What should I do when my bf is out with his friends and doesn't text back?
Well, you could start respecting his time with others, and NOT texting him when you know he is out with friends. If you do that on a regular basis, all it does is show that you are unwilling to let him have a life independent of you. You HAVE to be part of his time with his friends.You are insecure, and are afraid that if you are not “on his mind” he will forget you or find someone else. That is what makes you feel weak and afraid.The fact that he doesn’t text back is simply him being respectful of his friends. He is out with them - his attention should be on them, not on his phone. You know that when he is out with his friends he won’t respond to your texts, so all you are doing is making stress for yourself.When he is going to be hanging out with his friends - go do something yourself. Go to a movie with some friends, take yourself out to dinner, heck just go walk around a mall or visit a library. Just DO something so you aren’t focused on whether or not he has responded to your texts.
My best friend (guy) told me that he doesn’t wanna date because he loves me as a best friend and wants me in his future. Yes, he does like me back still, how do I take this?
I apologize for my brutal honesty here, but you asked, so I���m answering.This one’s easy. He doesn’t want to date you. Full stop. From my own experience, if two people want to date/be together, the fact that they are friends won’t stop that from happening. What your friend is doing is letting you down gently.What you can do from here:If not being with him is so painful that you can’t be around him, tell him that you need some space from the friendship for a little while while you work through your emotions. When you feel that you can be friends again without things being emotionally messy, you can circle back around. Or…If him not wanting to date you is no big deal, and won’t affect your friendship in any way, then you can shrug this off and laugh about it later.
My ex hasn't told his friends we broke up. What does that mean?
I believe that it means that he doesn't want to make things awkward by bluntly announcing a breakup, and that's not exactly a happy event so I can't say that I blame him. In addition, he probably doesn't want to be bothered with a million questions, or hear all of the pity ("I'm so sorry, you two were so cute together!"). From the gist of your statements above, I get that you are torn up about it; therefore, you do want the pity, but he doesn't, so he is not going to tell anyone that you all broke up. It honestly doesn't help you, either, to keep having to answer questions or have people feel sorry for you about the breakup. All that does is prolong the pain. What you really need to do is maybe not worry so much about telling others, as much as telling yourself that maybe this was the best thing for you two. Continue to be civil toward one another, but definitely limit your time around him for right now until you're done with some of the pain because if you try being civil and you're really upset about it, it's going to come out in a snappy retort or in some other way, and if that happens in front of your mutual friends, then things are going to be just the way you didn't want them to be; awkward! Give it some time, at all costs; if you are intending on hanging out with your buddies, try to find out if he's going to be there and maybe avoid some of the gatherings until you're a little more healed, and by that time if someone happens to find out and ask, you'll be able to talk about it without badmouthing him unintentionally or otherwise displaying hurt and anger and bitterness. I wish you the best of luck and hope that this has given you some clarity.
I sent a nude and he told his friends,what do I do?
As long as he has no photographic proof, I would deny the hell out of it. But your reactions when people ask you in school make it obvious that you have done this. The boys also see that this gets to you, that's why the keep doing it. I would've told you to just deny it and just say "he's desperate..etc." but I would say "yeah I did and WHAT?, did he tell you he begged me for them? Did you ask him what his di*k looks like... TINY" I would go around saying he has a "small di*k" lol but that's just me. Make the joke on him, don't let people see it's getting to you. Smile about it no one has proof. On a serious more realistic note.. I hope you learned your lesson. Your only 13 years old sending nudes. Your way better than that and your body is your temple. & also you could tell your principle since it would be harassment. Things like this make young girls your age kill themselves. I'm happy you haven't thought about that but I would make his life hell. I would turn the joke around on him honestly but I'm 20 that's why. Put on your big girl shoes since you want to do big girl things & suck it up. He has no proof. Show him it doesn't get to you. Note* since she is already sending nudes then I know she has cussed & what not. That's why I'm giving her this vulgar advice.
I slept with a guy and he told all his friends?
So I'm 15 years old and a freshman in high school. This senior guy (let's call him Jonathan), had been flirting with me for the past few months. This soon turned into physical contact, like holding hands and hugging each other. After school, he'd offer to take me home and we'd make out in his car before he'd take me home. Well, yesterday we got to making out, which ended up with him asking me if I wanted to go to his house since his parents weren't home yet. I was pretty sure I knew what he had in mind, and so we went to his room and had sex. He didn't use a condom because he said it feels better that way. He came inside of me and this morning, he bought me the morning-after pill. So I don't have to worry about being pregnant. Anyways, at lunch today, one of his friends came up to me and asked if I was sore. I asked what he meant and he was like, "You know, I heard Jonathan popped your cherry yesterday." I had no clue what to say! I was so embarrassed. He doesn't even look at me anymore and he hasn't replied to my texts. All of his friends have been nudging him when I am nearby, and so I'm sure they all know. Why is he being like this? And why'd he have to go tell them? I'm so hurt :(
My bf told his friends that he took my virginity?
I dont know how many ppl he told, but quite a few as far as I know. A few months later, when he moved to another city, he mentioned that to his new friends. he was so excited when he mentioned that, even to me. Does he respect me?