We both cheated on each other?? Can we fix this mess?
It is going to be tough. Trust is very key in any relationship and the both of you have taking that trust and flushed it. Can the trust be returned? That falls on you and him. First, understand you can not make him want to try and earn your trust, all you can do is show him that you want his trust. To do this, you will have to make huge amounts of sacrifise. There will be times were you might feel like everything you are doing is for nothing, but remeber that your husband has been hurt, just like you were when he cheated on you. Guys might try and act all tough and hide thier emotions but they are still there. If he has not ended the relationship by now it is very probable that he wants to work it out too. Remeber to have patients with him and yourself. Take care of your responsibilities to your husband and yourself, if he truely wants to make things right, he will see your efforts and things will after time become what you want them to be.
I melted a large tupperware canister on my gas stove and need help!!?
As I walked through the kitchen I turned the wrong burner on for the tea kettle. I now have so much orange tupperware that's covering the burner, the grill and the drip pan. The part that burned to a crisp will come right off but the rest has become part of the iron grill. It's electronic ignition and I don't have any idea how to fix this mess I made. My son thinks a torch to to heat might help but he lives an hour away. Ideas??? help me please
Need to fix messed up circumcision from birth can I go to the doctor myself?
SO when I was born turns out the doctors messed up my circumcision. I know this is a really weird and awkward question but never mind that. Right now I'm 14 and the way the foreskin grew scarred it kinda pulls on my penis and since I am going through puberty when I get an erection sometimes the bits of skin that's attached to the head pulls and it hurts sometimes bad. When i was littler my mo told me when I was about this age if I wanted too I could have it fixed but now it's just really embarrassing to talk with her about it so what I'm wondering is if I can go to doctors myself and get it fixed I have medicaid so would it be free or would I still have to pay? Please help because it hurts and it's weird so yeah hope I wasn't to awkward for you.
My son's life is a mess?
I would sent him. I had some trouble with my 15yr son as well, nothing anywhere close to this, but some local issues. He too is very smart and the head honcho in school, but sometimes he makes stupid decisions. In October he got himself into big trouble and I put him on "house arrest" for 6ms. He had to stay in his room except to go to school and lost all privileges. He slowly had to earn them back and is doing wonderfully now. My husband went through one of these camps as a kid and told my son if he ever screwed up again, he was going too. My husband went when he was 16 for getting caught 3 times spray painting on his high school gym wall and breaking into a car (on a dare he claims =]). He went and still to this day RAVES about how much he LOVED IT in the end and how much it taught him. As strong-willed as your son may be, so are 95% of all those kids there and many of those have the goal or trying to get themselves kicked out. The kid down the street who is a year older than my oldest daughter, so I guess around, 18-19yrs went to one of these wilderness/school things for an entire year when he was 15yrs old. He was a MONSTER, constantly getting into trouble and hurting others. He didn't listen to anyone, was constantly back talking. His final move was when he stole the family car, ran through a stop sign and was pulled over by a cop for doing so. They found drugs in the back of the car. His parents are the sweetest people I know and have another son my son's age. He went away for a year and came back completely changed. He had manners, called everyone sir and ma'am, started doing extremely well in school and was someone you could be proud of. I remember the first time he spoke to me when he came back. I went to get the mail and he was sitting on his front lawn across the street and said "Hi Mrs. Rizzionni. How are you?" I didn't know what to say. I didn't even know he knew my name! He finished high school top 30% of his class and went on to college. His parents are happy and so is he. I'm sure you're son will come back a changed person. He's young and they have A LOT of guidance up there, people who don't put up with any crap and know how to break these kids down. I wish you the best of luck with your son.
Why do parents get angry about their child's room being messy? As a teen, my room gets messy all the time. It doesn't hurt anyone. No one else sees it unless they're in my room without permission.
Oh dear, I feel your pain. I have had countless of these futile arguments with my mother as a teenager and let me tell you a secret, nothing I said or reasoned ever worked.My mother had too many silver bullets and she walked away victorious every single time. And by victorious I mean she had me cleaning no matter the tears.Here were some of her reasons, which at that time I felt were foolish, but now I can see what she meant:It was ‘my’ room in ‘her’ house. So, as logic dictates, her house her rules.There was never a question of them asking permission to enter my room. I have never been the recipient of such royal treatment. Now don’t get me wrong. I did have my privacy growing up but it was within healthy limits. And expecting my mother (or father) to request permission to enter my room while I live in their house was… well… unhealthy.Guests. In India, close relatives take the liberty to arrive unannounced any time they please. This means that one has to be ever-ready to receive guests and an unkempt house doesn’t really say “welcome”.Also, my mother strongly believes that the home is the reflection of the homemaker. And she wasn’t quite thrilled to brave the ‘messy’ woman tag.Though the room was mine, my mother did store some of the common household stuff in one of the drawers. Now, in an event where the said stuff needed to be retrieved, she was not ready to risk tripping, falling and rolling across to the far end of the room to get her hands on whatever it is she needed.Housemaid. I can’t stress the importance of this point enough. Housemaid had trouble navigating through the mess and getting everyday cleaning done. What should have ideally taken 10 minutes was taking her 20. She was not happy. Between her sassing and me sassing, I clearly lost. (I’m beginning to realize I lost a lot of battles)Anyway. I may have revolted as a teenager but today I’m very happy my mother trained me right in the trainable years. I don’t live with them in the same house anymore but all those cleaning habits have stuck. I love being organized.I also have come to realize that at times when my mind is cluttered and I’m struggling with getting my thoughts organized, cleaning and arranging my home helps clear my mind as well. I have no idea why, but it works!So here’s my advice to you, accommodate their request. It is a small request. It is not that big of a deal. It would make everyone happy. And that is the most important thing.