How do I overcome depression after failure in exam?
By doing good in the next exam ofcourse. There is no merit in looking back and pondering about the failures of life which are supposed to only teach you lessons, they are not meant to be brooded over. I will tell you my story. I got a 15 in Maths in class VIII. I studied in Purulia Ramakrishna Mission. The teacher, Manab Da, was gracious enough to make me pass the exam by giving grace marks. I made it a point since then, that I have to do better in Maths and I will not say failures did not come later- they did come.But I improved-improved to such extent I even started dreaming Maths,I could not stay a second without it. I got addicted to it and finally I got a 96/100 in the Board Exams. At that time, unlike now, getting above 90 was something to take pride on.Though I do not take it in that light. I never bothered about marks. My love for Maths outshone the barriers or limitations of the marks.I cracked WBJEE later and studied Electrical Engineering- there also I did not do well in my HS and could not study Math Hons. but I never gave up hope and without any coaching or tuition cracked Joint with a fair rank and studied EE. Later I wanted to do MBA, I cracked CAT 2012 with a 95 percentile score but owing to financial doldrums, despite getting calls from 2 tier B-schools and IIM- Kozhikode, could not study it. I was depressed. Then I sat for the entrance test for MS in Computer Science which I am about to complete this month. So my journey- failure after failure, failure after failure and I still stand and see I am talking to you and giving you Gyan for free. I had got a job in TCS during my campus selection programme while I was in my BTech 4th year. Again I could not get a job at RBI as I was whiskers away from the cut-off score. So many failures yet nothing could assuage my spirit- I got depressed, I even take medicines, I cry a lot even being such a grown up man- I cry like a small girl on the lap of my mother sometimes. I have no shame to admit these. But this is who I am- failures with a pinch of success- that’s how the world has to accept me for who I am.Hope I could answer your question.
I've failed in career, love and life. How do I deal with my life that has full of problems?
I lost a year in my 12th due to shortage of attendance. My dad stop talking to me since then. He is very rude to me since then,like I have committed a sin. I was made to stay in my relative house as I was pursuing my 12th again in different city. They fed me a day or 2 days old rice. Cold curry etc. when I told my dad,he did not believe. Finally my Grandmom came to rescue and I was out of that hell. I was not allowed to meet or talk to any relative.I felt like giving up because I had none beside me. Still I wanted to be something. I had a girlfriend after I joined engineering 2 years we were like the best couple in the whole college. One fine day she says she is bored of me. The following week she is dating another guy. I was broken down. My aggregate was bad though these incidents made it worst. Now it was painful,very painful. I did not eat anything for a month. Smoked 2 packs of cigarettes every day. Screwed my life. Then one day I realised that am I living for myself and not for others. Took me a lot of time to gather all the things and finally ended up having the best package(salary). Not because I had luck but I did work really hard. Never thought about anybody other than myself. And today I am here making enough money even though I am pursuing engineering. Very happy because the only person I am dependent on is me. Finally I had thought of giving up/killing myself too. Buddy remember that is not gonna benefit u either,what if u end up in more miserable things.None of us know what is after life. Death is gonna come anytime.Instead just try,everything,anytime,anywhere probably u might end up having an amazing opportunity or enter into some small thing which will eventually grow out to give u amazing fruits.
I'm 24, a jobless mechanical engineering graduate. Am I a failure? Can I excel in life? Excel, for me, means building a house for my parents, living life like any other successful person, with a few more comforts than I have currently.
Here, I would like to share my experience.I am B.tech in Mechcanical engineering appeared in year 2017, in year back (2017), when I graduated, there was a bad financial condition at my home, my family was suffering with financial issues, and that was my final year of B tech, after that I was about to get a job was must for me, to not to support my financial conditions, as well as also to support my family by not asking money to them.In July, 2017 i get job in one Small scale industry was producer of Die plates by using VMC machines in Ludhiana, PB. I worked as operator, and did 12 hours x 6 days duty for rs. 6000/- p.m only.I was exausted, and left my job and returned back to home, now I was worried about my futire, and worryness about to supporty family. Now, I used to search jobs on internet, and started working online, started learning new stuffs on internet, and created a website to post new articles for engineers. But still I was jobless, I came to home from Ludhiana in September, 2017 and I was jobless till May,2018.After suffering and hearing many taunts from many sides, I started seeking source of earning, and I choosed to teach in Diploma engineering college as Lecturer, to continue my revision of engineering background, and I was started my job in May, 2018 for rs. 12000/- P.M.During working there, in August, 2018 I got interview call from India's leading mobile manufacturing Company OPPO Mobiles, for the position of assistant Production Engineer and I got that Job, with gud starting salary, which cannot be disclosed here.During this all, One thing was sparking inside me was Hope. Which keep me motivated.So, Don’t loose hope, You are an engineer, specially a mechanical engineer. A Mechanical engineer is a person who can be a Banker, Joins TCS, Can do any job, with perfection.All the best.
Is Devry preparing me for a career as a software developer?
DeVry has been mostly fluff and very little solid education. Their main goal has always been to get as much as they can in student loans so it will be painless to the student. Only later, the student realizes that the loans are expensive to pay back. It is not preparing you for a software career..
Better career choice? Nurse or Teacher?
Hey! So i need to decide on what i want to do for the rest of my life... Im freaking out! Im thinking about being a teacher or a nurse... I've done some research on this and this is what I came up with,.., Correct me if im wrong though... So ive learned that nurses get paid more...but have longer hours... Also I learned that college is way harder for nurses... So my questions are: Who gets paid more? How much? College is easier as a nursing student or education? How many years does college take (not including the general ed) for each? Is it harder to find a job as a teacher or nurse as of now (2011) My personality: I really like working with people... I love kids...so id like to be a pediatric nurse or elem teacher... I always have a smile on my face... like always...for example..when im walking around in a mall... usually most people smile at me or say hello...Most people say i look approachable and nice... I do alright in school mostly Bs but i sort of have a problem with science.. So please tell me anything and everything about those 2 professions... Thank you so much for the info...
I am 25, not yet settled and depressed about my career. I have written a lot of competitive exams and failed in all the exams. What should I do?
Sadly… This is life. My mom always tells me that Life isnt a golden platter. Everyone has a bad phase in life and this is just your bad phase. the way it came, it’ll go as well.Let me tell you my story. A bachelor and Masters Degree from a Top B School in India. Second Masters degree from Abroad. I am still jobless. Everyday I see my friends as compared to whom I am way much smarter working in really good firms in Mumbai and Delhi. When I wake up and I see people getting dressed and leaving for Office, I feel someone is piercing my chest with a very sharp knife. But I am helpless. I have given nearly 150 job applications, 20 interviews but still at the last moment some shit happens and I lose it.When this Wasn’t enough, the Love of my life turned out to be a hopeless cheating loser. When I somehow managed to cope with these two sorrows, I lost a Family Member.Hence, I sometimes feel like screaming at God for doing so bad with me for no fault of mine. I believe that every human has an emotional threshold, which once crossed, we fall apart.This is life mate. Everywhere u see you will find injustice and unfairity but we have to live with it. I trust myself that academically I was Smart, hardworking and today the only problem is luck isn’t on my side. Its the same to you. Its just your bad phase and everything is gonna pass soon and you’ll see success in your career. You are just 25, you have a long way to go. To hell with all the negative minded people in your life. Don’t be very hard on yourself. Just have a little more patience. Trust me when I say this - “ONE DAY, EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY.”
Is respiratory therapist a good career choice?
I just graduated from RT school. i would say yes i started when i was 20. I love it. Las vegas is a good area also. Im thinking about moving thre to get a job.