just nothing we can say or do to make it better. But we really want to. And we really try. And often end up embarrassed and feeling like an idiot.So here's the deal:Your friend does not expect you to 'fix' anything. Nor does he wait with baited breath for you to supply some 'answer'. And he sure doesn't want to make you suffer along with him if he really cares about you.So he may just try to look 'ok' and be silent on the subject and act like today is any other day.The best any of us can do is approach our grieving friends with a simple, 'Hey, man, I am truly sorry for your loss. Please let me know if I can help you through this.' A hug is never out of place.Then move on to something else unless your friend seems to want to talk about his dad or the situation in general. If he does, just listen. And listen some more. Make eye contact and nod now and then so he will know you are engaged. Unless you have been through the same thing, refrain from saying, 'I understand'. In fact, in most cases it is kinder to say, 'I can't imagine'. Because that is the truth. Keep in touch regularly with your friend. Suggest some normal activities. Give it time. But if you detect a real melt down that does not ease up in a few hours or signs of depression be alert and suggest grief counseling.
My friend just recently lost her dad, what can I do to cheer her up?
It is possible that there is absolutely nothing you can do.You can be there, available, for when your friend needs you as a friend. You can listen. You can suggest to do things to take your friend's mind off her father. You can suggest things that would remind her of the good times with her dad.Yes, those last two were polar opposites, but the fact remains that people deal with grief in very personal, and individual ways. There is no specific thing that can be suggested... since there is no single specific thing that will work in every situation where someone loses a loved one... nothing specific other than just being available.You need to listen, NOT ASSUME, and be what your friend needs you to be.