People say I'm pretty so why dont guys ever approach me? (pics included)? ?
Hey Amy You are indeed a pretty girl as described by your friend. As a guy myself, sometimes it's hard for me to approach a pretty gurl due to... : 1. "Awww...she's darn sexy n cute! But surely her cute boyfriend is somewhere near, tagging along. Competition? No, thank you" 2. "Owhh look at that hot chick! I'd like to have her number but she'd surely be choosy over my not-so-handsome-looks. Why waste my time?" So Amy, the right kinda guy will approach you when the time is right. It's all about time...my lovely friend. Patience and don't stop giving out that naughty smile of yours to everybody! ps- is that fat cat your pet? I go krazy over cats withh personality. Cuddle her/him for me if it's yours!
If a boy says ‘hey’ to a girl, what should a girl reply?
If a boy is hitting on a girl then the main thing the girl needs to keep in mind is that there is nothing she can do that is wrong. You already won the game. You are golden. To him, even if you do something awkward or stupid it will just be cute and endearing. You can do whatever you want and you get to make all the choices.That said, I think that girls usually don’t see it coming, and so it’s hard to make choices in the 0.2 seconds you have after a “hey”. But no matter what you DID when that happened, you still get to do whatever you want later after you had time to think and figure it out. So:You aren’t into it. Do nothing. Say “hey” back and other polite stuff. If he starts to get creepy then seek out more advice.You want to know more about him. You can do anything you want (like I said), but if knowing that isn’t helping your roll and you need suggestions, then the answer is “make small talk and at some point say “I should get your phone number.””. Sadly, I’m awful at small talk so you’ll have to ask someone else how to do that.
Why do some people never greet first and always wait for others to say hi? Should I greet such people first all the time?
It is impolite to enter an occupied space without greeting those whom are already there. People will arrive sporadically from going to 7–11 or to a party or a bank. When you arrive it will be usually one or 2 persons greeting all not all greeting one.I know how annoying this can be when there is a discomfort forced upon you because someone else is not being polite or even respectful.If this were me, as it has been before, I won’t think twice about greeting someone who failed to follow proper etiquette Until it just becomes ridiculous and then I would have to just walk by you for 2 days and on day 3 I would Ask if they realize what they are doing. Describe it and move forward.
Ladies, why do girls say it's harder being a girl than it is being a guy?
There are so many advantages girls get in this world that guys don't. Here are just a few i could think of off the top of my head: 1. free drinks and free nightclub cover 2. dont have to be expected to work 3. can have any job and still get a bf. (no girl will want to date a guy who's a barista at starbucks) 4. can listen to w/e music she wants (guys cant listen to softer music without being though of as gay) 5. dont have to get a guy any gifts 6. girls get to dictate when sex happens 7. can make a guy stop watching sports and pay attention to her, and she can have a marathon of The Bachelorette without the guy bothering her 8. she can shop with his credit card 9. she can get drunk without worrying about who's going to walk her home 10. only her opinions matter in wedding planning 11. dont have to have a fancy car to get dates 12. Girls can wear w/e they want while guys are criticized for many different things they wear 13. legal courts favor women in divorce 14. can get away with many things because everyone thinks your'e the victim 15. can cheat and make the guy look like the bad guy 16. can use men's bathrooms 17. get chivalry from men 18. dont have to ask anyone out 19. dont have to lead conversations 20. can accuse men of being pervs whenever they want (accuse men of being pervs if they join yoga classes) 21. dont have to spend money on guys 22. get immediate respect while guys have to earn theirs 23. doesn't need a high paying job or a job at all to get dates 24. can say "girls are always right" or "it's just the way it is" or "it's in our DNA, deal with it" to justify every argument So how is it harder being a girl? It really sounds like they have it made and have many things working in their favor
Why is it that some people just don't say hi unless you say hi first?
I’m a person like this. Depending on who it is, I don’t say hi to people unless they say it to me. Short answer, because I just don’t want to. Let me explain.I considered myself an extrovert, but I also don’t like people in general. I have my group of friends and I’ll be friendly if the situation requires, but I don’t like being super friendly with just anybody. Not to say I’ll be rude, I just don’t like treating everybody like my best friend. Here’s my best example. I work at a supermarket and I won’t say hi to every employee as I walk through the store. I don’t know everybodies name. If I accidentally catch someone’s eye, I’ll give a smile and nod. I only know the names of the managers and people I interact with and I try to keep it that way. But I’m not rude. If somebody asks me a question I’ll answer with a smile. I’m polite to customers and help them to find things or answer questions. In general, I’m of the mindset that I’m there to work and not make friends. When I worked as a waitress at a restaurant of course I tried to appear happier and smile more as the job demanded me to appear smiley and happy.Now if we’re talking about perfect strangers out on the street, I definitely avoid making eye contact. I don’t owe strangers anything, especially if I’m busy or in a rush. Smiling and saying hi to everybody is exhausting.If we’re at a party and I don’t know somebody, I might avoid saying hi first because I’m shy and I don’t really know how to make new friends. Or maybe I’m in a bad mood, or just tired.To sum all that up, people seem to get insulted when somebody won’t say hi to them first. It really isn’t about you though, and I mean that in the nicest way possible. People who don’t say hi unless approached have their own reasons for it and usually have nothing to do with anybody else specifically.
Is the word "guys" gender-neutral? Is it appropriate for a male to address a group of women or mixed gender people as "guys" (as in "hey guys!") or refer to such a group as "you guys"?
Language is very much culturally dependent. This answer applies to my age/regional/socio-economic group and many others within the US, but might not apply to others.People understand "guys" in the second person plural to be gender neutral. Using "hey guys" and "you guys" (or even "guys" as short hand when in the second person) is use to address all men, all women, or mixed-gender groups. There is no issue with using it, therefore.However (and I'm guessing this is why you've heard that it's not politically correct), "guys" is not gender neutral in the third person. Just think about how your brain reacts to these statements:"I talked to a few guys at the mothers group.""We need to hire some new guys as nurses.""I saw this one guy driving and she was out of control."Did you hear "guy" as a man? Did you think the sentence looked funny at all? If so, that's because "guys" isn't gender neutral for you in the third person.This is why it's not politically correct to say things like:"Have you talked to the IT guys yet?""Startups are best with at least two guys involved."
Why do adults always say I'm pretty but guys don't?
Everyone is unique,beautiful and special in their own way! Anywayz, well i dont think guys will come out and say,"Oh my gosh,you are really pretty!" I mean guys that age which i can relate im also 13, some guys are mature and some arent yet, so some may lie and maybe tease you but they wont admit ur pretty, like u could be pretty but they will come to you ssoon, trust me!