My parents Disagree with EVERYTHING i say?
The dictionary defines a hypocrite as someone who "pretends to be better than he really is or to be pious, virtuous without really being so." A hypocrite is someone who says one thing and does the opposite. They have re married so there you go.. 1st of all, maybe you think since they are parents they have a right to talk like that as parents. Turns out many parents are abusers. Actually they are not trying to be tough to make you responsible- they are tricking you. Hurting people hurt others. It's not you.. They are the ones who have a problem. People/parents do mean things or lie to control. They just want the reaction so they can get high feel good from it. You have to look at the agenda. Abuse is anything and words that are not uplifting. So forget what truth is being used right then. Remember -THEY actually get high on being mean, and thats why they do it, they are wrong about everything. So the parent becomes abusive and the children get sick with so called mental Illnesses- painful but not disorders, but it can be stopped. You dont have a problem its them. Psychiatrists commit fraud in that there is zero science in what they do. They do not draw blood to test for imbalances. For chemical imbalances no test exists. There is no conception of what a correct chemical balance would look like to date. People in the FDA agree. I have links for this. Remember, after abuse sickness can be a spiritual problem - Jesus name is needed to banish what is there. God wants you to know truth, forgive, and get away from them. You sure feel better after reading the links. Google- "Inside the Mind of an Abuser" -See how it works and be free... I have many links for anyone to read on abuse and psychiatric fraud as well as inner healing. Source--Seeing people healed on a regular basis in a ministry- healing without meds. 30+ years exp -abuse etc..
Birthing plan disagreement with husband?
I am 38 weeks pregnant and am about to be graced with my first lovely little child. I couldn t be more excited to meet him. My husband and I agree on just about everything except for the birthing plan. I do not want anyone but him back there while I am giving birth. To me, it is a very personal and intimate experience and i think it s best for it to just be me and my husband. My husband however, thinks I am being selfish by not letting the soon to be grandparents back there. He says I m not considering their feelings and I should treat others the way I want to be treated. He has created a scenario that when our soon to be son one day decides to have a baby I will want to be there for it. But honestly, I d respect their decision regardless if they wanted me there or not. My husband says I ll get scared and ask for my mom eventually and it will leave his mom Very resentful and our relationship will be forever damaged. So now I am worried that I will get scared and want my mom but that will mean I will have to invite his mom back too. I had no idea I had to be the one making sure everyone was happy while I was giving birth. Is my husband right? Am I being selfish? I need an outsiders opinion. I hate that we aren t seeing eye to eye on this.