How do you tell someone you don’t like them after your first date?
My advice is to be careful about dating someone you know (especially a close friend or close friend of a friend), unless you are at least somewhat attracted to them, and are fairly sure that you have compatible interests and values. That way, you can avoid hurting someone who you care about and/or work with or go to classes with etc.; and that way you don't burn bridges unnecessarily.If it's a blind-date, just be honest. Don't waste each other's time.If it's an aquaintance or friend and you didn't follow that advice about dating these people, here's what you do…If you're not attracted to them, avoid them for awhile if you must; but don't tell them that they aren't attractive! The only exception to this is if they straight-up ask you what went wrong, then you must tell them why. Yes, avoidance is a little shady…but you could really hurt someone by implying that after going on a date with them, you noticed that they just aren't the bees knees! 100% complete honesty isn't the best policy right now. Any lack of spark at the get-go should've been a clue not to go on a date with them, and you should've said no to begin with. Now, you'll look like a jackass if you tell them that you aren't attracted to guys/girls that have big feet or a nervous tick. Tell them you can't date anyone for awhile because?? Then, don't date for awhile.If they're a jackass and you didn't realize it until later…tell them they're a jackass! Or, tell them that their views/behavior/lifestyle etc. isn't compatible with yours. You can even say sorry about any mixed signals etc. if you want to. Pay your part of the dinner check, cab fare, etc., say goodbye, and go your own way.Just treat them the way that you would want to be treated if you were the one being rejected. I mean, would you really want someone to tell you that they don't like you? Be creative if you must, but most importantly- Be Kind.Peace.
How do you tactfully tell someone their teeth are yellow?
Regarding photographs: Professional photographers can whiten teeth with photoshop. The pictures are not the problem. To advise the young couple, take them aside and tell them that dental health affects total health. Studies have shown a relationship between gum disease and heart disease. They believe the bacteria travel to the heart through the blood vessels. Dental color is cosmetic, so don't focus on that. Brushing and flossing are important for dental health. You might want to add that some people (my mother) swear that once you lose a tooth, the others come down like ducks in a shooting gallery. And that's with dental care. The best way to keep you teeth is to fight the first attack on their integrity: Brush to avoid cavities and floss to avoid gum disease. Wish the young couple luck for their future and decades of love together.
Do you think it's rude to tell someone they have something in their teeth?
That is absolutely fine.. to tell a co worker.. ''xxx call her by her name.. and say.. excuse me.. you do have some lipstick on your teeth... or you do have something between your teeth.. Looks like a bit of spinach leaf from lunch just now.. and smile and say.. I thought it's better I tell you than others notice it when you talk.. and the person male .. with the spinach or female with the lipstick will be grateful.. if one person sees that it's not so bad but if a lot of people see that... I much would prefer to be told also and it's the same with them.. or the woman who got her period and has a red mark on her trousers.. she will want to know.. then she can find a bathroom quickly and hopefully also get some tampons there.. and maybe put a scarf around.. or wash it out.. rather than have to walk outside and thousands of people see that stain getting bigger.. xx
How to politely let someone know you're not interested?
It's difficult to address an issue that someone hasn't even brought forth yet--meaning I can't come out and say, "Hey, I just want to be friends," when the person hasn't been so blatant about their intentions. However, it's clear they want something more because they're: constantly trying to engage me in conversation, asking for my number, sitting with me, etc. I attempt to show my lack of interest in as polite a manner as possible but I don't think it's quite as clear as I've been hoping. I don't have a problem being blunt but I'd rather not do that and hurt their feelings. Conversely, how do you make your interest in someone clear without coming out and saying so? Thanks in advance.
Does it bug you when someone calls you "sir" or "ma'am"?
I know they're being polite but it's just irritating to me when someone approaches me with "hello sir" or says "yes sir". I'm not your up tight boss who watches you like a hawk or a cop who just pulled you over lol.
Do you tell them if a person has a rip in their pants?
So the other day, I was walking into a grocery store and saw a girl about my age with a huge rip in her jeans, right at the butt. I mean not just a tiny hole, a huge horizontal rip right across the cheek. You could see everything, including the fact that she was not wearing full coverage underwear. I thought to myself, "I wonder if she knows her pants are ripped. If it was me, I would want to know!" so, I decided to tell her just to make sure she wouldn't be embarrassed. Descreetly I whispered to her "do you know your pants are ripped in the back?" She glared at me and said in a snotty voice, "Um, Yeah." I was like "ok sorry! I just wanted to make sure." I thought maybe she couldn't afford new jeans but then I saw her get into a nice SUV....so then I started thinking maybe she had her jeans ripped for...work..if you know what I mean. So I guess my question is, was I wrong to let her know? Is this a new style that I am unaware of?
Can I tell a girl she is beautiful?
Hells yeah! Tell ladies they are beautiful all the time. You don’t need a reason or an occasion for it. Just let it be casual. If you run into each other in the passing, smile, wave or throw up a brow and just be like “Hey. You look beautiful today.”Plenty of other more less on the nose compliments are also just fine if you don’t really know this young lady well enough to call her up and be like Joey Tribbiani’s classic “Hey. How you doing?”. Some of them are as follow,“You look nice today”“I love your dress/outfit/specific name of garment”“I love your hair”“Your eyes look beautiful today”Try to make to make it tactful, when not a lot of people are within ear shot because you don’t want to embarrass the young lady that the object of your pubescent affections or worse yet put yourself in a decided disadvantage before you even start dating or know for sure if you wanna.So yeah. That’s about it. And don’t sweat the big stuff if she doesn’t swoon immediately. Girls in HS are about a just little less awkward and figuring things out as well as discovering their sexuality. SO if she just smiles or giggles then that’s a good sign. Find a nice opportunity to talk and get to know what she likes and who she is and if that is the girl you want to date. If she does not respond or looks away or in any indicates she is uncomfortable with your attention just back off and give her space. You can say “Sorry if I made you upset” later on another day. But just leave her be for then.But yeah if she responds by shying away just laugh a little and say something like “Oh you break my heart!” Just keep it fun and lighthearted.Telling a girl she looks beautiful is not weird. Just smile. And say it from the heart.All the best casanova!