Help! My Brother's Dating A Psycho And He's Going to Get Hurt?
Hi! I am new to this site. My name is Sammi (or Samantha) and I desperately need help. I am a 21 y/o F and my brother is 23. We both still live with Mom and Dad. My brother is currently dating a real psycho *****. I love my brother very much and I'm afraid he's going to get hurt. Well she is hurting him. How bad is she? She won't let him see his friends. She screams at him if he's late in picking her up. She knows he doesn't make a lot of money, but she expects him to pay for every thing. She belittles him every chance she gets. Please understand that bro is not a spineless wimp, but he's convinced he loves her and "If she will just change...." You get the idea. He's so angry when he comes home after seeing her, that I go to my room. And he's going to make an even bigger mistake because she wants him to get them an apartment. He just graduated college and can't even afford a place for himself (and you know she won't contribute dime one towards the rent or utilities). So the other night, she must have given him the night off because he wasn't going out with her. I decided that I really needed to talk to him about this, so I told him I was taking him out--my treat. I took him to a coffee house (I'm a non-drinker. Personal choice, but I do like clubbing BTW). They have board games, live music, etc. We started playing Monopoly with some of the regulars. Bro was actually smiling and having a good time, so I decided not to press the issue. He was actually enjoying himself. So here's the kicker. My girl posse were dropping me off at home last night when bro and his girlfriend were having a big arguement. I arrived just as bro's girlfriend said, "I know you last night with another girl." (Great, she had someone checking up on him). I said, "Hey girlie. Did your spy happen to notice how much the girl LOOKED like him?" His girlfriend made a vicious comment towards me and I lost it. I almost beat her into next week, but my girl posse held me back. Now my bro is mad at me and says I should mind my own business. He won't even talk to me and when I came home from school, he slammed the door in my face. I don't know what to do now. Should I apologize? Should I say anything? I want to talk to him 'cos I want to show him how poisonous this relationship is to him? Or should I mind my own business and let him get hurt? I care about him and I don't want to see him get hurt.
I am becoming psycho, what should I do?
Firstly, congratulations on doing the one thing right that most psychos get wrong: Admitting that you have a problem!Most people never admit they have a problem and always blame hi someone or something else for their problems. At least you acknowledge that you have a problem you'd like to work on, so there is hope for you.Firstly, we all have some kind of weakness that pulls our trigger. Some people can't resist sweet things. Each time they see chocolate cake or candy, they simply have to endulge, even though they know it's bad. Same thing with alcohol, drugs, or sex.The keyword here is control. How do you develop a sense of control over your emotions? Bruce Lee used to say that emotion can be the enemy, for he that can't control his emotions has already lost the fight.Consider the following: When someone says dumb shit and they piss you off, it's easy to lose your cool and give them a piece of your mind, yes? This includes throwing stuff at them and verbally abusing them.But it would take a lot of discipline to restrain yourself, remain calm, take a deep breath, not shout at them, and ask yourself what the best way is to release your anger.Maybe you'll consider that some people are just the way they are due to their upbringing or their environment, and that there's little you can go to change them.Maybe you'll start recognizing the annoying habits in other people that you'd NOT like to adopt, and in a way, they'll unknowingly be teaching you on how to become a better person. By looking at their dumb ass behaviour, you'll now know what not to become, and in this way, improve your game. Then buy them a drink to say thanks for the lesson.Work out regularly as it will release a lot of stress and your brain will secrete endorphins that are associated with feeling good about yourself. Your improved body image will also make you feel more confident about yourself.Lastly, listen to various TED Talks on YouTube about anger management and how you can improve as a person. Try to do something nice for someone less fortunate as this will give you a sense of compassion and achievement.Adopt a pet as animals love unconditionally. Take your dog for regular walls as this will help to reduce your stress and you'll meet other people with similar hobbies too.
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