HELP! my Stepmom is CRAZY?
I have had a stepmom or almost 2 years now. I love her pets and i dont always hate her, but sometimes she gets in a crazy mood and screams at my dad "WHY DID YOU CHEAT ON ME". I know what she says is a lie because it only happens on nights we have company over and she drinks so much wine, enough to make 2 men drunk. I am 13, and i have 2 smaller brothers. one is 8 and one will be 11 soon. When she gets in these moods I lock the door to m brothers and i, room. When i hear my dad come up, I open the door and he says we are going to my grandmother's house. When we go downstairs sometimes glass is cracked, and one time i saw my stepmoms tablet smashed on the TV. WHAT DO I DO?????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Help? My stepmom is driving me crazy?
I am 16 years old. Last month my dad took me to the doctor and I had to get blood work done. Doctor told us that I was anemia and had low potassium. My stepmom makes me take iron pills everyday. She won't let me fix my own meals. She wants to make sure that I am eating enough potassium a day. She is also worried because I was on my period for a month. And she grounded me I didn't tell her that I had my period for a month. I just want her to back off a little that's all.
My step mom is a gold digger... help?
Melissa C, If someone else gave your father the information that she's a gold digger than I'm sure your father will be on top of it by redoing his will. These sorts of things happen all the time. One sign of a gold-digger wife and the husband has kids, is when the step-kids have their own children and the stepmother ends up with animosity towards the grandchildren that are born. One thing she can't do is get a hold of that trust fund your mother made for you. She might try legally, but she will lose no matter what. The trust fund can not be removed by her or anyone else for that matter so don't worry about that part. In the meantime just ignore her, it sounds like she so much full of hot air she will give herself away.
My stepmom is driving me crazy plz help!?
Im 16 and my dad had recently remarried a woman named claire, my stepmom, she has no other children and it was really just me and my dad until she came along. but ne way my dad has gone on a business trip and wont be back for another week and so u see my problem is that she is driving me crazy, i am a A student and she wont let me come out if my room until i have shown her all of my homework im in high school and i think i can handle myself. She treats my like a little child and doesnt let me go out with any friends im also on the bball team a school and she makes me practice a hour a day she always has my food prepared for me when i come home and she forces me to eat. im really not sure what todo everytime i confront either her or my dad they she this doesnt happen i cant take it ne more what do i do??? plz help she is driving me crazy
I have a crush on my stepmom what should I do?
look my dad got together with my step mom when I was 6, as the time pass by I been noticing my step mom in a diferent way, like a woman, I'm 15 years old what can I do?
How to split up my stepmom and dad?
That depends on what she says about you and to you. If these things are disciplinary and intended to try to get you to improve, then take them for what they are and use what she's saying to make yourself a better person. However, if those things she's saying are unfair, insulting, and/or verbally abusive, you should inform your father and let him deal with it. If he dismisses you, start keeping a journal. Write down exactly what your stepmom says, and when she says it, including date and time. After a few weeks, make a copy of the journal and give your father the copy. "See?" you should say. "I told you she was mean to me."
Help! My step-mom keeps trying to be like my real mom?
bamababy- I already addressed that point, please read my post. "bamababy- She tries to control what I wear, what I listen to, what I watch, and when I go to bed. I wouldn't like that even from my own mother, but at least my own mother has the place to enforce rules. This chick is NOT my mother and she has no place to try and be my mother." It was posted above, so I don't see how you missed it. Either way, through law it's her home, but my parents are the ones who worked and paid for it so my dad still should have the authority in the home as he is the one who spent the most time getting it. She got it though marriage only. But, that really was not my point. I don't have a problem with her living here or being with my dad, but I did not choose her and I am not her daughter so I just ask that she stops trying to make it that way.
What do I do about a step mom who sneaks into my room and throws my crap away? My dad married this passive aggressive lady two years ago when I moved back into state and I have been living with them ever since so that college won't be so expensive.
Just one answer says “talk to her (and dad)”, but dictates the conversation should be about setting her straight. Talk to her, but don’t tell her she is wrong, crossing the line or that she is doing something you don’t like. Talk to her to ask her what is allowed and what is not allowed in the house/room. You may feel a sense of entitlement to stay with your Dad and in his house. She may not share that reasoning. It does not matter who is right or wrong. Going down that path won’t get you anywhere. Instead, level with her. It is much harder for her to be passive aggressive if you reach up to her and are willing to work with her. There is no need to involve your Dad if you can sort this out yourself. Running to Dad might make this rift only larger. You Dad will be in an awkward position to find the middle ground between the two of you.Ask her what her expectations are. If they are unreasonable then of course you may echo that sentiment, but do that in a non-argumentative way. Give in some, even if you feel justified not to. She may have a strong need to feel she is in control. Just because you gave in does not mean you lost. Once you establish an understanding, you may be able to renegotiate later. After talking with her, most likely you will know what is important to her and what is not. You will find you get more than what you might have by battling with her. Remember this is a short stay and sooner of later you will be out of there. So don’t sweat this!
Help? My stepmom is driving me crazy she thinks I am mad her but I am not mad her?
I am 17 years old Last Friday My Dad and brother went on a trip for the weekend. So all weekend it has been just me and my Stepmom anyway Friday my stepmom wouldn't let me go with my boyfriend because refused to come inside to meet her. He just kept blowing the horn. Which annoyed me just as much as it annoyed her. My Stepmom went outside and told him leave. He started yelling and cussing at her. After he left he called me and told me to sneak out and meet him up the road. But I broke up with for being disrespectful to my stepmom. Because of my past actions my stepmom doesn't trust me that much she is watching me like hawk.she didn't believe that I blocked him and deleted his number so I gave her my phone so could see for herself. I also blocked and deleted him on Facebook. She was so worried about sneaking to meet him. She slept in my room Friday and Saturday night. I am trying heard to earn my parents trust back. She thought I was mad at her but I was mad at my ex boyfriend for disrespecting my stepmom.It was like was waiting for me to blame her. She kept explaining to why she wouldn't let me go with him. Friday night she thought I was sleep while she talking to my dad. She said was surprised her that I didn't give her a hard time the situation.
Help! I think my step mom keeps flirting with me..should I tell my father?
My dad married a really nice woman behind our backs two months ago. Me and my brother didn't even know he was dating. Recently me and my gf had to break our lease because I got fired. So she had to go stay back with her family and i had to go back to my dads. my dad is a truck driver and sometimes he is away from the house for days. Anyway, when I am around my step mom she is always extra nice. Offering to cook for me and make cookies. Wanting to watch movies together. She says she is just bored and lonely when my dad is gone and likes to have company. Well she always walks around me with a large t shirt on with her long legs and big boobs showing. The other day I had my bedroom door closed and she opened my door and asked me had i seen her blow dryer and then left my room door open. I thought nothing of it until I saw her come out of the bathroom with nothing but a towel on. Then another day I told her that we were having a pool party at my friends house and she asked if she could come. Is said yes and she asked could we stop at the store to get her a bathing suit. She picked out a two piece and I know she only did it to show off her big jugs to me. The whole time we were at the party she hung around me purposely showing off her boobs. I could tell because she kept pulling up her bra to get my attention. Then she says things like "You and your dad sure do work out...maybe i could come with you sometimes...your so fit" I told her once that I didn't think that was appropriate and she was like "Why not..it was a compliment" I feel so bad that she is doing this to my father but my father shouldn't leave her alone at home like this to temp me. I can't stop thinking about having sex with her. Seeing her with the tshirt on and the towel and then the two piece bathing suit was it for me and she knew what she was doing....i have a decision...should i tell my father about her slutty ways?