I need some guy advice here..?
So I've liked this guy, Brian, for over a year, and I've talked to or dated multiple other guys during that time. Brian is like my best friend, and I know for a fact that I love him. I also know I really need to move on.. Last year, he picked some girl named Lambergini over me, but he said he really regrets dating her. He also said really liked me at the end of last year, he just didnt do anything about it becaus he didnt want a girlfried. This year, he almost took me to homecoming but then he took an old friend, Queasadia, from another school. He started dating Pizza a month ago but he told me on Monday he didnt like her anymore and he wanted to break up with her. Tuesday was their one month. He talked to me everyday this week, flirted with me everyday, but didnt mention anything about Pizza.
Need advice on this girl I like. I think she might like me too. Could someone help me?
Alright here's some REAL advice from a actual girl. Of she likes you, sadly you have to do these thingsDress Nice, a little cologne won't hurtWalk up to her casually, but before think of what you'd say to start a conversation like ask what are your hobbies, and use words like “speaking of •blank• I do •something related to blank•”Act nice and genuine, if she drops something pick it up, if she give you something say thank you in a really nice way.Stand up for her, but not THAT much to where other people get suspicious (if your a younger age than I thought)Try to become friends, make up excuses to be with her, but do NOT pretend you don't like her if anyone asks just laugh it off and stuff like that or try to change the subjectTry to become friends! Sit next to her and make more excuses to be with her or to sit next to her like “I don't know anyone else here so might as well sit next to you”Be friends for a couple of days.. Maybe you could ask her for her email name or number or social media and a sly way to do this is to be like of you know she has a social media say “I have Snapchat, my names (name) what's yours?” So even if the whole thing doesn't work out you can keep in touch with her the whole summer.
What would be your advice for teens?
Dream.All teenagers should dream!But first let’s meet few dreamers,He is Christopher Beale, Youngest ever to write a novel at the age of 6.And he is Dimitrios Loundras, Youngest ever Olympic medalist at the age of 10 (Won in 1896).Meet Tanishq Abraham, Youngest ever to graduate college at the age of 11.Now say Hi to Mauricio Baldivieso, Youngest ever to play Professional Football at the age of 12.Btw she is Sajjida Shah, Youngest ever to play International Cricket at the age of 12.And OH he is Jordan Romero, Youngest ever to climb Mount Everest at the age of 13.You might know her, she is Martina Hingis, Youngest ever to win a Grand Slam at the age of 15.We all know her, don’t we ? Malala Yousafzai, Youngest person to receive a Nobel Prize at the age of 17.You might don’t know her but she is Ruth Lawrence, Youngest ever to achieve a Doctorate Degree at the age of 17.And this is the pride of India, Suhas Gopinath, Youngest CEO at the age of 17.He doesn’t look 18 but he is! he is Andrew Bynum, Youngest player to play in NBA at the age of 18.now let me introduce you to Amobi Okoye, youngest player to be drafted in NFL at the age of 19.And finally, Alexandra Andresen, Youngest Billionaire at the age of 21.What did you see?I saw young dreamers . Teenagers who didn’t let the world define themselves! (Some are not even teenagers)From climbing the Himalayas to being a billionaire, from playing international cricket to graduating college at the age of 11 and from starting a company to winning a Nobel prize a teenager can do anything. What do you want to do?****But don’t do drugs. NEVERAnd Parents, NEVER EVER DOUBT THE POTENTIAL OF YOUR TEENAGER!!! and never down talk. EVER!!!Let them dream and provide them with right guidance and atmosphere. Your kind can do miracles! Believe me.
Too overprotective grandfather.... really need some advice here?
Ok. First, is your grandfather your legal guardian? If he is, you'd have to take some steps legally to have his guardianship ended if you want him to have NO say in anything that you do. Second, starting by calling him insane probably isn't going to get him to see things from your perspective. Has he ever met this friend or his family? As a parent, I'd admit to feeling a little uneasy if my child was visiting a friend I had never met...but if you are 20 years old I would imagine you are mature enough to make the decision to visit a stranger (to your grandfather). If the car is in your grandfather's name (meaning his name is on the title), then he has the legal right to keep you from using it. If the car is in YOUR name (and his name does not appear on the title), then no, he cannot legally prevent you from using it. However, he can prevent you from keeping it on his property. Make sure you have some other place to store your car if this becomes an issue. I think that your grandfather would be more willing to let you go without restriction if you provide him with the address, phone number, and name of this friend, and some kind of itinerary (schedule). If that is not the case, I would say that you'll need to get either the local Human Services department involved, or talk with a lawyer about getting your majority (being declared an adult without parental/guardian supervision). Try not to let this get you down. All of us have had times when our parents have forbidden us to do something because they were fearful for our safety. If another adult needs to discuss this with your grandfather for him to feel comfortable about letting you go on this trip, you'll need to ask their help. Good luck!
How can I politely say to a friend that I don't need his/her "garbage advice"? I never ask for help from them, especially about money.
What you say does not make sense. If you do not need advice about things then do not tell people you have a problem. But in my experience people who do not need advice do not have problems. They have already made the right choices and decisions to prevent problems or get rid of them quickly.Money problems tend to come from over spending, so it does not follow that you know what to do about it when you could have prevented it by being smarter about your spending.How do you know that your friend gives garbage advice? Has he got less problems than you, are his finances in a worse state than yours?The fact that you need to come on here and ask strangers for advice here proves you are not really a problem solver.
Does my girlfriend spoil her son too much? I really need some advice here.?
Ok. My gf is 22. Her son is 2 and a half. It's not that he's a brat. He's a wonderful little kid and we have a great time together. But I'm afraid the way she is raising him will cause him to be a brat someday, and possibly unable to deal with life in general. Basically he gets whatever he wants. Not toys and such necessarily, but he just gets his way, and she enables it. He NEVER sleeps through the night. He wakes 2-5 times a night. As soon as she hears him start crying, she jumps out of bed and lies with him till he falls asleep. Often she winds out sleeping with him the night. She lets him run around at the dinner table, and will cook him whatever he wants, even if he changes his mind 3 or 4 times. He cries and makes her pick him up and carry him when we go anywhere. She always gives in immediately. When he talks back to her, hits her, or just does something he knows he's not supposed to, she may yell, but never punishes him. EVER. He's never seen more than 30 seconds in time out. My point is, he's not a bad kid, but she gives in to EVERYTHING he wants with just a little crying. I'm afraid he'll grow up not knowing the difference between right and wrong, unable to deal with things like rejection and when life inevitably doesn't go his way. Maybe I'm just too strict because that was the way I was raised. But I have good life, work hard, and have accomplished a lot, and I know it's because of the way my parents raised me. I'm afraid to step in a say something, but I won't be able to let her treat our child that way if we have one someday.