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I need advice on friend problems..?

Ok.. Hey my names Faith. I don't think you friend has any say in when you do your homework or not. Do you get better grades when you do it with her or do you goof off an not do it... Is the reason she's mad is that when you do you homework do you copy off of each other? I'm in middle school and I still have to do my homework I get home at three and I'm usually not done untill around nine or eight. I know that when I do my homework with my friends and I have to wait for them to catch up and it takes alot longer! I hope that you can work thisbig thing out with your friend and just tell her she's acting silly and that your sorry and tell her you forgot... lol Its not the best but Hopefully it works! bye!! good luck!! =D

Help my friend wants to join a gang i need advice to give to him?

simple - give a reply yes or no

gangs generally are folks whose personalities have made them outcast by their own doings

gangs offer no real benefit to anyone ....
you are offering to risk your health or life for a "leader" who simply wants backups to his own ideas

gangs are also against the law, so any activity there can bring you a permanent record or jailtime

gangs also bring heartbreak and harm - offer nothing to the persons involved or society

if he wants to stand for something - stand for something that betters him as a person and society!


thanks for your concern - that is a sign of a true friend

best wishes to you both!

Help. Need advice on a friend ghosting me?

Complicated, but I'll be brief:

Friend called me to develop tech product. He's a patent lawyer and I'm an engineer.

Took too long working full time, so quit my job and thought I could live in an office space and do freelance. But paid terrible, wasted even more time and got kicked out of office space because...you can't live there/

Friend put me up in one of his rental homes. Still takes too long (marketing plans and product specs changed dramatically)

Now after 1.5 years looks like we are very close. My friend seems very excited, but he has cutoff all communication except dropping by for demo updates. He used to call regularly but now goes out of his way to avoid me.

I feel bad as a free loader. I have told him many times it's no problem if he wants to quit and have me leave, even encouraged the idea. But he wouldn't have it.

He's a very good guy, but the ghosting makes me think he wants to quit but is afraid it will hurt me. Should I take the responsibility upon myself to quit? The financial payoff is also very questionable.

Defaintely in need of advice for my friend!?

I think is i'ts great that she is committed in supporting her guy to change. If I were in the same situation, I would ask myself " Why do I want to be in this realtionship in the first place ?

I found this article that talks about a woman's role in maintaining a good relationship. It says :

"But most importantly, she should do this with love. A man desires to hear this all the time, because men really are like children, and they often see a woman as a mother. And even though this kind of a relationship may seem "imbalanced," it will become balanced out because it will make the man want to "rise up," to show how great he is. It will awaken his desire to become greater in a positive way, rather than in an overbearing, negative way.
Here's the link:

http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=1#the-woman-e2-80-99s-role-in-maintaining-a-good-relationship

I need advice about my friends relationship?

So, my best friend and I graduated high school this last may. I moved about an hour away to go to college and she stayed home. She goes to a community college in our city. While there she met this guy in one of her classes. He is 27 (she is 18) and they have been hanging out and messing around some. She talked about getting into a relationship with him. I said that I don't think its a good idea to have anything serious because he probably has much different intentions than her, in the terms of where the relationship is going. We are very close, have been friends for over 10 years. I just don't see myself being able to get along with the guy because I think he is almost taking advantage of her. She has only had 2 boyfriends and only dated them for 3 months each. She also doesn't make the best decisions for herself and doesn't really look ahead at the consequences. I know this won't end well. I just do not know how to get her to realize that this isn't something she should pursue. She is very pretty and outgoing so she could easily find a guy closer to our age with more similar life experience and intentions.
Any advice on what I should do would be greatly appreciated. Thanks :)

How can I politely say to a friend that I don't need his/her "garbage advice"? I never ask for help from them, especially about money.

What you say does not make sense. If you do not need advice about things then do not tell people you have a problem. But in my experience people who do not need advice do not have problems. They have already made the right choices and decisions to prevent problems or get rid of them quickly.Money problems tend to come from over spending, so it does not follow that you know what to do about it when you could have prevented it by being smarter about your spending.How do you know that your friend gives garbage advice? Has he got less problems than you, are his finances in a worse state than yours?The fact that you need to come on here and ask strangers for advice here proves you are not really a problem solver.

I have this best friend for past three years and i need advice?

Perfectly normal.It is quite common for a female best friend to be jealous over his male best friend's gf (and vice versa). You understand well that if he likes another girl and would be happy with her, you should let him go. If he is really yours he will come to you :)You're a perfectly normal and mature person.PS: Reading the question details I hope everything spans out as you want :)Thanks for A2A

I need advice for my bisexual female friend. She’s afraid that if she comes out, that her dad will disown her. What should I say to her?

Coming out is a personal affair and just as those who do come out are applauded by the LGBTQ community at large, someone who fears coming should be protected and made to feel safe with her LGBTQ friends and straight friends as well. No one should be pressured to come out. She will know when and if the time ever comes.For some people in the LGBTQ community, coming out to their family or parents is not an option. People of some mindsets, simply cannot come to terms with any sexuality other than heterosexual. And while society at large should continue to make efforts to educate those people, some will never be able to accept differing viewpoints on the subject.What you as a friend need to do is to let her know that she is safe with you and whatever social group you are in. That she will not be pressured or outed, even in anger if there were something else that came between you.If I were you, I would say that she could think of me as her Rock of Gibraltar or Plymouth Rock. That come what may, she can count on you for privacy and discretion like the ocean can count on breaking on the Rock. Nothing will move or change you on this matter. And that her privacy is your privacy.

I need advice...Someone please help...?

I have a crush on my friend and I don’t know what to do. Every girl in the school has a crush on him because he’s strong and tall and whatever but with me it’s not like that. He’s been there for me through thick and thin. He’s helped me through trauma and my ex leaving me after bad things happened to me. I don’t know what to do because if I never tell him how I feel then I will regret it. But if I tell him how I feel he’ll think I only like the idea of him just like everyone else. He’s been there to support me and that’s probably why I like him. I’m stuck, really stuck.

I have a friend who doesn't listen to my advice?

i don't think she should go out with him, not anymore, but she really liked him and she wouldn't ask him out, now i'm pretty sure he's just a player, he wouldn't even ask her out. and i'm a really good friend to her, but she's a spoiled brat. her dad is rich, so she gets what she wants, she's never been grounded, even though she almost set her house on fire when i was over and she was playing with matches while i was working on our project, she thinks that because her parents let her have whatever she wants, then she should get whatever she wants from everyone. she also thinks that all of her problems are worse than all of the problems that you have or had... she's just a brat

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