My boyfriend hit me and then made fun of me?
Well I know you still love him so you won't leave him , well at least not right away , so try talking to him first . But no matter what the circumstances are , it's NEVER , NEVER , cool to hit your girl . So if he ever hits you again or calls you a w**re or a b*tch or something like that , don't hesitate to leave him . I mean you didn't even do anything wrong , the things you did were before you started dating him , and just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean he owns you . He can't tell you who you can or can't give your number to , but of course it's up to you to be faithful to him , but it's okay for you to still be friends with other guys . So my advice is try talking to him , maybe and maybe if he realizes how stupid he is , and apologizes then give him another chance , if he ever hits you again or curses you then leave him , trust me you deserve better and need to be with a man who'll treat you right Anyways good luck and I hope things go well for you .
My boyfriend hit me and then made fun of me?
Please, distance yourself from this guy,it will only get worse. it WON'T get any better. One of my friends died from domestic abuse so... yeah. In reality what you've been through in life with someone doesn't mean anything, find someone else and avoid situations with him. If you break up with him, he will apologize to you, and tell you he will never do it again. This is a lie. Manipulative people do not change. And if he hits you again call the police. I guess you could message me if you wanted to know anything else.
Should I still love this man who used to make fun of me and never respected my love?
Your explanation of the situation itself speaks too much about how you feel. Never settle for a person who doesn't respect you. He is after you now because you were good for his ego. Such people,when they are loved, they never understand the importance of it and when they realise that you are moving on, they can't stand the sight of it. They want you to brood over them and be miserable. I would advice you to stay away from him. You deserve much more than that.
My boyfriend made fun of my vagina......?
okay.. so first off i am 17 he is 16.. we have been dating for a year and 8 months.. we didnt start having sex until a year and 2 months into our relationship because i have been insecure about myself for a long time.. he has never said anything bad about it. but yesterday we got into an argument.. he sent me a baby and told me that was me. then told me i looked like an asian and sent me the asian emoji and the rice emoji.. (im full american.. and he knows i hate when people say this to me, no offense to asians..it just brings up old bad memories of me getting bullied in school) and i was really hurt when he said that.. so i told him he looked like a sloth (his friends always say he does) and i know i shouldnt have said that.. but i was really hurt and just went off.. and then he started making fun of my vagina. he told me i was loose (i lost my virginity to him?) he then sent me a snapchat that he drew of it and it looked all wrinkly.. i am honestly so hurt.. it took me so long to show it to him.. and then he told me i was over reacting bc i told him tht it upset me.. and then he said dont talk **** unless you can back it up.. when i didnt even do anything? hes the one that started calling me things..i do love him so much.. but i am so hurt.. and i feel lied to .. ive put so much time into us and our relationship so idk what to do.. i want to stay with him.. but i feel like him going off and making fun of something like that was wrong..
My boyfriend hit me and then made fun of me because of it?
No matter what other factors are involved there is no excuse for a man to hit a woman. Never, ever. You got that? You need to just walk away forever. The reason being is that if he hits you once then the day will come when he hits you again. It may not be tomorrow or next week and it could be years, but it will happen again. And the next woman he is is with will also get hit. When my ex announced that she was leaving me and wanted to get divorced I was angry beyond words, but in the midst of all of that anger I never even once considered hitting her. I had grown up with parents who were into hitting and I decided that I would never hit anyone ever unless it was self-defense and luckily I've never been in that situation. Hitting another person is never appropriate.
I love reading novels and people make fun of me. What should I do?
I used to be on the other side of this.I was not much of a reader back then. During my 2nd year in college one guy used to read novels in class. For 1 month he was reading “The DaVinci Code” in the classroom. During free time, lunch breaks he used to deeply immerse himself in that book. All the guys used to make fun of him.One day I went to him and asked, “The DaVinci Code movie was so cool. Is reading this book equally as interesting ?” He calmly handed me his book and said, “Just read the first 20 pages or as much as possible, I will get it from you at the end of the day”I did what he asked. I read few pages and handed it to him at the end of the day.Later that evening when I reached my hostel there was this sudden urge out of nowhere. I wanted to know what happened next. Eventhough I have already watched this movie the first few pages had a lot of new informations. I was eagerly waiting for the next day, so that I could borrow his book for some time.Next day when I asked him he just replied, “Buy the book and read the rest. It’s worth it. Believe me”. I ordered The DaVinci Code online and started to read.It’s been 2 years now. I have read all of Dan Brown’s novels (Angels and Demons is my favourite). I have read a lot of novels like Hunger Games, The Godfather etc. I wanted to know how the books are different from movies. The best part is that I really got an interest to read books & appreciate the information the author has put together. The movies are just 20% of what the book holds.So If anyone makes fun of you, hand over your favourite novel and ask them to read few pages. Believe me, they would eventually start to appreciate your interest towards book reading.
Why do my friends tease/make fun of me a lot?
Being made fun of, isn’t inherently bad. But be wary of the warning signs that suggest they are disrespecting you.Here’s what I’ve come to recognize, over the years.They can’t tell the difference between when you are being serious and when you are being silly.They brush off your problems as funny and make fun of you when you are in pain.They humiliate you in front of people you’ve never met before or people you are less acquainted with.They are always there to make fun of you but are nowhere to be found when you need them.When you look upset, they don’t stop. Instead, they keep going. Sometimes they will even threaten you or insult you for reacting negatively.Take away all these warning signs and you might actually have a pleasant experience out of other people seemingly making fun of you. I fell in love with my ex because she used to make fun of me all the time when we were alone. She occasionally made fun of me when we were with close friends. She’d never make fun of me when we were in bigger groups which had people I wasn’t that close with.But in your case, I’m a little bit confident that you might have looked sad when people called you autistic or weeb. If they continue doing so while showing some of the above signs, you might want to start ignoring them. If that doesn’t get them to stop, I would avoid them and start making new friends if I were you.
Have you ever loved someone truly or madly or still do?
Yes.We had common courses. We both were CRs of our class. We met regarding lectures. We ended up having good time.We had one and half months of continuous night outs.We spent the night at the VMCC building at IITB. We were like fighting friends. We played in the mess throwing salt and water on each other.He would make fun of me all the time.For the first time we went out (it wasn't a date), he got a cab for only 3.5 Kms. (IIT Powai to Hiranandani).I laughed hard. Made fun of him. Made fun of his clothes too. I mean I didn't hurt him. But he never wore those clothes ever again. The red jacket and Nike shoes I remember, he looked like my joker.We met for studies and ended up eating and fighting and having fun.And on one night out, he gave me his arms while I wanted to lie down on the floor. We kissed. We confessed.We talked for long hours. We never stopped smiling.He was madly in love with me. I was scared though. I always wanted to end up with him but thinking he might leave me, I pretended I wasn't too serious. I wasn't willing to be heartbroken. I had seen worst times and I didn't want to cry anymore.He cried on his mistakes when I used to get hurt. I would always melt looking at him and used to scold him saying, “Why do you cry like an idiot. I hate that”.Things were beautiful. I started thinking about future because he started making me think about it. I started becoming mature being away from him. I started loving him more being away from him.And a series of bad events started. Everything in my life started to get shattered.I went into depression. I became angry, suicidal, anxious. I used to panic a lot.I spoiled everything I had. He could not bear me anymore. I had hurt him more than I could think of.I said sorry. But few things get spoiled to the extent you can't imagine.I still respect him. He is the best I had.I hope he stays happy.-Smita