Depressed to the core!! Just dont know what to do!?
when one walks out i be so depressed, feel so lonely again and take a lot of time to trust the next one, somehow due to my situation someone is able to win over me and once i gain the hope i really dont know how to maintain that self respect and all that....i hv no ego and just pouring love and do nothing but 24 hours think of that person.... and feel so insecured even if that person talks to any girl with the fear of losing that person or the feel of being cheated. i just dont know what to do.
Hair loss is making me unbelievably depressed what doctor should i consult about the hair?
Not much needs to be said. Im losing hair and the once good looking me is definitely in that past. I am almost 100% sure i have the hereditary hair loss problem but would like to get the better information from a doctor
Does long hair cause depression?
I've had long hair since I was 9 -and by long I mean to goes an inch past my butt- and I always hated it but my mother would never allow me to cut it. Once in 7th grade I finally convinced her to cut it and she cut only a few inches off. It was only an inch above my elbow and she was devastated when she did. Probably one of the worst things about my hair is that it's not naturally straight and my mom straightened my hair ever since i was 4 and now I do and it takes so much of my time, and it doesn't help that I have a lot a lot of hair and my hair is pretty thick too. Now I'm an 11th grader and my hair is back to being abnormally long and I swear it gives me anxiety. Even looking in the memory I'm so disgusted my it. I barely have it down, I always put it up in a bun (I hate buns) and when I go out I do have it down but i wear a light jack it over it and it may seem a bit short but that's because of the jacket being over it. It gives me headaches and migraines when i acknowledge the length of it. Even while blowing drying my hair I feel like throwing up cause I absolutely hate it. I hate it being that long. The feeling it gives me it's too hard to explain. I know there are people who want my hair and have extensions done but I don't care about them. I hate my hair I just want a change. So what i want is to know if it can cause that and show my mother that I'm not lying about anything Please don't say any of the following: Are you kidding? don't cut your hair! I want your hair! Ever thought of a perm? Please and thank you
My face will NOT stop breaking out HELP!?
Awe :( I'm sorry you have to go through this.. I was the SAME way, I started breaking out in 6th grade and tried literally every over the counter treatment on the market! My mom thought I'd grow out of it so I didn't get any help till I was in 9th grade. I had it all over my face, chest, AND back.. I actually asked for proactiv for xmas one year, and when it didn't work it made me that much more depressed about it. So trust me I know EXACTLY what your going through... I strongly suggest you go to a dermatologist, don't even mess around with regular dr's because they'll try stuff that doesn't work either. Go to the dermatologist, let them analyze your acne and determine what's right for you. They will try their hardest to fix it especially because your a female and its hard to have acne.. I suggest you ask them about accutane, they say its dangerous and all this other stuff but I would recommend this to anybody! I was on it for six months and haven't had a single breakout since, and it's been almost four years! Another thing you could ask for (depending on your age) is birth control, it really helps out with acne as well. In the meantime try tea tree soap, it kills infection and bacteria. Stick to one soap don't switch, and stay away from brands such as clean n clear, nuetrogena, oxyclean, all those make you more susceptible to more and possibly worse breakouts. Good luck sweetie I hope I helped in some way, I know how hard this must be for you and I feel bad! But take my advice, it'll help!
Im SO depressed about herpes!! ?
I know life isn't fair specially when it puts an std on you for the rest of it. I have herpes as well contracted it from my second partner. I wanted to cry a lot and was very angry at the world and my boy friend for giving me herpes (but he didn't cheat and neither did I). Like you i'm jealous of my sister who is clean, pregnant and able to have a natural birth. You don't have to be so hard on yourself, doing that will only make you more depressed and thinking like that may cause more out breaks. You have to let your sister know how you feel when she says that to your face. Or tell her that she is playing russian roulette with her life by sleeping around, she could end up getting some thing one day too. Who knows she could have some thing that her regular std test isn't picking up and not even know it. Try to chear up, evetually you will realize that you have more important things to think about then having herpes, but it will always be in the back of your mind. As for your partner, you should have a serious talk with him and tell him that you have herpes before you decide to get intimate. It's better to just come out with this so you can stop worrying about what he really thinks of you. If he does run for the hills then you don't need him. Guys like that are just shallow and not mature enough to handle some one with an std like herpes. You should also do some research as to how to protect your partners from getting herpes. What I do when I want to feel better, I do or treat myself to something that makes me feel great. Herpes can really mess with your thinking process. I worry about who would accept me for having herpes, if my boy friend and I break up. but I try to push it out of my mind or distract myself with my hobbies.