Help Completely Isolated From Friends And Family

If you were literally all alone, single, isolated, friendless, unemployed with no family what would you do?

No. You are not wrong. My daughter is 9 and her father has had another child, been married, divorced and jumping from house to house. No child should be in the middle of that confusion. If dad don't want it on your terms, then he will have to do without until you all can find a compromise. Tell him that is the only way your daughter and you will feel comfortable. He has to develop a relationship with her and you have to feel comfortable leaving her someplace over night. Right now. It does not sound like a good environment for your daughter, for you are the custodial parent and have to deal with any repercussions. Go file child support with the state; don't wait on him to pay. Let them garnish his check. You are doing the right thing. Pray on it.

I hate being isolated, and having very few friends?

Wow. I know how you feel.

I was unable to go to college. But that is okay because school is dumb.

Unfortunately, 9 1/2 of every 10 friends my age either went to college &/or military.

even worse, my home town sucks. =[ some friends picked the home town instead of me. I moved away. There is a big world out there. =]

I am getting myself together. I am very busy.

So if you worry about isolation, just do everyday activities that keep you busy. do chores. Watch TV. get one of those Chinese outdoor antennas made by Lava or Super Voltex or whatever. listen to music. podcast. get a computer(s) and blog. go to fun sites like tvrage.com ... take pictures of the sky. garden. make your own food recipes.

if you are not allergic to animals, get pets. =] My favorite pets are guinea pigs. They interact with each other as well as with you.

AND

plan one year reunions with all your friends. friends like to see each other on holidays and breaks.

NEED HELP! Home from college & feeling isolated?

you're in success you be attentive to precisely what kind of help you desire. You had suggested which you're lacking the form of faculty, schedules initiatives, acquaintances, all of those supply us some thing to hold to, plan around and take a smash from. Now which you have all this time on your palms it sounds like this is hard which you would be able to get use to. Is there something or all of us you may build some shape around, a factor time activity could be efficient yet you're able to no longer experience waiting for that this being your first summer time off from college. possibly basically a summer time project, some thing you pick to do yet has gotten pushed aside while you have been away in college. i could choose to signify volunteering someplace on your community positioned that type theory to paintings in genuine existence or do exactly some thing relaxing and rewarding. good success college would be up and dealing in the previous you be attentive to it.

Should I isolate myself from my family to overcome my trauma?

I got bullied a lot in my childhood and when I was in school and I didn't have many friends either. But my family were very unsupportive about it because they often took the bullies' side and kept telling me that it was my fault and not their's. It was just terrible because my family (especially my dad and older brothers) were very mean and insensitive to me about it because they kept lecturing me how it was my fault because I'm oversensitive or stubborn or selfish and I can't take a joke and made me feel like every little thing is my fault. In fact, they seemed a lot more interested in using me as their scapegoat than actually helping me out of my bullying problem. And I was often thinking about committing suicide because it was just so awful and so overwhelming and I felt like no one would help me no matter how miserable or desperate I was.

But it's been over three years now and my life has really turned around because I'm enjoying my life in college and I've made many good friends and getting to know girls and I've even joined an acting school. But I often feel all the anxiety I felt back when I was being bullied and tormented by my dad and brothers. It often happens when I'm around my family. But I think this is because I'm still traumatized by the experience because my family were so uncaring and heartless to me and they were never there for me when I needed them the most and they really betrayed and let me down. I often feel depressed when I'm around my family and I don't feel loved or respected around them and they don't seem to understand all the pain and suffering they caused me. Except my mum because she's pretty much the only one who I feel loves and cares for me, unlike my overbearing dad and older brothers.

But I feel the only way I can fully overcome my trauma is to isolate myself from my family because they were the cause of my trauma. And I feel like I should spend as much time with my friends because I feel respected and happy when I'm around them and they have a more positive effect on me. I mean even when I told them how I used to be bullied, they were more sympathetic and understanding to me. But if I told my family about this they probably won't understand and just tell me that I'm the problem and make me feel worse.

If you were literally all alone, single, isolated, friendless, unemployed with no family what would you do?

Walk out my front door and find someone to make conversation with. Surely wouldn't sit on the computer and whine about it. Life sucks, we all have problems, sometimes you have to put your big girl panties on and get over it. You will never have friends of you don't do something about it. Job as well. These things don't come knocking on your door. You have to get out there.

I feel so lonely and isolated, can anyone help me out with some advice?

I used to feel exactly like this. I felt alone and I had very low self-esteem for quite some time. I learned that I had to find what inspires me and what brings me joy. The feelings that we feed are the ones that rule the day.

I was in a wheelchair until I was 20 and dealt with tons of negative self talk. I learned a great quote by Eleanor Roosevelt that really helped me at times. It says "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." That includes yourself.

There is a story about how positive and negative feelings can have a huge effect on how our life goes and how we feel about ourselves. Those feelings are in competition with each other and you decide which one prevails. I learned it like this. There is a native elder telling the young warriors how to make progress and feel good about themselves and be happy in life. He tells them, "I have two dogs, a black one and a white one, and they fight all the time." A warrior asks him, "Which one wins?" The elder tells him "Whichever one I feed."

So, what feelings are you feeding? Are you feeding the negative unproductive ones?

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I feel Isolated, alone I want to die/ help?

you comprehend what, i've got confidence that comparable way too.. Youve almost defined me lol What you should fairly do is concentration on your loved ones (in case you hav one), or artwork.. additionally, its no longer all undesirable whilst youre on my own lots of the time because of the fact atleast you dont conform to human beings and you have the prospect for some ideal introspection... Dont difficulty approximately no longer havin any friends, cuz they arrive and bypass. One actual chum is adequate. My final element, your difficulty isnt all that undesirable because of the fact the better section approximately it relatively is which you should be waiting to be certain a reliable attitude of the folk around you wrapped up interior the materialistic lives (and thers much less drama for you). So upward push above this dysfuntional society because of the fact its no longer healthful for everyone

Self isolation possibly????please help!!!?

you're the same as me. Yes your lonely which can be dangerous life style if it leads to depression. I'm guessing your introverted which causes you to not seek out people. Self Isolation is where you feel lonely and want to change but you do nothing to change out fear or whatever. That's when you chose to be lonely. If you enjoy time alone than that can cause you some happiness. There's nothing wrong with the life style you live if it works for you. But if you do want to change that you really have to take the initive to change it. I'm lonely but I know the things I have to do to change and chose not to. Whatever works for you.