I'm 24, a jobless mechanical engineering graduate. Am I a failure? Can I excel in life? Excel, for me, means building a house for my parents, living life like any other successful person, with a few more comforts than I have currently.
Here, I would like to share my experience.I am B.tech in Mechcanical engineering appeared in year 2017, in year back (2017), when I graduated, there was a bad financial condition at my home, my family was suffering with financial issues, and that was my final year of B tech, after that I was about to get a job was must for me, to not to support my financial conditions, as well as also to support my family by not asking money to them.In July, 2017 i get job in one Small scale industry was producer of Die plates by using VMC machines in Ludhiana, PB. I worked as operator, and did 12 hours x 6 days duty for rs. 6000/- p.m only.I was exausted, and left my job and returned back to home, now I was worried about my futire, and worryness about to supporty family. Now, I used to search jobs on internet, and started working online, started learning new stuffs on internet, and created a website to post new articles for engineers. But still I was jobless, I came to home from Ludhiana in September, 2017 and I was jobless till May,2018.After suffering and hearing many taunts from many sides, I started seeking source of earning, and I choosed to teach in Diploma engineering college as Lecturer, to continue my revision of engineering background, and I was started my job in May, 2018 for rs. 12000/- P.M.During working there, in August, 2018 I got interview call from India's leading mobile manufacturing Company OPPO Mobiles, for the position of assistant Production Engineer and I got that Job, with gud starting salary, which cannot be disclosed here.During this all, One thing was sparking inside me was Hope. Which keep me motivated.So, Don’t loose hope, You are an engineer, specially a mechanical engineer. A Mechanical engineer is a person who can be a Banker, Joins TCS, Can do any job, with perfection.All the best.
I do not want to attend my sister's graduation.... How do I get out of it?
Wow...some replies are almost as long as the question lol. Just don't go. If you are asked why you don't want to go then just tell them you don't want to. You don't have to make up anything. Although your accomplishments are to be commended, you are not grown just because you graduated early lol. Stay young as long as you can lol!!!
Hard Work=Success? Yes or No?
Many people link hard work with success. People keep telling me that if I work hard in school, then I'll get better grades and accomplish more things. But I think that some individuals work hard, yet they're still not successful. A classic example would be immigrants. My parents are immigrants, and they work their asses off. Because of the recession, my mom was laid off, and the only time that she could find work was the night shift at another establishment. She works from 11 p.m. to 7 a.m. She, staying up all night, is essentially noctural now. At one point, my dad, working over 100 every two weeks, had 3 jobs. They aren't millionaires. We're definitely in the lower middle class. Why do people automatically assume that hard work leads to success and wealth? This is a generalization. People who aren't successful and rich work just as hard or even more so, and they still struggle to pay their bills.
I cant stick to one Woman...help!?
Hello, I thought i would come here to see if any of you guys can help me. It sounds silly, but the truth of the matter is i struggle to stick to one woman, I am 25 and getting concerned. I have had 4 serious relationships in my life all lasting 1+ year and lots and lots of little flings, but i struggle to stay faithful. Not meaning to be big headed but i am not an ugly guy so dont have to much of a hard time finding girls but i just cant keep with them, I am currently with my latest girlfriend for a year now and she is perfect for me (just like the other 3 really) , She is pretty, smart, good job nd really loves and cares for me and i love her too. But when i go out i will kiss other girls and when im not with her i seek attention from other girls. and i have been like this with every girlfriend. At first i thought it was just because i was young, but now im 25 and want to settle down but its like i just cant help myself..... Some of you will read this and think im just an attention seeking male slag, lol (maybe most of you) . But anyone in same boat as me? Its like i get bored with having sex with the same girl if we have done it more then 10 times kinda thing. Am i just a bad guy who probably will never be faithful or is it more common then i think? Thanks