My friend thinks she's ugly, how do I help her?
Please tell your friend that according to the bible, God's holy word, “we are fearfully and wonderfully made.” She must know that she is very beautiful. She is unique. Besides, true beauty comes from the inside. There are many persons who are said to be beautiful on the outside but they are unkind, manipulative, disrespectful to others, etc. These people are not truly beautiful. Besides, the beauty that we all are on the outside will fade one day and our true beauty that is on the inside is what will last. Remind her of all the great qualities she has and tell her that that is the reason why she is beautiful.
Help, friend told me she's bi ?
Okay, so my friend the other day told me she's bi, and im perfectly find with Gay/lesbian/bi people, BUT i am straight, 100% straight ....girls are just to eh...for a lack of a better word bitchy? I should know i am one XD I just really perfere guy's more, even when it comes to friends, i tend to have more guy friends than girl's. Which is why im so worried, because i don't want to loose one of the girl friends that i have. =/ But anyways back to the problem. I have a boyfriend, and she knows that, and she knows im straight, and we're riding the bus and she just comes out and tells me, so i mean i feel honored that she trust me enough to tell me first, BUT, the fact is I really think she has a crush on me...because before hand she'd always say these completements...which i thought she was just being nice, like friends do the typical "oh your shirt is really cute." but her's was more "your really cute" ...So yea, im not sure what to do, should i just kinda keep low, for a while....(( which is really freaking hard due to i have to ride the dam bus dam car needs to go to the shop, but iv gotta save money for it ¬¬ )) or if not that what should i do? confront her and just ask her...but if she dosent then that would just be More awkward...so yea help!! please and thankyou =D
How do I tell my friend she needs to help out in our club more?
So I started a school club with my friend and I always do all the work. I have to make all of the slides, games, buy stuff, etc. and my friend doesn’t help out at all to the point where she doesn’t know what topic we talk about each week. I tried asking her to make the slides and she’ll say she doesn’t have time or on Monday, the day of our club, she says she “forgot” to make the slides. Sometimes she’ll start fake crying saying I’m asking too much of her. I know she has the time and I’m getting really sick of having to do everything, how do I get her to help out?
How to help a friend?
A friend of mine's dad was in an accident recently and now she finds it really awkward to talk to him cos he was nearly killed. She says he tries to act all happy but now things are just different. What can be done to help this?
I'm always helping my friend, she never helps me?
Alright, this might make me sound selfish but i just don't know what to do anymore. My best friend is pretty guy obsessed, and it results in her constantly having her heart broken. I've had to "pick her up off the floor" so many times its ridiculous. She "says" shes the suffer in silent type, but she A:lets it be known on the internet B:is always venting to me about the things that are wrong in her life. And like i said its all about boys. I've had ALOT of pain in my life. Things im not going to get into. But when im sad it just becomes about her. I've been depressed for about 3 years now, and she's never noticed. Why? because i dont believe that letting the whole world know im sad is gonna solve my problems. But sometimes i cant handle it and when i try to tell her she just complains about HER problems. What do i do? without hurting her feelings, because i know that she is hurting.
How to help a friend who thinks she is a failure?
I am, unfortunately, a reflection of your friend. She is a perfectionist, always needing to be absolutely flawless at everything she does. One false move and all hell breaks loose. There really isn't much you can do. People like her are stubborn and won't give into any support. The only thing that can help her is time. She'll get a report card later and see that she did not end up with an F just because of a single mishap. She's not going to be able to accept anything when she's that paranoid, and even though you may mean well there's really not much you can do. Some tips I can give you might not seem very nice, but my friends do it on me and it works. Say to her "I don't get straight A's all the time. I sometimes screw up. What, am I a failure, too?" She'll probably try to say it's different, and that's when you snap back that it's not- that we all make mistakes and it's part of being human. Also try being a little sarcastic, like "Oh yes. One little grade that's not 105%. Everything is ruined for you." You need to be harsh in order for her to listen. Don't worry about hurting her feelings. She'll get over it. I'm the same way and I'm thankful for people who aren't afraid to slap me back into reality. If she's really your friend she'll understand
How can a guy help his best friend (girl) when she is on her period?
Holla buddy,Never had i ever came across a friend who'd do such thing for me but I'd definitely like to do some of the followings when i am going through my monthly cramps. Periods are nature's call and a girl needs utmost care and love at this period of time.Firstly, know that she's going through a lot of pain. knowing that you can't do anything about it listen to her carefully but don't question her about you never heard of pain in menstrual cycle.In this time of period, girls usually get mood swings. Girls love it when a boy cares them gently.Sudden cravings for food is quite normal. So if you get midnight calls to get her a chocolate ice-cream, you better do something about it.Surprise plans for movies with food will always be a mood changer for a girl. But note that sitting in the same position might get irritating for her.Food and sleep are always a girl's first love. Ice-cream, chocolates pizza's will always be a thumbs up.Besides all these, Handling her with care and utmost love is the key.^.^In case, this is my first answer to you,Hello there,It's Nidhi ware.I hope i helped. ^_^