Am I a bad person for hating my "sister"?
I can understand where you're coming from cause i’ve dealt with similar issues. shes so cocky and so arrogant. shes self obsessed and she treats me like absolute shit. i was a fat kid and the only thing she use to do was embarrasses me in front of her friends calling me fat,making fun of everything i do and and my teeth. even after i lost 38 kgs she still found some way to make fun of me. I didn't know it would have such a huge impact on me cause i now suffer with low self esteem issues and am very self conscious. I feel terrible every single day and i know that if it wasn't for her my life would have been 100 times better. Growing up my sister was given more love than me and that didn't bother me until i became as old as her when she started getting things for being the darling daughter that she is.For her 18th Birthday she god a pair of diamond studded earnings worth like 42k or something. and i got ‘Im low on cash’the apparent Reason for that is the fact that i am a guy and she is going to be married and sent off. My parents are aware of the mistakes they have made with her but its not like that are stopping her from doing anything cause she is ‘Beyond repair’. Thats a load of bullshit cause i know how they react when even the slightest thing hurts her. They use her as a bad example in front of me but the moment i turn around they praise her for even the smallest thing she does. if i do something not even remotely connected to something she did they start shouting at me. they are not aware of the things they have done and they think im in the wrong. During fights ive even brought up the issue and they couldn't say a word but they start bringing my studies in between just to change the topic. i basically hate my dad and my sister so much that sometimes i just fell like running away till my feet bleed.
Am i wrong if i snitch on my sister?
my little sister(age 16) snuck out of the house one night to be with her boy friend. they had sex and emediatly afterwards she came home crying because she said that while they were having sex the condom bust and he had already ejaculated. she was scared that she might have been pregnant, but about a week later she came on her period, but she still has been showin symptoms and she was scared so her boy friend took her to get a pregnancy test at the clinic and come to find out she is pregnant and she wont tell our mother. she and i both know that she cant take care of a baby. ami wrong if i tell my mother?
Bad brother/sister relationship. Help?
First of holy...****. Second, this is a very VERY delicate situation. You were both instigators and you both went with it. It doesnt sound like he raped you, and it doesnt sound like you manipulated him into doing anything. As animals we have sexual urges towards..well anyone we find attractive. If you found your father attractive you would have sexual thoughts about him. If you found your male cousin attractive same thing, many men have sexual thoughts about their sisters and other female family members. The difference is normally a natural brain response occurs that tells us "we cant do that, we are related" the reason for this is although sex is simply enjoyable, deep down you have instincts that tell you mating with a family member will likely cause birth defects and cause you to have defective young. However it seems neither you or your brother have that. As for why he isnt visiting you? 1. What he did was illegal, for multiple reasons, you could say statitory rape because you are 17, and incest is illegal by itself. 2. You just had sex with your brother, he is supposed to care for you and protect you, he probably feels like a horrible piece of sh*t for, what he may think is "taking advantage" of you. 3. What if your parents found out? How horrible that would be for both of you. 4. you just broke down a barrier in a very important relationship. What if he wants to do it again? What if you want to do it again? Now you will both have those urges and have to cope with whether or not to continue indulging in them. If you need someone to talk to further just email me at leahworkmail2@yahoo.com As for your solution, try to talk to your brother. Dont say " I KNOW WE JUST HAD SEX AND" say something like "we both did something very wrong,, and it is going to cause us a lot of problems mentally. Hopefully one day we can work this out. Clearly we both made a huge mistake. We just have to get over it and pretend it never happened. If we need to spend a long time apart we should. But we need to get over this"
Help my sister is hanging with the wrong crowd?
My 15 yr old sister hangs out with a terrible group they have alcohol at the house and her friends do drink it, they smoke ( i don't know if she smokes) they steal she stole like a little 50cents key chain saying it's "no big deal" and often skips school. My sister likes the group becuase she wants to be popular and get in the " in of the year popular party" which is basically a drug/ alcohol party. she ddoesn'tlisten to me and tells me since I don't have friends i am jjealous help me please.
Is it wrong to date my friend's sister?
Case 1 - Your friend knows that you date his/her sister.In this case, you are right and nothing to worry about. You didn’t cheat your friend and maybe in future your friend will become your relative. Sugar and spice everything nice :)Case 2 - Your friend is unaware of this factIn this case, you betrayed your friend, you cheated him/her. A friend trust you and what will happen if the friend knows this later? How can your friend trust you again? A friend’s sister is like a sister for you(until your friend knows and is okay with it) . Your friend may have invited you to his/her home, introduced you to family members all because he trusted you like a brother. Revealing this one secret will give your friend lifelong bad memory.
Is it wrong to have sexual thoughts about my sister?
lol I know that some people say that they dont think that way about there sister and or brother. but they do. were all human and every once in a whial had these werid thoughts it is normal but I had a few about my brother when I was 16 and thought I was a pervert to. its like looking at a nother guy but new it was wrong so after the the thought I choses to throw that thought out and think and do other things. but what ever you do dont act on it .blessings
Is it wrong that I tease my brother?
He is 16 and pees the bed. I tease him alot about it I think it is funny that he is 16 and still not potty trained. I have made him cry a couple of times. Their is nothing wrong with him medically. Am I being a bad sister? Why? What should I do?
Is it bad if I'm attracted to my sister?
Lets just be honest, all men have three things: a brain, eyeballs, and a penis. Inside your head you will be momentarily attracted to all sorts of wrong things, discipline and choice is what makes you good in this area. Bad is determined by action. Elaborating on that attraction in your head is an action. Obviously physical action based on that is bad. However, just because you feel a primal attraction does not make you a freak. The combination of those three body parts can tell you to be attracted to anything with a pulse. As long as they are just feelings and you don't harbor them are act on them than no its not bad. This is a pretty common problem actually its just not something that people are comfortable talking about so we are all left to deal with it on our own, sometimes badly. Even now I am speaking anonymously because of how people would respond. people dont like to discuss the parts of human nature they are ashamed of, which is weird because ignorance is what leads to confusion and poor choices. Also given that when your body starts waging chemical warfare, your sister is often the only female around so it stands to reason. Its good that you are admitting the fact, now just make sure you practice mental control and it wont go anywhere bad.If you are a teenager, which i'm gonna take a wild assumption, remember that you cannot control your dreams. Most likely you will have some really really flippin weird ones, you are not a freak its normal.