Is 18 weeks too late to get an abortion?
Ok..I just need someone to talk to and give me an opinion.I will be 21 in a few weeks this is my first pregnancy, im a college student and I work. I fell in love with the wrong guy and end up getting pregnant by him. I tryed to get abortions the first 3 months but it didn't workout. Also, he is very undecisive its his first child and he is scared, 1 minute he wants the baby then he wants to make an abortion appointment. When we actually make a abortion appointment he changes his mind. Its really a stressful situation for me because I have a supportive family that wants me to keep the baby and so does his family. Its just him being undecisive and not knowing what he wants to do. And i'm willing to do whatever decision he choose. After going through this with him for the last 4 months i'm just really wanting to give up, I mean i'm seeing a side of him I never seen before and as much as it hurts everyone i just want to give up and go get the abortion on my own and move on and end this chapter of my life. I mean I never had to go through nothing like this before in life and personally I don't have to and I don't want to. I'm just ready to have an abortion. Is it too late?
My ex boyfriend wants me back, but then ignores me. what should i do?
after 5 months he decides he wants me back, he messaged me on myspace and he told me that he cant get it off his mind...he feels torn inside...he said sorry for hurting me, and how he was being an idiot and really misses me. i said that he has to prove it to me that he wants me back. and so we started messaging each other. after the conversation died out he's been ignoring me for almost 3 weeks. i dont want to message him because he's the one thats suppose to be trying, not me. im so confused. i want to know what i should do.
Did you have to choose a career over having children?
Im 31 and going back to school to get my Bachelors Degree (more like forced). I understand this will better my chances at getting a job in Visual FX but I cant help but be upset at what I would be giving up... a baby. I have been wanting children for years now and I always hear the same excuses from my husband we cant afford it. YET that doesn't stop him from buying a flat screen tv, ps3, camera, computer, music instrument's, or moving us into a small condo for 2200 a month. Back to the issue I will be attending for 2 years and cant take a pregnancy leave since that will cancel out my loans. I'm afraid that once I find a job It wont be able to take a pregnancy leave for fear that my job may not be there when I return. I know thats illegal but i was fired from my last job because they thought I was pregnant and I wasn't. I just feel dead inside knowing that class starts in a few weeks and my husband still doesn't understand my feelings.