I am 28, Married working as PO in Indian public sector bank. My job kills me. Does quitting make sense?
At first i was engineer.i have 0 interest in coding.Mine was computer science..the day I got degree from college I left the town..I was placed in a company..I didn’t join..why?because I thought if I didn’t enjoyed studying computer science for 4 years how will I enjoy working as a software engineer for the rest of my life..I quit..then what to do..I was always interested in Gov job..I prepared for 3 month..and I got to crack many exams but final selection was in 2 bank..SBI and IDBI..I joined SBI..after working for 3 years at SBI I realised that I can influence people to do better ..people will listen to me ..when every staff in my bank refuse to do some legitimate work people looks at me as last resort..I like helping people..then I realise why not make profession of helping people to get out of their misery..i start looking for the option and then I find becoming IAS,IPS is the best thing that can directly help people..this was the best shot..I took risk again..at age of 29 I resigned from SBI and now preparing for upsc..so take risk in your life..if you succeed then you can lead the people,if fail you can guide the people…you get life for once only..do whatever you want, so that you never get a chance for compunction that what would have my life been if I had done that one thing..
Hi everyone I need a quick response!!!!!?
I disagree with Caroline that you should ALWAYS be formal. Businesses are also looking for a cultural fit. I am professional but, informal. If people demanded Mr's and Mrs's, I wouldn't fit in there so, I act naturally and let them judge me based on my abilities and personality. "Soft skills," are growing more and more important. You shouldn't fake yours. If you're more formal, by all means write that way but, being formal is not an absolute. I would reply with something like: Hi again, Ethel! Thursday, May 28 at 11:00 is much better for me. Thanks for being flexible and I'll see you then! Candance
I'm 28, high paying job, no debt. Why should/shouldn't I move out of parent's place?
You should move out of your parents’ place because - I’m assuming - you want to grow up and be fully adult at some point in your life. I’m also assuming - based on my personal experience being a parent of adult kids - that they would like to have lives of their own at some point.I’m not sure how your parents look at this so I can’t speak for them. So I’ll speak for myself and my wife.It’s nice to be able to help your kids out - especially as they’re getting started in life. But there comes a point at which it’s time for the kids to be on their own - to become fully realized adults - and that’s not going to happen if you’re still sleeping in your childhood bed, in your childhood room, in your parents’ house. There comes a time when you need to be fully responsible for yourself and for your life - and that won’t happen as long as you’re living in your parents’ house. A parent owes it to their children to kick them out of the house so they can become a true adult - not an overaged, well-employed kid.It’s also nice to be able to enter the post-parenting years. To have the house to yourself, to not have to take care of someone else, to have time for just you and your spouse. It’s nice to have fewer mouths to feed, fewer people eating the food and dirtying the dishes and using the gas and electric (not to mention the hot water) - to have, for the first time in a few decades, precious time alone with your spouse. You’d be surprised at the number of marriages that are stressed by the constant needs and stresses of parenting - believe it or not, there are a lot parents who need the post-parenting time to renew their marriage. Your continuing presence keeps that from happening.The other thing is…you’re leaching off your parents and it really ought to stop. You may be paying rent and sharing the costs of the house - but you’re still leaching off of your mom and dad. You’re taking their time, their attention, their hot water, a space in the driveway, a room in the house, and so forth. Do they want to get a smaller house? Do they want to turn your room into a hobby room? Do they just want to be able to have a quiet evening to themselves? They can’t as long as you’re there.So - you say that you have no debt, a good job, and you’re nearly 30. It’s time for you to start your life as an independent adult - and it’s time to let your parents start their lives as a middle-aged couple who are past parenting.
How to convince my brother to get a job .. change his life... Don't tell me to kick him out pls?
my brother is 28 i am 24, i work and support him and my mom financially. My mom was always responsible and helped us greatly but my father ruined her life, her career, everything, then he left with a girl who is younger than me Anyway she works now at minimum wage after being a professional for years and she is responsible with money, savings etc she tries to help .... but the real problem is my brother he's 28 like I said. dropped out of high school NEVER worked a day in his life My dad NEVER gave him any responsibilities or directions in life Does not have 1 single friend Does not have girlfriend and does want to have one until he becomes "rich" puts his WHOLE LIFE on hold until he "becomes rich" And how he plans to do so? He claims that he will find the cure to HIV and he had been obsessed with it for the past 10 years. Now mind you he does not even have a H.S. diploma i am not against his ambitions. I just tell him "get something reasonable for the time being to "secure" your future and try to fulfill your dream of 10 years of finding an HIV cure on the side" But he wouldn't listen In fact you can't even have a conversation with him about it he refuses to hear that there is any other possibility but that It's taking a toll on me , I am miserable. Most girls my age worry about themselves only. It's a huge burden on me to see him depressed and see my mom depressed because of him He already had been admitted to ER due to abnormal blood pressure although he's skinny. He made one suicidal attempt in the past. And when he was a teen, he used to steal from my parents... So please, please don't tell me kick him out. He won't make it past the main street of our town without either getting lost, killing himself, or becoming a criminal Please help me what should I do I feel so hopeless right now. I can't do this alone anymore
My husband wants to quit his job and pursue his dream?
Hi all. Thank you in advance for taking the time to give me your input. So here go's. My husband is 28 and has been working full time for 6 years at a job he hates. He is in sales and always does really well and makes a good living to support our family of four. Every time there's an open management position he apples and gets passed up. He's convinced it's because the managers choose their "buddies" to fill positions. For as long as I've been with my husband his dream is to become a science teacher. He has currently been in collage part time pursuing his degree. He goes to school two times a weeks and takes two classes and has 4.0 grade point average. When he's home his noes is always in his books. He always says at that rate it will take him years to finish collage. He always says" I wish I could just quit my job And go to school full time" Well now that there is another management position open at his job he's thinking of quitting his job if he gets turned down. He asked his mother if our family of four can move into her 3 bedroom house. My crazy mother in law practically said yes. His "plan" is for our family to live off my work salary. Which is only 25,000 a year. I would be working full time. Without having to pay rent our monthly expenses are about 1700. I bring home a little less then that and told him money would be extremely tight. He suggested we get "financial assistance" for food and stuff. Right when he told me his idea I just wanted to cry and crawl into a hole. We have two little girls one is 2 and a half and my other one is 2 weeks old. I feel like we're pretty content financially right now and I am very happy where we are in life. He on the other hand says I a being selfish because ( I am perfectly happy with things the way there are now and would absolutely live my left exactly the way it is today) he said he has this dream and is not happy going to work everyday just to bring home a paycheck. So we probably would be able to swing it financially he would try and get financial aid for collage and we would be living rent free. I don't want to hold him back from doing this, should I just stand by him and make this move? Or should I fight for him to find a better option. I don't know what to do. If we do this his mother is going to drive me nuts. She's always trying to micromanage how I care for my kids. They live is a mess of a house and I am a neat freak. We will be cramped into two very small rooms. Am I being a baby about all this?
What is the career scope?? please do tell?
Hi Srishti (Universe) born on a Saturday Career You love competition and new ventures and thus are prone to change your career often. You should choose a career which allows you diversity in work and an opportunity for advancement, therefore discouraging you from floating from job. You can find all this in LAW. but you can do lot of things. You could play the part of an explorer admirably, both in real life and on the films. You would be far better as a surgeon than as finance consultant. At any job where skill in making things was needed, you would succeed. Engineering may be cited as such a job. There are many occupations at sea which would suit you extraordinarily well. Love Matters There is no doubt that you should marry, if you are to enjoy the life that fits your natures best. Solitude and loneliness are death to you, and given suitable companionship, you are a very charming person. You want to marry young one. For this, you should choose someone who is cheerful and entertaining as a partner. You require a home that is tastefully arranged and which reveals nothing of a sordid nature. You may have many love affairs before you find a right partner Mangal Dosha is present neither in Lagna Chart nor in Moon Chart.
What job does a 28 year old with no experience look for?
Hi there, you know what, even how old or young are you, if you are just persistent and sincere in looking for a job then it is not impossible for you to find one. All you have to do is you determine your skills and interests. We must remember that in choosing a career, it is very important that you have interest and you enjoy what you are doing since you will not be able to succeed if your heart is not happy and not focused on your career. If you are not happy with your career, then it would be better if you will find new. Anyway, you can check this site acareer4me.com/ it will give you some ideas on what are the real descriptions of each career you knew. Who knows? You might find the career that best fits your personality.
I am 28 years old and lost in my life? I do not have a career that I love and feel like I'm failing. What can I do to figure out what exactly I want to do with my life?
Come closer young padawan, let me share with you a secret. Shh. Don’t tell ANYONE. Do you see all these people giving advice, they have no idea what the hell they are doing either!I know, crazy, right? To read all their answers, you’d think they had it all figured out, but just like you, they have no idea, even the ones who have an idea, have no idea.Life is a lot about luck and momentum.If you ask 100 people if any of their plans worked out exactly like they expected, you’ll find that 100 of them say…wait for it…no!10 of them will say they are happy about how said plan worked out. 10 will say it was a disaster. 80 of them will say yes and no, but they made the best of it. 1 of them will say they were never good at counting and 1 of them will say it was very close and almost what they expected.This is just for various little plans. If you ask those same 100 if they are where they planned to be when they were 28 (or 48), unless they are still 28 (or 48), they’ll just laugh.We can’t predict the future, we can’t predict how others will act, we can’t even consistently predict how we’ll act.Life is about living, if it was about being happy we’d use a word more like happying. Focus on living, warts and all.Look, you can say you want to marry a person who is x, y, and z, but the reality is that you’ll run across maybe 100–200 people in your entire life who you even would have the opportunity to explore a relationship with. Of them you might date 10 of them. Likely all 10 will result in a break up.You can say I want to do this with my life, but then the actual opportunities that you have will be that.This is why the wise focus on attitude and emotions. Success in life is a lot about just dealing with all the shit life has in store for you, good and bad.Two things you can do now: 1/ Try a lot of different things (especially giving yourself permission to fail). 2/ Focus on momentum.Life is best lived with a three year perspective. A year is too short for anything meaningful and five years is enough to see if the momentum you are building is working out.To read you’d think everyone knew what they wanted to do since birth, but they didn’t and they don’t.Wait until they lose their jobs, their health, their relationships and suddenly they’ll admit things weren’t as clear as they advised and they’ll be over to Quora asking similar questions.:)
Hi m ANGANA BARUAH..BORN ON 28/01/1985 WANT TO KNOW WHETHER I WILL ACHIEVE SUCCESS IN MY UPSC EXAM IN 2015?
I WANT TO PREPARE FOR MY UPSC EXAM WHICH IS THE TOUGHEST EXAM IN INDIA.M DYEING TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS.MY PERSONAL LIFE IS HAZARDOUS.BORN IN INDIA.PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT IS THERE IN MY DESTINY.M MARRIED.I WAS WORKING.BUT LEFT THE JOB DUE TO THE EXAM.PLEASE BRIEF MY FUTURE AHEAD.I HAVE A SON.