What has been the most difficult situation in your life which you finally overcame?
Thanks for the A2A!Difficulty is based on perception. One of them is when I did not clear my CA!I scored 92% in tenth and 95% in 12th class. I also cleared CPT and IPCC of CA in the very first attempt. I was always into my books. Failure was something which I had not faced.I thought I was inevitable and was arrogant. I was wrong but my stupid brain did not realize it. Some incident had to hit me hard and teach me.So I flunked... Not once but twice. You may very well imagine how much it hurts for someone who cleared well in all the previous exams! That one year was the slowest in my life. Precisely 1.5 years...I had not watched any movie. I did not celebrate any festivals. I did not meet any friends which eventually made them move away from me. 8 subjects and that was all was on my mind! I still have my study table filled with stick notes just to remind me what I came across. But this one incident made my life difficult. Nevertheless I learnt to respect people including the ones who hurt me!Peace!
How do I get out from a very difficult situation?
How to find a way out of a difficult situation:Analyze the situation by breaking it apart. Ask yourself what makes this situation difficult?Then brain storm every possible solution and write the potential solutions down. Write down every single possible solution that comes to mind. Ask your trusted friends for ideas too.Then write down the costs and benefits to each solution. Choose the solution that has the most benefits and the fewest costs.Here's a simplified example: say that your problem is that your parents don't like your new boyfriend/girlfriend and they want you to stop seeing him/her.So, what makes this difficult? Obviously it's that you want to continue your new relationship, and your parents disapprove. Your parents will feel disrespected if you continue the relationship.What are the options?Break up with your new bf/gf.Don't break up.Approach your parents and ask why they dislike your bf/gf and try to allay their concerns.What are the benefits of each option? What are the costs?Benefits: parents stop being mad. Cost: losing the relationship with bf/gf.Benefits: keep the relationship with bf/gf, costs: suffer with angry parents and tumultuous interactions, which could result in getting kicked out of the house or rejected by your parents.Benefits: you will find out why parents don't like bf/gf, you will possibly keep the relationship by allaying their fears, but also gain trust and deeper understanding of your parents' concerns. Costs: you might discover that your parents concerns are valid, which might cause the relationship to end, resulting in heartbreak and hurt feelings with bf/gf.Obviously, option 3 has the most potential benefits as well as some potential costs… but it's likely better than the other two options, so choose option 3.
Have you ever faced a difficult situation?
In our lifetime I think we will all face difficult situations, its how we deal with them that can make or break us. My family had a house fire a couple years ago when lightning struck our house and while saying "house fire" seems almost as normal as a tornado hitting a town, when your in the moment it's the scariest thing ever. But we were able to pick ourselves off the ground and now we're actually living in the same house again. It takes a lot of guts to do that haha :P - just to add nobody was hurt or in danger in the fire, we were in our basement when the fire started at the roof
What should I do when I am in a difficult situation and I am wrong in it?
I’m assuming you mean that you are the ‘guilty’ party in a situation. Possibly discuss it with your closest friends and decide what course of action to take. Maybe even an authority figure whom you respect. Or a counselor. Just make sure you get some perspective on this. If someone has been wronged, this should involve a plan how to make things right for them too. Whatever the consequences, you should be able to handle them.If this was by mistake, don’t beat yourself up too much about it. If it was on purpose however, this calls for some serious introspection. Where is your life going? And where will you end up if you continue down this path? Is that really where you want to be? The fact that you have asked such a question gives me hope that you will take the right decision.
Please help me out of this difficult situation.. (this is long)?
Ok this is long. Iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years next month, on and off. Mostly on than off though. I got with him on my sixteenth birthday. He is completley oppitisite of me, im very chatty, and quite confident. He is quiet on approach, sarcastic and intellengent. He does alot for me, treats me to cooking me a meal now and then, giving me money, supporting me when i go out with friends, giving me space, etc. However there is a dark side of the relationship. Whenever we argue, and gets very annoyed he wil hit me. I do say that things would help if i didnt provoke his anger in such ways. Its happened thoughout our relationship. And has become more frequent lately. Its always when im due on my period, and when im cranky we argue so i cant help but take the blame. Last night we argued over me being so moody and demanding, he ended up hitting me in the head alot of times, and punching, in my jaw, head. In the end he managed to say i deserved it. In the past week he also hit me in the back with a plastic mop handle because i pushed him out of my way when we were arguing. I do take full responsability for everything as i provoke it, with my moodieness, being demanding, and moaning so much. But, last night after that occurence. We were in bed, and he was asking me for sex for about an hour, and i was saying no as my head was sore and i was tired, he didnt give up asking me and mivering me, until he got it. If i dont have sex with him, he tells me its weird that i dont want it, and should have a reason. even though i have sex with him everytime i see him! he doesnt understand the fact that a girl can just not be in the mood. When ever i explain after arguments that he was also out of line, he twists it and says i deserve everything i get. And also he does so much for mec ( which he does) which makes me feel very guilty. He says im selfish, and that i dont give him much love, even though i do try my utter best. What should i do? I love him so much, but is it time to try and stop ? We do have good times, he takes me out, treats me, we have laughs.
Please help me out of this difficult situation. (its long)?
Ok this is long. Iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years next month, on and off. Mostly on than off though. I got with him on my sixteenth birthday. He is completley oppitisite of me, im very chatty, and quite confident. He is quiet on approach, sarcastic and intellengent. He does alot for me, treats me to cooking me a meal now and then, giving me money, supporting me when i go out with friends, giving me space, etc. However there is a dark side of the relationship. Whenever we argue, and gets very annoyed he wil hit me. I do say that things would help if i didnt provoke his anger in such ways. Its happened thoughout our relationship. And has become more frequent lately. Its always when im due on my period, and when im cranky we argue so i cant help but take the blame. Last night we argued over me being so moody and demanding, he ended up hitting me in the head alot of times, and punching, in my jaw, head. In the end he managed to say i deserved it. In the past week he also hit me in the back with a plastic mop handle because i pushed him out of my way when we were arguing. I do take full responsability for everything as i provoke it, with my moodieness, being demanding, and moaning so much. But, last night after that occurence. We were in bed, and he was asking me for sex for about an hour, and i was saying no as my head was sore and i was tired, he didnt give up asking me and mivering me, until he got it. If i dont have sex with him, he tells me its weird that i dont want it, and should have a reason. even though i have sex with him everytime i see him! he doesnt understand the fact that a girl can just not be in the mood. When ever i explain after arguments that he was also out of line, he twists it and says i deserve everything i get. And also he does so much for mec ( which he does) which makes me feel very guilty. He says im selfish, and that i dont give him much love, even though i do try my utter best. What should i do? I love him so much, but is it time to try and stop ? We do have good times, he takes me out, treats me, we have laughs. xxx
What can we do when we are stuck in a difficult situation of life?
Thank GOD !Let me explain this to you but perhaps my explanation won’t go very well with people who always want a quote attached proving the authenticity of the rationale drawn upon ‘Swami Vivekanand once said “If in an entire day you come across no obstacle then you are trodding on a wrong path”. These lines clearly depict the utility of facing problems , the benefit of which are -1 . You are travelling on the right path and you are destined to travel the way you are walking on . So if difficulty comes you should take them to be good omens and be very sure that that is the only path which will lead to your destination .2. The adversities you are going to face which always churn out the best out of you . Shakespeare has already described the boons of facing adversity in his following lines .Sweet are the uses of adversity,Which, like the toad, ugly and venomous,Wears yet a precious jewel in his head;And this our life, exempt from public haunt,Finds tongues in trees, books in the running brooks,Sermons in stones, and good in every thing.Now What to do when difficulty comes ?Realize the things I have said above and you won’t treat your problems as problems but an enigma you have to find the answer to (a bit difficult but interesting to crack ).Thank you !
What is the most difficult situation you have ever faced?
when i had to forget about my dream college and choose either engineering or commerce....i surrendered and choose engineering,just to get away from home...
What is the best way to think about a difficult situation in life?
The best way to deal with a difficult situation in life is through cognitive thinking.When in a difficult situation (not talking about aftermaths and disaster) you should question a lot, do not held yourself responsible for it. Life is full of endless possibilities. Life is a loop everything comes back again, that's how it works. Now coming to your question, a lot of my problems don't seem to be problems when I start to give them less importance, although I still care and try to cope up with it. Nothing is permanent, time heals every scar and so is with problems (difficult situation). Have a broader approach on your life, think and reason everything, consider yourself as a novelist and you're writing your own story(your life).(Difficult situation) Hard times are not hard times when you don't give them credibility.Try to be a better person than what you were a day before. My suggestion is not going to work, unless you implement it in real life.I thank all the readers for being patient enough to read till last thank you once again. Upvote and comment if you like it.