I came out to my friend, now she's acting weird?
We live on the same floor, in the same dorm. I told her (that I'm bi) on in the wee hours of Tuesday morning. Usually, she's the one knocking on my door every night and wanting to hang out, but every time I wanna see her now I'm the one who has to, like, come to her. When I told her she acted like I said, "I'm going for a walk". She kept telling me it wasn't a big deal, told me about all the ppl she knew who were gay/bi/lesbian/asexual...and she knows a lot of them. We laughed about it too...but we never mentioned it since then. I mean, we still hang out and on the surface it doesn't feel like our friendship has changed. It's just something I noticed. Maybe I stunned her because I'm always talking about boys (and kept talking to her about a certain boy who I, uh, admitted was actually a girl). ...But it's nothing right? I'm just paranoid?
My best friend is acting weird, I need help?
OK so, my bestie has been acting strange for a really long time. We've known each other for almost 5 years, and been best friends for 4 years, but ever since about a year ago, she's been acting a little different. Just like little things like, we used to have sleepovers and hang out all the time and we just don't do that anymore, and I know she needs other friends too, because i have loads of other friends and I'm really trying not to be clingy or annoying but she's always doing stuff with this other girl,and i used to be her best friend. Then she like never really tells me stuff anymore. But the weird thing is she still acts like my best friend like when we talk and stuff, but then she doesn't, in some weird way. Like, i just found just she has this huge on this guy for like, 2 months and she never told me, but if it had been a year or 2 ago she would have called, texted or IMed, the minute she had the chance, and I've just been so confused. This is really strange because usually i give people advice but right now I'm really lost, i don't know if i should confront her, of just let it go.
Why is my friend acting weird?
Hmm...There is only 2 things that strikes my mind: 1. That she feels awkward talking to you becoz' you guys hardly meet. 2. She likes you. Why?How? 1. you said it yourself that she was flirtin with you! 2. She hardly talks to you when you are around her and acts all goofy and weird. 3. She tries to ignore you. Trust me I am a gal, I know how it feels. Maybe(I think) you like her too. Do you?
HELP! My best friend is acting weird?
I've been friends with this guy for over a year now. We are best friends, inseparable. For the past 5 or 6 days he's been acting really weird. We've been living together for the past 3 months and things have been really good up until last Friday. We had plans to go out during the day and all of a sudden at the last minute he "remembered" he had lunch plans with an old friend. "Lunch" lasted for over 8 hours. Then, that night we went to bed but when I woke up at 4 AM he wasn't there. I searched everywhere for him and couldn't find him. I called him for 45 min. with no answer. Finally when he did answer he said he went for a drive. Saturday we had plans to visit my parents and go to downtown Pasadena for dinner, until he remembered once again he had plans with his aunt for lunch. That lasted another 5 hours, and needless to say our plans were shot. Sunday he remembered yet again that he had made plans to go to the movies with the old friend from above. When he came back from the movies we went to dinner and rented a movie. Everything seemed fine until we went to put the movie in and he all of a sudden wanted to go to the gym. So I told to him I would change but he didn't want me to join, he wanted to go alone so he could lift weights. Things seemed fine for Monday and Tuesday but he seemed very distant, not himself. The things that once made him laugh did nothing. He's been very secretive on his computer and even has a new AIM account that he's never had before. Last night he went to do laundry in the rain but had to do his hair, brush his teeth, and even put on new clothes and cologne. I had to go to the doctor for an emergency and drove by the laundry mat only to see his car not there. I am really worried, and miss my friend. I don't know what to do, someone please help! This is all so out of character for him.
Why is my friend acting weird?
This usually happens in relationship.You've share everything and took his guidance for a long duration. Now he got used to it and has become over protective.At present he is getting a feeling that you are spending more time with others which is making him feel insecured.Everything you miss with him knowingly or unknowingly will be documented as one more instance of ignorance.He may even consider you as a thankless person as you started ignoring him when you got other friends to rely on.By what ever I could make out it seems like he is going through mixed emotions of being over protective and insecured.You need to be very careful handling him.Express more: more you express what you feel for him more he'll understand his place in your life. Be honest and don't play with words thinking that he may be in love with you. What he feels is for him to express but only you can clearly express your feelings to him so that he doesn't assume anything.Avoid appeasement: be sensitive but don't give in just to please him. He has already started expecting lot of things from you. You need to arrest this situation as early as possible. Expectations kills relationship lot of time, sooner you address better. It is good to have a small argument initially than to lose relationship for ever.Be patient: Such relationship issues takes time to resolve. Be patient and give relationship time to heal by itself. It's good that one of you realised something is wrong so address it with care and patience. Soon everything will be normal once again.All the best.. . . . !!!!
My friend has been acting weird lately...?
ARE THESE NEW FRIENDS OF HERS, A BAD INFLUENCE ON HER IN A , " SHE'S GOING TO GET INTO LEGAL TROUBLE, OR JUST A GANG WITH A BAD REPUTATION? IF IT IS THE FIRST AND CAN CAUSE HER TO GET INTO LEGAL TROUBLE, AND HER MOTHER WANTS YOU TO BE THERE ..... YOU ARE HER ONLY LINK TO WHAT NORMAL AND RESPECTFUL IS RIGHT NOW. IF SHE IS INDEED A DEAR FRIEND , DON'T ABANDON HER, AND BE THERE FOR HER WHEN THEY DROP HER LIKE YESTERDAYS BAD NEWS. IT WILL HAPPEN, IT ALWAYS DOES. SHE WILL NEED YOU THE MOST THEN, AND DON'T SAY " I TOLD YOU SO" BE THE FRIEND YOU WOULD WANT SOMEONE TO BE TO YOU. SHOW HER THAT YOU CARE AND NO MATTER WHAT , THESE FRIENDS ( SAID FRIENDS LITERALLY) CAN'T BRING HER ANY REAL HAPPINESS. I WOULD IMAGINE THAT THESE PEOPLE WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU GET UPSET AND MAD, THEY LIVE OFF OF THAT , SO DON'T GIVE THEM THAT. JUST SMILE AND ACT LIKE EVERYTHING IS JUST FINE, EVEN THOUGH UNDER YOUR BREATHE YOU WANT TO SAY THINGS THAT WOULD MELT THEIR MASCARA. SO STAY COOL, BE EXTREMELY NICE AND DON'T LET ANYONE SEE HOW YOU TRULY FEEL. SHE WILL COME BACK, AND YOU WILL HAVE TO BE THERE TO PICK UP THE PIECES THEY LEFT BEHIND. I CAN IMAGINE THAT THE MOTHER IS COUNTING ON YOU FOR THAT. IF YOU ARE THIS TRUE FRIEND, AND IF SHE IS WORTH IT, JUST DO IT. DOES THAT HELP ANY?
My best friend is acting weird?
First is consider your age group. If you are in your teenage then it happens normally. If she starts to do something that can harm you even with just feelings, get way from her and give her space. She will realize what she’s doing eventually if you didnt do anything wrong at all. If she’s being genuine she will approach you again as she said that she loves you. But remember, anyone can say that he/she loves you even when they dont mean it. Love yourself first. Treasure your friends but dont depend on them so much and always give yourself more so that when something happens, less heartbreak and disappointment.
Is My Friends Mom acting weird?
I'm an 18 year old guy. My best friend’s mom is 47, married and a mother of 2. I was wondering based on these stories if she may like me or if she is a flirt or inappropriate. One time I was over my friends’ house. We were sitting at the kitchen counter while his mom cleaned up. My friend went to get something in his room and right after he left his mom started bending over to put bowls away. She was literally bending over with her butt sticking out for at least a minute. I’m pretty sure she saw me looking but she kept doing it anyway. Another time we were making a fire in my friend’s driveway. He wanted me to get leaves in the backyard and his mom was outside watering the grass. While I collected the leaves she bent over to put the hose away for about a minute right near me. Then my friend and I were playing tennis and she came over near us to weed her garden. She had her boobs hanging out of a shirt barely buttoned up and I could see her bra and most of her boobs. She bent over and I could see her underwear. I had a shirt on once that said "Life’s to short, get a woody" and she laughed at it. I also made a joke to her that Michael Jackson died of food poisoning because he ate twelve year old nuts and she laughed and said she read that in a magazine. She bent over once and accused me of taking a picture of her butt sticking out with my cell but wasn’t angry about it or seem to care at all if I did or not. I was lying on the floor and petting her dog when it started biting me. She sat down on the floor too and started rubbing my hands and hair pretending I was a dog claiming “it’ll help the dog calm down.” She and her husband have a tough marriage. He's always on business trips and works during dinner which clearly annoys her and they argue sometimes. It seems like she acts flirty around me, especially when her husband isn't around. Do you think she does this because of her marriage problems? Is the stuff she doing seem inappropriate of her to do or am I reading too much into this? Could she be doing this because she likes me? What should I do about this?