Ugly in high school but good looking after it, do such things ever really happen or are they fictional?
Yeah, it does happen. It happened to me. In Middle School, I was ugly. I had pimples/scabs, I was tall and awkward looking, always wore my hair in a pony and wore sweatshirts over jeans. I heard comments about myself often, mostly about me looking ugly. I changed a little each year of HS. I started wearing my hair down, worked on the pimples and with every year, my body filled out. I have hips and chest yet am fit. I put on a little eyeliner and mascara as well. I'm in my second year of college and literally, anytime I go out, mostly when it's walking home from the college, there are guys who honk their horns, hang out of and yell out of their cars and slow down their car. Just yesterday, while walking home, some creep passed by me in his car 4 times(downside of looking better). I get looks every now and then from girls as well- usually the "appreciating another girl's looks" sort of thing but every now and then someone is "bicurious" for me. And, to add, the way people treat me is a lot easier than when I was in Middle School(not only referring to other students but adults as well). People DO treat those who look good better than those who look bad. The downside is the amount of creeps you get(I guess you wouldn't get this so much as a guy) and also, the way some people(mainly shy people) act nervous as though you're too cool...I've seriously had a couple other students brown-nose me. Yes, this is no longer HS and people still have social classes.
Guys bully me because I'm good-looking?
Okay, before you accuse me of trolling or anything (I know how inflammatory the topic sounds) I want to ensure you know I'm utterly serious. Okay. I'm 17 years old, in my second last year at high school. I'm 6'3, long blonde hair, and without wishing to sound like an arrogant douche, I'm often told about how handsome I am. I'm not popular but I'm not a loser either, and most of the popular guys bully me and call me a fa9 etc. They're like "lmao, your huge lips are perfect for b!owjobs" or "your eyes are stupidly big you freak", "your chin looks ridiculous" etc. I mean, it doesn't really affect my self-confidence because girls compliment me, but it pisses me off that people are so rude to me. I don't know if it's because I'm very un-confrontational, I never hit anyone or anything, so they think they can do what they like without consequences. But seriously, it pisses me off. Loads of guys, practically everyone who I'm not friends with seems to like to take the piss. It's only ever guys, girls flirt with me and talk to me. Like, I went on chatroulette with a friend once (and never will again) and all the men/boys I saw gave me the finger, called me a fag or a "pretty boy" and hurled insults at me. What should I do? I don't like being bullied because of what's supposed to be a good thing. Most of the guys ostracise me, and it gets me down.
Do girls in high school only care about looks?
well im a freshman and all trough middle and my high school year i have not found a girl makes me jealous that my friends are with pretty girls and i am not. Im not the best looking guy or the ugliest im just "not cool" im not nerdy im just a normal guy. I dont wear holister use the best phones like the new music because im not a sell out. its just that girls wont approach me. And what i think is that i cant get any because they probably dont like me for looks. im not a jerk im nice but i dont know why i dont get any of these girls no they are not shy the girls are pretty outgoing im the only one that's all lonely in class. i Want a pretty girl to be with me in good and bad times.
I'm a really good looking guy but cant get any girls?
ok so Im a really good looking guy, I've been told so many times by a lot of women of all ages and races and even by men like family members, friends, etc not in a homosexual way though, girls stare at me wherever I go and all of that, I'm also very smart i do really well in school, anyway my good looks do not even help me at all because when it comes to getting a girlfriend I fail miserably, the only girls I could go out with are really unattractive and It would never work out for me because I simply cant go out with a girl Im not attracted to , being good looking backfires on me and i get nothing not even a decent normal girl and it surprisingly started to affect my self-esteem now because i never had a girlfriend and I'm about to turn 20, also I've seen so many disgusting looking guys get really hot girls or a lot of girlfriends i've also seen the biggest losers and assholes get nice cute girls and i get nothing and it makes me feel like biggest failure and i feel so humiliated because how can a smart good looking guy get no girls but an ugly *** guy can?? It's being good looking a curse and not a good thing?? im not the best when it comes to talking to girls but im not bad either, im also a comic and very funny guy always love to make everybody laugh, that's one of my best qualities besides the good looks, I make girls laugh a lot but I still fall short, im also aware that there are other guys out there that really know how to talk to girls but they are usually so ugly! but however they get girls! how can just that one thing work for them??? Im really really confused! any help would be much appreciated thanks!
Why Are High School Guys Jerks?
My High School is really only into the whole "sex, drugs, getting high, getting drunk" scene. But I'm not like that AT ALL. I really liked this one guy during the school year, but he totally laughed when I asked him to Homecoming [through a note, I was a Freshman]. His friends & him laughed and ripped it up. It was so hurtful and all the other guys just want a girl who is beautiful and easy. And I'll admit, I'm not very pretty and I have morals in life. But I wish one guy from my or any HS would see me as more than a piece of *** and would respect me and like me because they think I'm beautiful. UGH! Why do [most] HS guys have to be such thick pigs?!
How do i make highschool suck less?
I spent my entire high school years hating it. Looking back I realized I had a good time and didn't know it. Here's a revelation....every period of your life will most likely be one you hate for different reasons. If it's not school then it's probably going to be every job you will ever have. So you can go on hating it or just accept that with the "job" comes some responsibility and work. Get that stuff done and enjoy the rest of it. Yea, studying is hard but the dance after school was fun wasn't it? See what I mean? You can make the most of it or sit around and feel sorry for yourself. Your choice.