Help: I caught my dad wearing my mothers maxi dress, what to do? Could he be bisexual?
I accidentally walked into my parents room without knocking, and I was terrified! I seen my dad wearing my mother's maxi dress while video chatting with a guy. I wasn't suppose to stay home but I was home. Words cannot explain how sickening I feel right now. Several thoughts are going through my head. I'm not sure mom is aware of this. Could my father be bisexual? I asked his was he doing any April fools pranks, and he irritatingly responded no. And please, NO harassment. Mature answers only.
Around my narcissist mother (diagnosed) I always had this sickening feeling all over. If I get that around others is that a good sign they are like her too? I think they are her flying monkeys.
Wow. You must be an Empath. Yes, this can be a sign of confirmation that the person is not of good vibes. Please observe the feelings that you get when around different people to understand if this is a form of confirmation that you are getting bad vibes about the person. If you are an empath you will definitely need to get some form of protection to shield yourself when in public places or in crowds of people to not pick up negative energy. Sometimes it can be the bad vibes of the actual building or store that you are in or the person standing next to you or a group of individuals nearby could be sick with a cold or flu. In the future do observe other feelings that you may experience when around different people. Feelings of nervousness or jittery as though you’ve had too much caffeine, heart palpitations, sweating, dizziness, nauseated, pain behind the eyes when looking directly into someone else’s eyes, vertigo, or feeling like an elephant has sat on your chest. Also pay attention to the foods that you eat and see how you feel afterwards.
Why did my grandmother say it's sickening that my father cares for my mother?
We don’t know, but please don’t tell your mother. Talk to your father about why your grandmother doesn’t see your mother’s good qualities (that’s a good way to word it).Stop listening to your grandmother when she mentions your mother. If it is possible, say that you don’t want to listen to this, and get ready and leave without another word. Your grandmother should not be doing this.Love your mother extra.
Why is my grandmother calling my mother sickening?
It may mean that whatever your mother is doing that her mother disagrees with, is strongly affecting her mother emotionally the equivalent to making her mother sick to her stomach.
Does anyone find it uncalled for and sickening that some parents pull down their children's pants to spank?
Please don't confuse sexual molestation with child punishment. These are two totally different things. I am sorry for the story about your mother, your grandfather is a sicko, perv, what ever you want to call it. There are sick people in this world. Pulling down pants is a old fashioned way of spanking, it's much more effective way to spank then doing them over layers of clothing. We have 3 daughters, we never do things half a**ed, If a spanking is called for, then pants come down, Period! Guess what, a spanking in our home is a rare event. There is nothing sexual about it, their your children how could there be? That's not to say there are not wackos out there (your grandfather) who find pleasure in such things (i can't imagine). Then again, like you said he was also molesting your mom, so your taking a example of the minority, not the majority. All in all, I respect your opinion not to use spanking in this way, or at all, but please don't condemn those good parents who do. Good Luck
My parents watch incest porn, and It really sickening to me. I don t know how to get over it. Should I be concerned, or is this normal?
I m 30 years and my parents are 63 and 61. When I was 25 I briefly moved in with my parents after separating from my bf. Late one night I was taking a bath and my dad walked in on me while I was naked. The next day he tried to have sex with me and told him no. I moved out the next day. My dad upgraded from a flip phone to smart phone . My mom started complaining that all he does is watch porn on it. I wasn t concerned till this weekend. She calls me and ask me to check his phone cause it was opening tabs. As soon as I opened chrome all I see is a page title father teaching daughter lesson on a porn site, I closed it out and then I notice that there where about 60 tabs opened all pertaining to incest porn. Father & daughter, mother & son, mom,daughter and son, brother and sister. Majority was of father daughter porn. Well duh too many tabs opened that he couldn t opened more but I felt disgusted. I told my mom if she was aware of what he was watching and she said yes. She even said she watches it with him. I left there confused and sicken. It bothers me cause I m an only child, with no other family. My kids stay with them on the weekends while I work, and now I m really concerned about if I should continue letting my kids go over there on the weekend. It s really disgusting to me and stresses me out that my parents are watching this type of porn, especially my mom. It makes me want to throw up when I think about it. I can t understand how my mom can be OK with this.
How do I deal with a disgusting mother in law?
The best advice I can give is that you care too much. When you don’t care she doesn’t affect you. My mother in law is your typical, passive aggressive, grade A, selfish, insecure MIL. She constantly compares her body to mine then feels bad about herself so decides I should also feel bad. She takes anything and only focuses on the negativity . “Thanks for visiting me on your vacation, you only 5 days left until it’s over.” That is a direct quote and every new day it’s “4 days left” ect… She gives me the silent treatment and stomps around me. She undermines my parenting in front of my kids even when I used her suggestions on how to correct them!!! She’s a total nutsack. Wether she realizes it or not she can tell me she likes me but her actions do not match, she makes too many Freudian slips and she bad mouths her other two daughter in laws as well. Anytime my sons do something she deems amazing she says “oh Daniel used to do that.” But anytime they do something wrong or something is wrong with them “they must have gotten that from you.” Every time. My point of this whole rant is to give you proof there is no pleasing women who are unhappy with themselves. Or anyone for that matter. Accept that they’re unhappy and it’s in their core it’s nothing to do with MIL/DIL solely. This is who they are and you’re an easy target for their drama loving bullshit. So let it go by accepting this is who they are and don’t care too much of the opinions of someone you have no interest in becoming.
What is the most sickening thing you have come across taking care of your aged parents?
On that day when she was hospitalized in Hyderabad and the surgeon had adviced an observation for one more day I had hopes.When the next day and that moment came in the hope was dashed to the ground. The doc advised the leg has to go.While the leg was being amputated my HRM from my employer, an MNC called me. I was expecting an extension of my LOP. But she asked is there someone else who can care for my mother? I didn't ask her why? But I had a hunch that the worst was yet to come.Life's lessons are tough. That day I was in tears because the leg was gone, I could not save it.The following few days I stayed in the hospital till her discharge and then brought her home. The second blow was to come shortly. So, I got a call again to report to the HR and I went in for a meet up. The HRM a n young lady( senior pro already ) announced that I have to go.Double blow.
Daycare making false, sickening allegations?
Q: Do I need to pull my children from the daycare and find one that has more knowledge of what abuse looks like? A: YES.