How to tell my dad it's time for him to move out.?
Kick him out already.
I need help. How do I cope with moving out of my parent's house?
It's difficult to answer since I don't know your age or your situation. I was put in care when I was 15 and then at 17 nearly was forced to live in a flat indpedantly so I can sort of relate to what you are feeling. Cause it is proper scary moving out and being responsible for yourself. I would say firstly prepare prepare prepare , all those things your probably don't do at home starting doing like cooking , cleaning , washing clothes , food shopping on a budget.Then try and find a place close by so you still have that support because it is a big step both financially and emotionally. Ovboiusly you need to be able to support yourself financially so work out how you are going to do that.Also ask your parents for advice they will know how to pay council tax , the best companies for gas and electric , the best house insurance use there wisdom to set yourself up right.And if you are not in any rush I would say wait a little while so you can afford to make the place look nice , so you can get little things to make it feel homely and comfy sofas and stuff like that because it will be a lot more difficult if you feel uncomfortable in your new homeAnd finally I would say just embrace how this allows your relationship with your parents to develop. I moved back into my mums at the age of 17 nearly 18 and I moved back in as an adult so we have a much closer for friendship style relationship now , hopefully you can embrace that with your parents allowing you to stay close as you grow up.Good luck.
Need Advice! My husband wants to move away! Help!!
We are newlyweds, just married May 17,2008. My husband and I both grew up in the same town, he now has asked me to move away from our hometown. I have a very close family and don't want to leave them behind, but I also want to make my husband happy and he says he is not happy in our hometown. He wants to move 8 hrs away. I want my children to be able and see their grandparents and grow up around my family. I just don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you in advance!
HELP! My boyfriends sister is moving in, I need advice, please?
My boyfriend's sister was depressed several months ago, suicidal. We offered her to stay with us for a while, she is now going to move in this month. She is feeling better, apparently (although I don't know that I want to be the one to "watch" her. We get along quite well, but our place is small & we are used to our own world. (like everyone else). we also have 2 cats & a dog. One of the cats is very shy & has a tendency to pee/ hide when irritated. He hasn't done it in a while, because he likes where his litter is now. Thing is bf's sis just got a kitten. My cats are boys (fixed not declawed) & her kitten is a girl (not fixed) I really would rather not go through with this, but we already commited, offered. Now she's having problems with her & my bf's dad,& doesn't want to see him. Well my bf has no problem with dad, but now, what he can't come over? She has also be incredibly sheltered &has not worked for much on her own, like paying for an apartment.
My parents don t want me to move out?
It sounds as though there's some Old World cultural thing going on here. Many such parents want their daughters to stay in the family home until they're married, because it preserves the young women's good reputations. You could possibly still satisfy them, if you shared an apartment in a good neighborhood with another single young woman, perhaps from a family known to your folks. It would be ideal if you both had respectable office-type jobs. Being out after dark can be relatively safe (a suburban shopping mall, a restaurant along with friends), or less so (solitary walks, iffy parts of town). There's no sense in rebelling, just to show you're independent. Since you don't have any power to improve your father's health, you really don't have to stay for that reason. Also, you really don't have to solve your brother's problems for him, on top of your own.
My parents are way too controlling and won't let me move out. i need some advice?
Think of it this way. What will you regret more? living on your own and/or with your fiancee or stay home and live with them. Do what is in your heart. Do what you know is right. Do it soon or you'll never leave and be too scared to so ever again. Don't be afraid of moving out just be careful of how you live your life. if you move out think of a game plan. like say when tier at work move some of your stuff out at a time and eventually move out. your fiance may say to get along with them but sometimes some people are beyond helping and must be cut off from your life or just have less of them in it. In the end it is all about happiness. Be happy and do what you want to do. if you have more questions or want to talk about moving out or how your parents are overreacting you can PM me.
How do I tell my parents I have to move out because they are not helping my depression and anxiety, that they are making it worse? I am 18.
If it were me in your situation, and I have been in a similar spot living with my parents, I would let them know I am arranging to move out on my own. I was seeing a counselor when this happened in my life. It was a toxic situation in my house, with my dad being an alcoholic, often verbally abusive, and I was in recovery from alcohol and drugs. I lived there because that is where I could afford to live. I was extremely greatful to be there and I love my parents very much. It was just unhealthy for my emotionally to continue living there any longer. It was easiest and smoothest for me to just let them know when I had already arranged where I was going to move and had everything about my moving established and sure it was happening…. not before! Discussing plans before with your folks in your situation my will likely lead to more anxiety.. I’m pretty sure, I can’t see it going any other way if that’s what you are struggling with emotionally. Just let them know , respectfully that you are moving out and you are really excited. Exude confidence that you have your ducks in a row financially and this is all planned out.( you really do need your ducks in a row) After you have moved out, and you are safely installed in your new place, evaluate if you really need to discuss your emotional issues with them right now. Maybe it’s not really their business? Maybe it would be better discussed at a later date or even when you are much older and more established in life. I chose to discuss it later in life, and then only with my mom. That was most safe for me. You will need to evaluate your own situation. I would recommend talking to a counselor just so you have someone to process your anxiety with, from an outside perspective. I find it incredibly helpful when I need some advice or just to process whats up. Good luck.
Muslim girl STRICT parents and want to move out?
When you want to leave, do it when they're away or in the dead of the night. And if you fear your parents coming to stalk you then call them using a privacy number.