I always feel alone. I want to share my feelings with someone but there is no one who can understand me. How can I get rid of it?
i will go anonymous for this answer , but my friend you are in a serious trouble .you know why ?because simply you are asking too much from others .let me break this for youyour question says“I always FEEL ALONE “.Were you born on this earth with the group of people , will you die with a group of people (except it is a terrorist attack ) . Dude stop comparing yourself with others , i am not saying comparison is bad but don’t get jealous about it . instead feel envy about that person , create your own path and be better than that person , haven't you heard of the phrase PEOPLE CHANGE .SO THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT WITH YOU RIGHT NOW WILL COME TO YOU JUST IMPROVE YOURSELF , GOD IS GIVING YOU TIME TO IMPROVE YOURSELF .NOW next part of your question said that you want to share your feelings with someone and no one is understanding youlet me give you a life hack.if you want people to listen , just speak .oh you know about it buddy either you are too confused about yourself , or you think that since they are not acting like those movies you have seen , they are not understanding you , buddy i am an Indian (sorry for disclosing that because now you will judge me but i cant stop it ) and my grandfather told me that India didn't get its freedom in one day . you have to fight for your space in everyone’s life and by fight i don’t mean you lift any weapon and start beating them , means you have to ask them and tell them what you actually want.HOW I CAN GET RID OF ITone single wayFEELINGS ARE TEMPORARY , THEY CHANGE . THIS IS JUST A PHASE SO JUST RELAX AND WORK ON YOURSELFNOW ONE SINGLE NOTEMy answer might contain sarcasm at some point , i put that so that you can enjoy it .My answer may lack many punctuation , please avoid . i am just another human being .COMMENT IF YOU NEED ANY ADVICE OR YOU DON’T LIKE MY ANSWER . DON’T FORGET TO SPEAK .( THAT WAS DONE BY DR .MANMOHAN SINGH JI , AND WHOLE INDIA TROLLED HIM DURING 2014 ELECTIONS DESPITE HE DID SO MUCH TO THE COUNTRY )
I don't get along with my boyfriends sister.... HELP!?
You should feel every kind of need to become her sister to succeed being not even friends, but on good terms with her. How can u be best friends if you not sisters, I truly do consider my best friends to be my sisters so it should work the other way around as well. If she really is having trouble with anger, do not consider getting into any kind of argument with her. People with such problems react differently to if they were neutral. You should show that you ignore her behaviour, and should speak with her in an appropriate manner at all time just like a therapist - is really the best way to approach people with such problems. If you consider the worst part of your argument over, only then you can try to communicate with her, otherwise make her satisfied to leap over any possible arguments at all times. It also does not help when you approach the case nervously; you need to calm yourself before calming her. If you got 2 jobs and u finding it hard, then consider going easy on everything. Don't allow yourself to be stressed. Have enough sleep, eat well. Also, for me walks are very relaxing so try taking some time to think about the day to calm yourself down. I have to say I also find my half an hour bus journeys relaxing as I can think about the things I got to do and how I am going to do them. Also, coming back to your sister, help her out when you see she needs help - Ask her if she needs or wants anything when you going grocery shopping, maybe she wants some magazines or books from library (Note that I don't know if the Ps is about you and your boyfriend or sister as well, so it might be other things if shes a teen or a child) Well, life is stressful sometimes, so she might be going through that time now so best to stay away or if you meet don't look at her and talk to her only when she talks to you, no other time. Don't try to protect yourself when she talks about you, be the more intelligent one and ignore it, don't get emotional about it...is what my mum always said when I had fights with my older sister. Hope I helped a little, but its up to you now- :)
What are some things NOT to say to a gamer?
Guy friends who talk to you like you don't know what the fuck you're doing.Listen, video games are not rocket science and if I need help, I'll ask you. I don't need an instant play-by-play, side tutorial, filled with extra condescending commentary.2. “Can you pause?”No, I can't. I'm either in an un-pausible cutscene/fight or I'm playing online. Whatever you need me to do, can be done as soon as I finish this part.3. Telling people you're a girl is annoying.For some unknown reason, girls are considered “rare gems” in gaming communities that are generally geared towards males. Such as fighting games, most MMOs, and FPS.Going on mic with someone you've never met before in a randomly selected party (when you're a girl) is met with “OMG, IT'S AN ACTUAL GIRL,” then what I've listed for #1 happens.Getting hit on continuously. Please, stop. This is why I don't talk to people through mic. I might have a female character, but that doesn't give me away automatically because guys often make female character accounts as well. So, I can usually stay off the radar. But, if you're playing DCUO (for example), communicating with your party is key and I have to use my mic.Guys use you as female mascots for their guilds, especially if you're pretty and/or really good at the game.4. “Did you play the other games in this series?”No, I just thought I'd go out and buy Batman: Arkham Knight and never play the other ones. It's only the last game and has an ongoing plot where I could be possibly missing major pieces in the story, but fuck it, let's jump to the end of the series.5. “Oh, you like (insert game here)?” *then, asks me 100 questions about said game, in an attempt to weed me out as a “fake gamer”*I don't know what this proves, but nice try. I'm not gonna say I like a game just to be “cool” or whatever. If I like it, then I probably know a lot about it. And if I'm not familiar with it, I'm not gonna lie to pretend like I am. I'm not trying to impress people. I just play whatever the hell I want.
Existential questions. How can I find relief.?
For the last several years I've been tormented by Existential questions, meaning of life, why are we here, why do we care, why do we eat, why do we love. I spend alot of time pondering these things and it induces alot of anxiety for me because I cannot find answers. Does anyone know a good book on the subject, not something that will provide answers because I don't believe there are any but just something that might bring comfort to my mind. Thank you. P.S. I don't believe in god so don't bother refering me to a bible :)
Please help me i'm so embarrassed i cant go back to school?
Dear Danielle :) I want you to listen to me closely. You seem like an amazing girl. Everyone has to have embarrassing moments in their lives. Yours is the least embarrassing situation I've come across, be thankful. Now what should you do? You should be STRONGER than everyone! Than the 50 people, and your two ex bestfriends! The only way you can win this is by acting as if it DOESN'T bother you at all. Even if it kills inside, act like you dont give a sh!#t ;) You have to go to school with your head up, and if someone asks or makes fun of you, just say "Oh haha it was so funny and gross, and her **** smelled so bad I almost puked :P " and LAUGH it off, they will stop making fun of you for it. The more you show them how bothered you are, the more they make fun of you for it. Believe me, even if it seems as if it's the end of the world..it's not! You can get through this! You seeem strong, and nice! Which is a perfect combination. Most important thing, is to act as if you dont care! Just laugh along with the people who will mention. BUT if it gets out of control, do NOTTTT cry or show that you're annoyed, just simply go to the principles office, and say that they are bothering you and won't leave you alone :) P.s- I wanna know what happens, so If you want we can talk on facebook or whatever you like Good Luck sweetie! Yu can do this.
How do I remove laziness while studying?
Take action :If you don’t feel like reading, read. If you don’t feel like writing, write. If you don’t feel like doing exercise, do it. In short, action is the best motivation. The only thing that stops us from getting sucked into a task is not doing it, so do it now!Take one bite at a time :Does the idea of taking your whole meal in one massive bite sound repulsive? Luckily, you can take it one bite at a time, enjoy it, and still consume the whole meal.Likewise, if you try to do everything together, you lose motivation to do anything at all. Therefore, it’s best to split a bigger task into smaller ones and concentrate on only one part at a time. The less formidable the work, the more you’ll enjoy doing it.Remove the distractions :When being lazy, we are often attracted to the distractions. Bloggers are found browsing others’ blogs when they are supposed to be writing theirs, and students are found watching TV when they should be studying. These are all distractions that serve no good purpose. If you remove the distractions, for example, by disconnecting from the Internet and by locking the TV room, you’ll notice that it becomes easier to get back to the work.Find motivation :Why are you doing work? It is easy to forget the purpose of work with time. Remind yourself of how important your work is for you, for your personal satisfaction, for your life, family and so on. If you feel you are not clear about the purpose of what you are doing, it’s time to recap the goals you set down when you started.Reward yourself :Discipline and schedules are all good and well, but do we want to become robots? This the very thing we dread and that is what leads us to lose motivation. You’ll be more enthusiastic to complete a task when you know you are going to reward yourself at the end.We usually agonize over the fact that we are being lazy, yet continue to procrastinate for hours. It becomes difficult to get out of this condition unless we force ourselves to take action, which is, admittedly, the most difficult part. Though once we set about doing a task, the laziness disappears like a magician’s trick.Thank you
HOW DO I SEXUALY PLEASURE MYSELF AT HOME?_?
I AM 16 AND I LOVE TO PLEASURE MY SELF AND I HAVE FOUND THAT I CAN'T REACH MY CLIMAX WITH JUST MY FINGERS AND I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO HEAR YOUR THINGS P.S I HAVE TRUED TO GET MY MOM TO GET A SHOWER HEAD AND SHE WONT GET ONE SO ANYTHING BESIDES THAT
A guy asked me out today and I told him "no", but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again?
Hahahaha..!!! I can’t control my laughter... !!Hold On.!! *Sigh*. What you have done girl.!! He is a gentlemen.!After reading answers of many experienced persons.You already got your answer.But i also wanna add something here.Did you watch Pink Movie?No?Then Watch it girl. You will get your answer.He must have watched “PINK movie”.In which Amitabh Bachhan says: “ ‘Na’ sirf ek shabd nahi… apne aap mein pura vakya hai. Ise kisi tark, spashtikaran,explanation ya vyakhya ki jaroorat nahi hoti. (No, its not only a word…Its a complete sentence in itself. It doesnot need any argument and no further explanation)”.*These boys must realise that “No” ka matlab “No” hota hai. Use bolne wali ladki koi parichit ho, friend ho, girlfriend ho, koi sex worker ho ya aapki apni biwi hi kyu na ho. ‘No’ means no and when someone says No, you stop.(These boys must realise that No means No. And a girl who is speaks this she might be any known , your friend, girlfriend, any sex worker/,or even she could be his wife. No means No and when some one says No, you stop).When you said “No” he did the same. He took your No gracefully. He did not force you. He must be a gentlemen.If he would not have taken your No as No and try harder to ask than you were the same who would have said him cheap, stalker, creepy, nagging guy and then ask question here.So stop doing this.Boys also have a soft heart and they too have emotions like us.If they are not saying anything it does not mean that they don’t get hurt.They are.!