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Having problems with a friends party, can you help?

Since your kind friend was courteous enough to ask, feel free to mention that you are vegan, but offer to assist her with any changes. Your friend is generous and kind, it sounds like, and I would certainly attend her function-friends like that are hard to come by! Cherish her, and perhaps return the favor in some way that acknowledges HER food choices, such as a gift basket that includes a pate' or smoked fish, as a thank you gift. Have fun at the party!

Im having friendship problems.. HELP!?

ok well i have been having a rocky friendship, between my bestfriend and my ex bestfriend, i ABSOULUTLY HATE my ex bestfriend and my bestfriend has like every class with her, i cant help but to get extremly jelious when i see them together, or talking. i trust my bestfriend but i think i need to kno how to trust myself, sometimes when my bestfriend is over and were bored she send text messages to everyone in her phone contact and my ex bestfriend is part of it, well she sends something back and then they start texting, i get extremly jelious and worried, my bestfriend says that she hates her and everything, but when i see stuff writtin on her hand by my ex bestfriend gets me soo mad but i dont say anything, i act like it dont bother me but inside im melting, i cant help but to think of them 2 becoming friends, or something i need to kno what to do, and FAST this is realy concerning me.

My guy friend is having girl problems how can i help?

Hey, sunshine. First don't worry about the spelling. Now, the best recommendation I can give you is to step back, and let him fall. When he does, and he will be there to help him back up. Speaking as a guy, we are morons. We want what we want, when we want it. It does not matter to us how bad it hurts. It sucks to see someone that you care about suffering, sometimes there is nothing you can do. You have tried talking to him, he won't listen. His friends have tried talking to him, he won't listen.... beyond that there is nothing else you can do. Be there for him, but don't back him into a corner. He will have to figure it out for himself. Whatever religion you are, pray for him. Pray that he will see her for what she is, and that he will find peace. May God Bless you and your friend.

How can I help my friend who is having family problems?

Tell her you'll always be there for her and she can always talk to you about anything. Listen to her problems when she wants to tell you but if she seems happy don't bring up the subject of her parents unless you think she is just putting on a brave face.

Also compliment her a lot. It will boost her confidence and make her feel more loved. Invite her out, listen to music together and do lots of things together. The best you can do is be a really good friend to her and support her which you seem to be doing.

My best friend is having boy problems?

ok so here's the thing, im a guy and my best friend who is a girl is having problems with her ex boyfriend and im trying to be as helpful as possible but i don't know what to do/say to make her feel important, and some other things i dont know if they'll help or anything so i also like her and she was dating him then broke up then like 2months afterward they met at the carival then they made out and then dated and now she just broke up with him after dating him for about 12 hours and she just doesnt feel important please help

How do you help a friend who's having family problems and they need help right at that moment? What can you say?

This is really good that you want to help your friend to cope up with the problem they're going through because you care for them.But the real problem they don't want to open up their family stories in front of you..So you can only just give them moral support,tell them or make them realize whatever may be the sitution or matter you are there beside them . For that you can do this by writing a note or msg that you really care for them and this stressful and sad face of them you can't see anymore .so,being a friend they can freely talk with you.And please make sure that they trust you.. :-)

My friend is having problems at home and...?

It sounds like your friend is suffering from depression. I suggest you try to convince him to talk to a professional. Maybe he could speak to the school counselor. Just keep reminding him that you are there for him and always encourage him to talk to you if he is feeling depressed. You may not have any solutions, but having someone to listen is a great thing.
He is drawing dark pictures because he is expressing how he feels. As long as they are not distructive, I think they are probably very theraputic for him. He needs an outlet for his depression. Unfortunately, the heavy metal may not be the best thing for him. It may feed his feelings of anger or depression. But, you can't really make him stop listening to it. All you can really do is suggest that the music may be making things worse and maybe he could consider listening to something more up beat.
Just be a good friend...that is what he really needs.

My friend is having family problems and I don`t know how to help him and he won`t talk to an adult. What do I do?

He probably at this stage just needs a solid person to hear him and be there for him. In time he will have the capacity and strength to listen to your advice.I came from a very abusive home and never talked to anyone about it. If I had and they had tried to get me to go to someone else, I would have shut down. It is so incredibly painful and private when this stuff is going on behind closed doors, and it takes a while for the person to be able to do something about it.So just regularly connect with him. Let him know that your home is always available for a meal, a chat, a hug. That you are there no matter what and he can trust you. That counts for more than anything right now. And when he is ready, let him know that there is help out there for this sort of thing and he doesn’t have to go through it alone.

Should I help my friend with a money problem?

I’m going to say no because I don’t believe your friend’s story. She may be repeating what her parents have told her, but it doesn’t make sense that her parents are broke because their house was robbed and that the robbers stole a couple of tablets that didn’t even belong to her parents and their house key. The costly work tablets were likely insured by the company her dad worked for. Any money they had in their bank accounts would not have been taken in a burglary. Didn’t they have home owner’s insurance to cover the loss? Why would burglars steal a house key when they clearly didn’t need it to get into the house? You can get locks re-keyed. They don’t need to be replaced unless they were broken during the burglary. Something sounds fishy here.You’re a very good friend, but help her out by inviting her to your house for dinner and listening and spending time with her. Don’t give her or her parents money, at least not based on what you’ve heard. Hold on and see what happens in the next few weeks before you decide, and talk to your parents about it first.

HAVING PROBLEMS took in a gay friend that was thrown out?

i saw my neighborhood friend/acquaintence Damien outside crying. I asked what happened and he explained to me his parents threw him out because he was gay and has no friends/relatives to stay wit hes 16 im 17

We already cannot support the people in my house but i said he could stay for as long as he needed to. Idk if im going to regret this. He is always partying and doing drugs, he is loud, he has to share a bed with me, he is aggressive and sometimes violent, keeps asking me to have sex with him. (UM NO) He is harassing my cousins is also telling them to try sex with him and he has been here for a very short amount of time and eaten/ hid a lot of food. He told my sister to kill herself and pulled her by the hair. He has broken a glass window and tabletop and he keeps crying that his parents didn't let him take any of his **** and give him ours. I asked him to also sleep on a sleeping bag he said no

I've heard that he's done:

Slept with other peoples boyfriends (This is probably true.)
Punched a baby in the face
Cuts himself and other people
Has attempted to poison people (When he was 13)
Has tried to use rape drugs and ectasy at parties on himself or other people
Steals
Vandilizes and started a forest fire twice
Hit teachers and hit on teachers
Grows weed and deals and does it
Posted adult videos and pictures online without the other persons consent


Do you have any advice? Could we ask another family to adopt him or how can I convince the parents to take him back?

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