HELP PLEASE! Im scared of my friends dad!?
Ok so my best friend Claira has a single mom who lives across the city. She used too live where i live and go too my school but when we were 7 he went too jail for sexual abuse. So Claira went too live with her mom. (Her parents were already divorced). She was really sad and confused that year.We still emailed alot but she was really sad. She used too stay with her dad weekdays and see her mom on the weekends! Until her dad sexually abused someone (NOT CLAIRA THOUGH!) But he just got out from jail last week (Were both 13 im almost 14) Claira see's him on weekends and stays with her mom on weekdays because she goes too her school across the city now. But this past weekend Claira invited me too her house. I was a little scared and i told her i was but she said it would be fine! Well we hung out in her room (At her dads house) And her dad brought us snacks (HOW OLD ARE WE FIVE?!) And we just hung out but i left at 5:30. Claira just had too go too the bathroom before she walked me home. I sat in the living room and waited for her. Her dad came downstairs and turned on the t.v. He looked at me and said " I think were gonna get too know each other alot this year" And then Claira came out of the bathroom " Ready too go!?" She said.I never replied and her dad didnt say anything else. Im really scared of him and i'm scared he's going to rape me. I know this sounds stupid but i dont want too go to My best friends house ever again.. WHAT DO I DO!!!? (SORRY IT WAS LONG.)
How sad is it that at 28 i'm still scared of Michael Myers and Halloween movies?
I'm scared of him, too and I'm 42. Do you yell at Jamie Lee Curtis when you watch? At the hospital when she gets outside and is trying to get in the car, "the keys, the keys" gets me every fvcking time.
Is my hamster sad, lonely or scared ? I need help :(?
I've just got a roborovski hamster as a gift from my friend :) she surprised me with one. I've been keeping it for about three days now. It doesn't seem to like me as it keeps running away as soon as it sniffs my hand and it doesn't like it when I try to hold or even touch it. It doesn't even accept food from me :( I think it's because it's new to everything so it's been a little agitated. I decided to move it in to a bigger space so I got it a bigger container. When I put it into the new home, it started squeaking. Is it actually scared or is that normal ? I feel like I should get another hamster too as it looks lonely. But I had second thoughts that it might fight. What should I do ? Should I keep it without a company ? And why doesn't it like me ? I've kept a hamster before this one about two years back and the previous one was very tame and it didn't bite as well. Is there a chance to get it to like me ?
I'm scared to turn 17? Please help?
My 17th birthday is next month and it's making me very upset. I have never felt like this about any of my other birthdays. 17 seems so different though because it's only one year younger than 18 and it's insane, it's practically an adult. I'm so used to being young and I feel much younger than 17 inside. This is the only birthday I'm dreading, like I said it's never happened before. It makes me feel like I'm going to be a different person or an adult and I can't even imagine ME moving out or driving (I don't drive yet) I'm used to living life like a kid. How can I stop being so upset about this?!
I feel sad and scared because my parents are getting old. What can I do to help myself?
I have been starting to get this feeling myself! The crazy part is that my parents aren’t anywhere near where I should be starting to fear this.However, because it was bothering me quite a bit, I wanted to get ahead of my own fears. I talked about it with my parents. Was it a strange conversation? Yes. It was a bit awkward at times, but I think that both my parents and myself came out if it with a little more confidence about how we would handle the end of their lives.We all know that our parents dying is inevitable. We know that it will be terrible, and we know that we will miss them quite a bit. It’s normal to feel sad when you start to sense your parents’ mortality.One thing that put my mind at ease was talking to my parents about what they wanted. I know that my parents don’t want to be put into a home under any circumstances. Luckily, they’ve provided for themselves well enough that I know I won’t have to go back on that promise. The reason I know that is because we had a frank discussion about what their retirement income would be and how they would handle unexpected expenses.I know the current state of my parents’ health. I know what concerns their doctors have for the future, and I know how my parents want me to help them handle it.I know what my parents expect of me in case of medical emergencies as they age. I will know how to handle questions from doctors and how to handle their wishes best.I know what my parents want to happen after they die as well, and I am prepared to take all of the steps they’ve asked me to take.Talking with your parents about the end of their lives will be a strange and slightly sad conversation. Its also an opportunity to make sure you know what their final wishes will be, and how you can best honor them before and after they pass.Make a plan with your parents. Make sure that it is realistic, and make sure you know what they hope to achieve with their retirement and twilight years. Then the best you can do is help them, support them and love them.Once you’ve made a plan, acknowledged that the loss will be devastating and that you’ll know how to handle all of it, you should relax about it a bit. It will still be sad, and you will still worry about them. However, having complete knowledge of the situation and a plan in place that they have already approved of will take a lot of the stress out of it.
I'm scared of turning 13, please help me?
I'm turning 13 next week and I'm scared/depressed/guilty that I haven't really done much in my life that will made me want to remember the moments when I was a kid, because then I'll be classified as a teenager. I'm also scared of the terrible moments that will be awaiting for me when I hit that unlucky number, and I don't know what to do, I'm going insane! I'm scared of the transition from being a kid to a teenager, and I don't want to be closer to adulthood. I'm feeling so nostalgic right now, I can't stop thinking about the moments when I backed down on a fun experience for no good reason. Someone please help me calm down, I can feel my heart rate rising per minute. Give me some advice for when I turn 13? Thank you. ~
What is wrong with me, I'm so sad, scared, depressed, and hopeless?
Why are you sad, depressed or hopeless?Are you like this ?or may be like this?if “ NO” then you are the most happiest person.“ Are you able to eat your breakfast, lunch and dinner”if “YES” then you are the most happiest and luckiest person on this entire earth.Don’t get sad by those small problems in your life like……my girlfriend left me what should i doi have no job i am hopelessi am not able to clear any exam etc etc etcthese things are parts and parcel of life . they will come and go.generally humans are sad when they do not not get what they wanted.so there is nothing wrong with you friend. You are a human.now the thing is how to make yourself happythings you should do are……………..WAKE UP EARLY IN THE MORNING(before the Sun rises) and thank God for this new morning.2. Drink lots of water empty stomach and do some exercise3. Wish your parents and take their blessings.4 Make plans for the day5. And start working towards your goalAND LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST DO “MEDITATION”it will give you positive energy and will increase your thinking power…..i also suggest you to watch a movie that is “pursuit of happyness” …after watching that movie you will not complain about your problems…i think i am able to answer..So be happy and always SMILE :)
Please help! My new puppy won't drink water! And he's scared!?
Please don't be scared. Concerned yes but don't be scared. Most pet stores get their puppies from commercial dog breeders and many of those are 'puppy mills' who will crate their dogs in cramped, dark and filthy areas. Your puppy likely did not spend 5 months at the pet shop. Likely he was taken there around 2-4 months of age. You can ask the pet shop if you'd like to know. My guess would be by your description that this is a classic puppy mill puppy and he was not at the pet store that long but rather traumatized by the so-called breeder's property. He isn't quite sure what to make of this new found goodness he has in you and it's going to take patience for you to see him through his fear of waiting for the other shoe to drop so to speak. Additionally, keep in mind that temperament and personality are hereditary and most breeders who don't care where their puppies go (sorry, but as a breeder, I couldn't bear to let a pet shop just let my puppy go to the first person with money.. I need more info than how much is in their wallet - certainly not even close to a dig on you, just the breeder who puts puppies in that risky situation. Your puppy could have just as easily wound up with someone terrible. I'm glad he found you! First, I'd want a complete checkup done at a vet's office asap.In the meantime, try giving your new baby some pedialyte from a needleless syringe or eyedropper, etc. This will help you be certain he is not getting dehydrated. If his tummy is upset, you can give a tiny bit of pepto bismol or kaeopectate. I am normally a huge crate training advocate but in this case, I would avoid it for now. He may very well be traumatized by improper cage use. When reassuring him, rub his shoulder. This is what wolves in their packs do when they wish to convey "you're accepted. You're okay, I'm okay". Just be careful not to appear to be rewarding cowardly behavior or you may accidentally reinforce it. Instead, set him up by asking him to come.. reward him. -- ask him to sit.. reward him (even if you have to gently guide him into the sit position). but for a day or two, just let him explore and relax. Wishing you and your new baby all the best for many years to come.