Am I wrong to be angry?
My mom passed away. In 2012. She owned her home and lived in one of the apartments. And my little sister. Lived downstairs. We all shared in caring. For my mom. When she was sick. When she died my little sister stayed with everything. For 6 years mom's apartment. Remained. Untouched. And my little sister said to me and mu older sister. That we will clean out the apartment. Together. And we can take. Some of my mom's belongings with us. But I just heard that my mom's apartment. Is empty. Where did all her stuff go. I don't care about the house or the money. I just wanted a few things from my mom I've waited 6 years. And now everything is gone. Am I wrong to lash out in anger towards my sister. My oldest sister is also. Angry. We feel that we been pushed out. And have no right to anything. Is it wrong. Just because she pays the the mortgage now. I'm suppose to not. Be angry about my mom's stuff cause they make me feel like. I'm not suppose to be angry
Is it wrong to be angry with your mother?
Lady, you need to relax.Things like these are a normal talk in every family. You're over rating everything. Just chill,I know it's difficult but give it a try.You see every single thing has a solution but because of our anger we often fail to figure it out. You understand, and have seen from what your mother have been through,so her outcome to your anger is quite obivious. Moreover, your possessiveness towards your kids is also right. Being a mother how she take cared of you, you're doing the same for your children. You firstly need to realise the fact that she brought you up, and it's not a small talk. Her experience is much more than your's. But the fact that contradicts is you being a mother know, and gaining the same.Rather than battling with your mom,you should work as one in order to brighten the life of your kids.Now it's all upto you, how smartly you deal with it. Firslty buy some patience for yourself. You may even spend some time in peace, out form home, in a park or anywhere you feel like. Let your anger get destroyed. Meditate. This will help you. Once you're done with it, take your mother along to some good place. A quite one. Where there's no one all around to disturb you two, then talk. Let your mother pour her heart out and do the same. Hold her hands and express gratitude, be thankful to her for all thay she did for you. Thereafter very politely and nicely explain what you wish from her regarding your kids. You should be sweet enough to convince her. Explain her that she is right, but sometimes too many cooks spoils the dish. Tell her that you want your kids to be independent, and sincere. The kind your mother raised you. Nothing is this hard,honey. Guve enough space and time to you and your mum.Your mum is nowhere wrong, it just happens. With you growing on you are forgetting that she is also growing old. All you need is to.fix things peacefully. Old beings are more childish than kids. So you've to look after 3 people,your twins along with your mum.All the very best. I know you're a strong lady and will surely rule over the trouble.Smile always!Good luck. :)God bless. :).
Why do people get angry when they are told they are wrong?
Many people spend their lives thinking that reality doesn’t apply to them - that things are different simply because they wish it.When they’re told that they’re wrong, they don’t ask “why?”They get offended. And insecure. And rebel against the very nature of reality.They get frustrated by the fact that you’ve called their bluff.Unfortunately, many people don’t want to think. They don’t want to make mistakes, or grow, or learn the truth about the world. They just want you to leave them alone, to let them enjoy the false reality they’ve erected. When they do that, you’re better off not bothering with them. Just scram. It’s something they need to discover on their own.Of course, you might have done something that made them angry.So be sure to look at how you have approached the situation, and whether you are partially to blame. It doesn’t absolve them of responsibility for getting angry… but it might not be entirely their fault.Make sure you didn’t call them out in front of others. Make sure they’re actually wrong, don’t just tell them that because you have a different viewpoint. Ask them how they came to their conclusion, learn their thought process. If there’s a flaw, you can help them find it. They’ll be more likely to accept the feedback in this form (though its still difficult for most).And if they do get angry… ask them, “Why?”
A customer is angry because he received the wrong order. He swears at you. What would you do?
I need help with this question A customer is angry because he received the wrong order. He swears at you. What would you do? # Tell him he is being rude and that he should calm down. # Ask a manager to handle the customer. # Tell him he is speaking rudely and walk away. # Ask another Team Member to talk to the customer. # Listen patiently and apologize. thank you
I get angry quickly.How i leave this bad habit.Pls pls help me?
i would suggest you start writing or talking to someone close. Baiscally you have alot of inner feelings held in for whatever reason, and they come out the second they can, and then your emotions get the best of you. You obviously dont express yourself as much as you would like, and need a GOOD friend or someone who are you able to just talk too about simple things throughout the day. For instance, if something upset you in the morning, vent it out to someone, because that emotion will be a bomb if kept in and eventually its got to explode. if talking to people is not an option, start writing or drawing, or listen to music, anyway to be able to release and vent out those feeling will be productive. I highly suggest talking or writing the most. Write anything, talk about the day, write a letter to yourself, a poem, or a short story. Its amazing what people can do when they learn to vent out their feelings in a healthy way. Also when you sense yourself getting angry or upset, close your eyes, empty your mind, and take DEEP breathes (in your mouth and out your nose, and breath deep into the bottom of your lungs), so deep that you can feel the oxygen flow through your entire body, when you do that, open your eyes and ask yourself, why is this upsetting you, why are you letting something so minute get in the way of living and enjoying your life, and why are you wasting time getting angry, when you can find the problem, solve it, and move on!! just try and imagine seeing yourself when you throw a fit, picture you throwing a fit, is that how you want to spend your precious time, or is that how you want to be seen?? life is wayy to short to get mad and do harm, once you learn how to relax and calm yourself, life goes smoothly =) good luck and please dont hit your brother