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Can bad grades ruin my future?

Yes, bad grades can ruin your future.But only if you are a perfectionist and can’t cope with not being perfect.Some people have a hard time to learn because they can’t do better. Think IQ range 80–90 for example. They will not get perfect grades, they struggle, they don’t go to college nor university. They have a future and it’s not ruined by their grades. It’s just that they won’t apply for certain jobs because it does not fit with them.The majority are perfectly decent people who make an honest living. Some of them will later in life seek additional education and end up in high paying jobs. Others will start their own business and succeed, they know the struggle and how to overcome it.Bad grades? If you get bad grades because you were lazy, it was not the grades that ruined your future, it was your laziness. Otherwise, you did your best and it did not result in the highest marks possible. Learn, improve and accept that you won’t get straight A’s all the time.

I'm 17 and I have a ruined life, bad past and no future.?

bro, you are only 17. its not too late to do the things you want to do in life. you dont have to get married and have kids soon. You have another 10 years until you might wanna even consider doing that.

yes i felt the same way as you did at 17. i didnt want to turn 18 because i was afraid of growing up. and you know what? you grow up when you want to. not because of some magic age. so dont worry about it.

you have time. plenty of time to be young still.

I screwed up my junior year of high school. Have I ruined my future?

Honestly, no.It’s easy to get caught up in the high school bullshit. More specifically the dreaded “junior year”, where your grades actually “matter”, and everything you do (clubs, teams, community service) will be reported to colleges and “determine your future”.Although junior year is important, your final GPA is cumulative of your underclassman and upperclassman grades. If you do well your senior year, and have done well in the past, colleges will recognize this. Not to mention, if you throw a couple of clubs, varsity letters and community service hours, they’ll see you as a more attractive candidate. I would focus my attention on extracurricular activities in order o strength your resume past academic performance. Maybe write a book?Kidding. You’re probably fine. And not concerning college, you will wind up at a place where you belong. And certainly, college does not entirely lead to a spectacular future and wealth and success. I won’t give examples, you’ve heard the stories.Don’t let the high school rumors and bullshit get you down. Colleges genuinely look for character, not only academic performance, depending on where you apply. Don’t stress it. Strength your resume in places where you can improve and build from there. What is done, is done.

What do you do when you have completely ruined your life?

Using this horrible analogy, your life is a bowl, the universe (wathcamacallit) fills the bowl with experiences.When you view your life as ruined, the bowl had fallen and is now broken in pieces.What do you do?Pick up the pieces and mend them with gold. There is actually such thing in the world, it's called Kintsugi.So how do you apply this? Ask yourself this question, "What is golden to me? What is the most exciting thing I would like to do right this moment?" And you go do that.Once you've mend your life, this bowl of yours will be UNIQUE, there will not be any other bowl - broken or not - that has the pattern like yours.This is why kintsugi is so beautiful:  They are all the same, and yet they are all different. Sounds like us human yet? :)More on ruined life, go read up on Stephen Hawking, and how motor neuron disease slowly "traps" him in his body.In Kintsugi's terms, his bowl is almost made fully out of gold now.He can't even talk! Yet... look at how bright (or golden) he is.May you find inspiration from him.All is not lost so long your heart still beats.Be a kintsugi, my friend.

I'm planning to join Kota next year for my 12th. I'm honestly worried about the food. How is life at Kota?

Congrats , another one going to make his future or ruining it. I am not here to disappoint you . So seriously speaking food is not a problem for all . Join a good mess having good quality food and hygiene. Try 3-4 mess and then decide . Do not go for tiffin system if its not from your PG house kitchen ( if you are staying in one).Now about staying . Prefer PG upon hostel . Personal experience . Now friends . Choose your friends wisely. Bads ones can really ruin your future . Family . Do not stop them from visiting you . Tell them to atleast come once in a month if possible. It will lighten your mood and helps in concentrate in studies .Overall , I want to say life there is quite good . You will enjoy it. But choose your options wisely . Good Luck .

Will my well-endowed boyfriend "ruin" me for future guys?

it won't ruin it. it will spoil you though. after something that hits every nerve and spot inside you anything less will just be an appetizer

Severe depression due to strict controlling parents who have ruined my future, considering suicide?

I am an 18 year old, almost done with his first year of college and boy oh boy have I had it rough.

I have parents who have ruined my life, they have ruined my future and still continue to do so. I do not have any means to support myself, I do not have any way of earning money, I live in a poor brokedown town, and I am severely depressed to the point I am considering suicide.

My parents have the money but could not raise me in a decent high school district. They made me go to high school with a bunch of hood rats who often disrupted class to the point we never learned anything and when I told them about what happened at school they laughed and said I was having delusions. The high school I went to had no means of getting a kid into a decent college, it had no resources at all, I simply had no chance at a decent university.

My piece of crap parents made me go to the local university where I am at now and miserable, made me live at home. Worst of all, my piece of crap dad wouldn't let me pick my major, they are paying for college so they can pull a guilt bomb on me at the end, they won't me apply for scholarships. My dad made me major in something extremely tough, don't even know why but I had no say in what I could major in.

I don't know WHEN THESE LEECHES WILL GET OUT OF MY LIFE so I have been thinking about suicide. I don't know what to do, I am hopeless, I feel like death is happier than the miserable life god has put me under with these demons. I am really thinking about suicide because I have no other alternative, what can I do?

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