14 year old cousin lost virginity to a 19 nearly 20 year old? (HELP)?
My strong advice would be to try to talk to your cousin about it. From my point of view her relationship can only end badly. However, there have been larger age gaps that have ended with long and happy marriages. Ideally, you should scope the guy out. Hang out with the two of them. He sounds like a douche and he probably is, but he may also genuinely love your cousin. People seem to forget that not so long ago people were getting married and starting families around the age of 14. I don't necessarily condone a relationship like this, but who am I to tell them who they are allowed to have feelings for? Your duty, if you want to get involved, is to make sure your cousin is as safe as possible. This guy is "creepy" by many people's standards, but he may have your cousins best interests in mind, too. If you want a simpler answer, your primary concern is the safety of your cousin. Happiness is secondary. Would you rather have her alive and pissed off at you or pregnant/kidnapped/dead? Talk to her and if she won't see reason take it to her parents. Let them take it to the authorities.
Im scared to see my cousin again (long but please read all of it)?
hes never touched me in any sexual way other than that day at the pool and i dont think he meant to at all. and im not scared of him its just i dont want him to think that im attracted to him or for him to get attracted to me. im positive he would never hurt me. hes not like that at all. and i dont want to think he likes me that way at all. and that night with his friend he was drunk he does stupid things when hes drunk he kicked in a cop shed one night and flipped his car a few times. and when he says he loves me he doesnt just say it in mid conversation he says it when we are saying good bye he will hug me and say "love you" that's it. sorry i dint clear that up
I caught my cousin spying while im taking a shower!!!?
Im so PISSED! MAD! and I want to cry! Our bathroom has this little window and my back was facing it (i was completely naked) when i turned around i saw someone quickly move away in the window. And i heard someone move on the other side of the wall. It sounded like someone getting down from a chair. I quickly got dressed and ran to see if my cousin was in his room. and he wasn't. We are the only two left in the house so im sure it was him. And he really was behind the bathroom. When i got out of the bathroom he was watching tv acting tired like he just got out of bed. He's around 17 and im 19. I want him out of the house! but i can't tell my parents...If i tell them, they will surely confront him. And what if he denies it all? How can i give him a hint that i caught him? and I want him out? i can't do confrontation. HELP!
My Cousin Likes Me I Think...& I Like Her Too...?
Ok lets see. It sounds like it is possible but she is young. Is she your fist cousin or like and 2nd and 3rd. Honestly that is how me and my bf started out before we decided to date and now we have been together 3 1/2 years. You guys could just be really really close and its comforting to have someone to talk to but to me it does kinda sound like you both like each other. It's not a good idea to date your first cousin but you can't help who you like. Oh and to others he is talking about liking her not marriage! It has been proven that children that come from parents that are related do have birth defects but that's not always true. you really need to just step back for a second and evaluate the situation. If you really like her and think she likes you then in one of those long conversations you need to bring it up and see what she has to say. Just say look you made such and such joke the other day about you being my substitute girlfriend and I was just wondering if you meant anything by it cause I really do like talking to you and I am not sure if its just that or if maybe I like you and I wanted to know how you feel about that. keep in mind though that if you guys do decide to date that she is not at the age of content yet so just take it easy. Good luck and ignore the ignorance they don't know any better. :)
What are some of the best ways to start a conversation with a girl?
One of the most common mistakes I observe over and over is good guys who turn crazy as soon as they talk to an attractive woman. The best method for starting a conversation and approaching a woman is to keep in mind that women are human. Hot or not, we want to be seen as normal human beings.Walk over to her with confidence and slow movements.Moving slowly decreases your chances of bumping into something and it exudes more confidence. Also make sure you approach her more from the side than from the front – it’s less threatening.Concentrate on having a good time. This should be your only goal. Don’t start talking to her, only because you want to convince her to that you’re worth being dated or whatever. That way you won’t have the pressure of saying everything right so you don’t screw up the chance of going home with her.Remember: Women appreciate honesty! Don’t try to impress her by juicing up your stories.Lead a normal conversation, conversation in which you just want to get to know her.How to break the ice:You: Hi. How’s your day been?She – a bit surprised: Oh hi. :) It’s been fine. How was yours?You: Stressful. I have so much to do because of that exam I have next week. I have to read two more books and they’re not an easy read.She: Sounds tough!You: It is. Btw I’m John! Nice to meet you!She: Emily, nice to meet you too!You: So.. What do you do?She: I’m a teacher!You: Really! At which school?It’s always a good idea to do an activity that doesn’t require much attention parallel to having a conversation. Something like billiard, darts, bowling, cooking, sports, taking a walk,… It takes the pressure away and makes everything flow smoother and more natural.If you’re interested in getting to a deeper emotional level in your conversations, check out the article How To Talk On An Emotional Level.Signals others (including women) give youNot asking any questions = Next topic please!Looking at the clock several times = Please Scotty beam me out of here!“Mh”, “aha”, “ok” + seeming absent minded = You are boring!!!Looking around the room = All of the above.Staring into your eyes and listening closely = You are fascinating! Tell me more!Looking at your lips and not listening to your words (at a date) = Please undress me!Read more: Become Successful With Women – The 9000 Word Guide
Friends going to strip club... my cousin strips there?
My friends are often going out to strip clubs. Today, it's one of my really good friends' birthday and they're going tonight. I always find an excuse not to go, but honestly, I'd like to go with them eventually. The thing is, I know my cousin dances there, I'm just not sure when. I should also add that I don't speak to my cousin, and haven't for many years. We used to be really close when we were young, but grew ( far ) apart when she started acting up. Should I go and hope she's not dancing? If I go and she is there, what should I do?
My cousin has a crush on me. What should I do?
Wow. I've been their. Disgusting feeling.Funny thing is, the reason I also said wow is because a Co worker of mine today kept talking about his cousins he has had sex with.Yes you read that right. He enjoys having sec with cousins. To him despite being related by blood on some levels he sees them as woman and he as a man has needs.4 tips I used to assist me to getting rid of her feelings for me:laugh it off.Tell her she's so cute. These 2 are a good way to let her know you aren't interested, you're not taking her advanceHug her tight and then let her go. Do this from to tone to show her you care but Only as a cousin. Sometimes in this situation you can lose a good relative off of stupid stuff like this.Have you just spoKen to her 1 on 1. This is the perfect time to voice your opinion and what is right from wrong. Sit her down since she will listen to you. Be gentle with your responses but let her know you're serious. I know you don't want this spreading to other relatives.So far, have you found any other actionable tips you may be able to use now to get this situation under control : )?
Im so jealous of my sister with brain cancer sometimes i just want her to just die!!?
shes 15 and im 17 She's very popular and i'm not. Right now she's in the hospital and all the attention is on her and I'm not getting as much. uhh right now i honestly wish shed just die and i get more attention some. i'm always known as Cassi's brother. ;( my sister used to be my bestfriend til she starts getting more attention. :( i don't feel sorry for her. why do i feel like this :(