Please help, I'm so confused with this girl?
A week ago I got turned down by a girl I like, she already knew I liked her but here: noo I'm saying I just want to be friends with you because I don't have many guy friends. And I see you as a friend. We can still hang out and stuff but just friends..I'm not talking to my ex so don't think I am. I wanna stop the whole flirting and stuff because it just makes me sad thinking my ex is doing that to people right now. I don't wanna flirt with anyone. I just need to focus on my own ****. Tbh I hate being single and alone but I just don't want to lead anyone on. I just need to concentrate on my classes and applying for this college." Idk man, I mean we're still cool but it's weird. She likes all my Instagram post, snapchats me all the time FIRST. Like last night she posted to her story that she was at the gym, except me I got a selfie from her with a smile. This morning she snapped me of her and the caption: "just got out the shower ;)" also she snapps me this: "you look cute in a beanie ??" I have no idea what's up with her man but she's too confusing. First you say you wanna be friends and stop flirting but you still flirt. And I don't even start the flirting which confuses me more. She snapchats me every single day what she's doing and I got one at 5 in the morning cause she was sad. Now her mom is following on Instagram and all that.with But this one big mind **** tbh. its almost as if shes showing interest but at the same time she just wants friends. I feel stuck with her
Girl staring at me hard I'm so confused please help?
So there is this girl named Debbie and she is a freshman and she has a boyfriend... That's all I know, like I do not know this girl at all I haven't spoken one word to her well I have said hi but she smiled and just kept staring. It's really weird every time I walk past this girl she stares at me really hard. It's not like I'm really attractive or anything, I get looks from a share of girls occasionally, but this stare is uncomfortable, its as if I'm her prey or something its like a stalker stare. I don't know if I did something to her or something or if she knows me or something, but I'm super confused please help. She's actually really cute as well, but the fact that she has a boyfriend kinda makes me think something else anyways please help. (I'm 17 and a Junior in High School please help.)
I am really confused by this girl I am dating. Can anyone help me understand her?
Thanks a lot guys. I went with her to Central Park (New York) and we sat down by the lake for a while. Finally got over the fear of rejection and I told her that I like her, and simply asked her whether it would be awkward if I kissed her?She did not seem surprised at all and said its ok, but she was glad that I took the time to know her before going for the kiss.I guess I got lucky and my timing was right because to be honest, I really wanted to kiss her after our first date..She never texted me (only replied to my texts) until after the kiss. Today, she sent me a text and I was the one who replied for a change :)
Girl looks at me but acts uninterested? Confused?
So me an this girl have been having this thing for a while...Weve been exchanging eye contact at times. She sits on the right side of me, a few rows away, so I can see her with the corner of my eye. So at random times she throws glances at me that I notice. Sometime she does it a lot, other times she doesnt. Its been going on for a while. She acts shy around me sometimes as well. The things is, she completely ignores me !! She acts uninterested in the halls, in class with her friends, etc. This makes me hesitate to talk to her. What should I do? We have 2 months before school ends, and I might regret it if I dont talk to her....
When I see a beautiful girl I get confused help how do I overcome this help?
Uh, why do you want to "overcome" this? Let me guess. You think it's not "cool."Now, what about this possibility? You actually connect with such a girl. You actually spend time with her, and maybe more than that.Are you afraid you would die? Just expire, right on the spot, unable to breathe, your heart beating so fast it breaks and you fall over and die?Let me assure that does not happen (if you have some special heart condition, my condolences, but this is assuming not).You may also think that if you are not "cool," she won't like you. Let me suggest that the most beautiful woman on the planet might be *charmed* if you are so affected by her. I actually went through this. Ah, she was beautiful! She liked the effect she had on men. But I was different. I didn't try to hide it. And she liked that.You get confused. So? Be confused. Look a beautiful girl is truly dangerous. You can lose your life! On the other hand, what's life for? You can hide out, staying safe, and never experience love. How does that sound?Trust yourself. There is nothing wrong with you.Okay, if you get dizzy maybe you should sit down or lie down. Thought experiment: You are in a room, she walks in, and you have this reaction, so you say, and she hears you:"Ah, you are so beautiful that I'm dizzy and can't stand up, so I'm sitting down."What would happen?There are guys who would pay a lot of money for a "line" like that. But for you, it wouldn't be a line, it would simply be the truth.I once told a woman, the first time we talked, that her smile brought joy to my heart. She made up her mind right then that she would marry me.That relationship lasted for three years, as an active one, and for the rest of her life as friends. She died recently, unexpectedly, still stunningly beautiful to the end, which is saying something for a woman who was about 65 when she died. Puella aeterna, she was.(This was a different woman than the one I mentioned above, but they were both therapists, and friends.)
Why are guys more confusing than girls?
Guys are not more confusing than girls. Even at 17 many teenage guys are less emotionally mature than many teenage girls are. He may need a little coaxing on your part to initiate some kind of relationship leading to a date. For over 100 years girls have been able to play the role of the " helpless female ". Maybe at the next church meeting you could tell him something like ' I can't get my IPOD to work right ? The songs are going crazy fast and slow. Do you think you can listen to it and tell me if you can hear what is happening ? ' Get him to sit with you and listen to a song or two and he will probably say something to you like ' It sounds okay to me ' Then you can listen to part of a song and say ' Yeah....it sounds okay to me now too. Thanks....I don't know what you did but you seem to have fixed it for me. I hope I can do something for you in the future '