How should a person react to a rude cashier?
What do you do when a cashier is rude? Leave your things and walk away, making them put it back? Ask for a manager? Just not make a scene, and write a complaint letter to the store when you get home? What is the best course to take, without blowing it out of proportion? Tonight I ran a debit card and accidently hit yes to cash back, total mistake. I had to cancel and rerun the card. Nobody else was in ilne behind me, It only took another 3 seconds, and I literally got scolded and chewed out. She asked if I could read, and asked if I didn't want cash back why did I hit cash back. The girl was extremely snotty and condescending and snarked at me quite a bit. In fact I think she wasted more time than I did. Usually when I cashier is rude I say nothing, but then when it is time to shop again, the memory of the unpleasant transaction motivates me to shop at another store instead, even if I have to drive further and pay more.
Do you ever feel sad when people don't respond back to your messages on Facebook?
I don't have Facebook... but I hate being ignore in general. To me, it's rude to just simply to talk to/answer someone without a good reason. Like if I text someone and they don't reply, I hope they at least have a good reason why. If they just do it because they don't feel like speaking or something, it's kind of rude... especially if you're suppose to be friends/care about eachother. If there's a good reason, that's different. I always try to make sure I reply to texts in a timely manner. If I don't reply right away, I give a reason why so the person texting me doesn't feel like I was ignoring them.
Do you think it's rude to not speak back to people when they say hello?
At work, I always say hi to people when I pass them in the hallway. Every now and again, they don't speak back! Does this happen to anyone else? Do you think it's rude or just typical office behavior?
Why are some people so mean on answering yahoo questions?
Hello there, ...please keep in mind that some people feel that they can act, write, shout and cuss the way they want to, because nobody can trace the bad manners back to them. Kind of chicken, wouldn't you say? I prefer people who express themselves in a polite way, people who show that they have good manners and respect for others and their opinions. By the way, I like to tell you that the tone is often not any better on the German speaking Clever side. Very disappointing how people hack at each other or insult each other with cuss words. Because of all this negative behavior, I am cutting back on visiting Clever as it is often insulting to be part of the discussion. I am now part of a forum that has to do with my aquarium hobby. Nice place to visit, good people to interact with, NASTIES are reprimanded and banned if they start using foul language, and that forum is a joy to visit. Have a nice Easter day with lots of goodies to nibble on. ta-ta
Is it rude to talk to a deaf person?
A person who is unaware that you cannot read lips is not being rude, simply uninformed. Yes, it may be rude, but if they are talking to you they may simply be so used to your presence that they forget that they need to sign. You are deaf, that isn't something that you can change, but you could simply say, "I'm sorry, but I don't know what you are saying." If they are not including you in the conversation then you could ask for them to sign so that you can keep up. If they can't sign, then why do you expect them to? I can't speak Spanish so is it rude for me to speak in English when someone who speaks primarily Spanish is around? The world isn't obligated to include you in their conversations so if they aren't talking directly to you, you can't assume that you are even supposed to be a part of the conversation. It's annoying, and maybe it's rude, but it's no less rude than when I go to a foreign country and don't speak the language. People often will have conversations right in front of me, some that I know are about me and they won't speak in English. It's rude maybe, but sometimes if they are just trying to have a quick back and forth conversation they don't want to take the time to have speak English. I just have to get over that fact and ask questions when I can. I do have to agree that yelling at you was very rude, people can't seem to get it into their heads that speaking louder doesn't mean that people will understand any better.
Manners and Etiquette: What's the best way to deal with rude people who don't realize they are rude?
The best way to deal with someone who is rude and doesn't realize it is to, in a non-confrontational way, point it out to them. Here are a few ways to do it.When someone makes a shared decision for you:“It sounds like you have made the decision we should go to the Thai restaurant.”“It sounds like you have made the decision we should go the scenic route.”“It sounds like you have made the decision that we should go to your parents' house instead of mine for the holidays.”These responses point their attention to the fact that you were not asked for your input.When someone speaks in a way that is not supportive of something you support:“It sounds like you don't believe that juicing can be beneficial to health.”“It sounds like you think people should always dress up when they go to a friend's house.”“It sounds like you don't believe that theory is valid.”These responses point their attention to the fact that not everyone agrees with their point of view.When someone makes a comment that implies you agree with them when you don't.“It sounds like you think those are my religious views as well.”“It sounds like you think those are my political views as well.”“It sounds like you think those are my philosophical views as well.”These responses gently remind them that it's rude to express your personal views as universal.
How do you deal with people who say wrong things/ bad things about you to others behind your back?
Well, that is a question not many people will respond to the same.You can be the bigger person and ignore it. Take it with a pinch of salt. After all, who are they to judge? Is their opinion of you even true? Does their opinion of you matter? …. the answer should be “let them talk about me… who cares, whilst they talk about me, someone else gets a break".Or….Confront them. Don't get upset about it. Remember the above. Do they have facts? Does their opinion even matter? It shouldn't. They have no right to belittle or judge you or bad mouth you, and if they do, well, it says more about them than it does about you. Some people do it to get a reaction, don't rise to it. Whilst they're stabbing you in the back to person A, they are probably stabbing person A in the back to person B and so on.These sorts of people are, usually, the ones with more flaws than anyone else. They try to drag people down to feel bad about themselves because it's a reflection of them on the inside and they don't want to be alone in it. Be the better person.